Hey girls why do guys cheat/flirt?

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Ok girls...
Why do guys cheat or flirt? Is it just a sex thing or the challenge.
My opinion, its the challenge moreso, that's what I enjoy.
I'm a player!!! However, I will draw the line...

Your opinions>>>😕

Let the fun begin!
 
I'm definetly a flirt, but I have never cheated. I don't understand why people cheat in general. It has happened to me and it sucks.
 
Me personally I've never cheated on anyone I was with and yall know that when you with someone its like all the dayum men come out and want to get with you lol. Nor have I flirted . None of the men I have dated or been involved with ever flirted with other women while in my presence they had to much respect for me to do something that might make me feel uncomfortable which obviously flirtting does. I have been cheated on why I dont know, When I have asked other men and women friends as to why they have done it the answers are simple. They arent happy in there current relationship, sometimes it takes someone else for them to realize that they are with the wrong person, or there is no longer love there. Most people would say because I know I have if your unhappy or no longer in love with the person why not move on and do you. I was married and unhappy and I knew for a long time that I didnt love him but it took me a little while to see the big picture and although I never cheated on him I did leave him. I dont regret staying for staying as long as I did because everything has its time and someone helped me see that. For a straight answer as to why people cheat only the cheaters can really answer everyone has a story. 🙂
 
Sexyangel329 said:
Me personally I've never cheated on anyone I was with and yall know that when you with someone its like all the dayum men come out and want to get with you lol.
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I don't know if it's so much that men.. OR woman.. come out of the woodwork.... i think you're just MORE im tume w/ what is going on around you when you're taken. you're not concerned w/ "hooking up"...being relaxed... you get hit w/ more of whats infront of you...
thats why it seems there is sooo much more when you're taken.

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haha funny u mention this.. my friend is doin a report on why guys cheat, and she has sOoOo many people debatin this.. i think men cheat because they feel they want the "newness" that they dont have in their relationship with their partner. i mean not JUST men cheat, it could be the same for women. but i feel that most women are more sensitive and care about their guys, unlike SOME guys who dont show any remorse for hurting their girls' feelings. it sucks to be cheated on but its a part of life :crap
 
I don't think there will ever be an "one" answer as to why people cheat. it could be the challenge, the "how far can I go without getting caught" thing. me a cheater nah, a flirt? hell yeah. it's all a part of life, animal magnetism and all that crap. but it's all good, as long as you know that you dont' plan on acting on it if your involved with someone. if any of that made sense then explain it to me!.lolololol😉
 
okay flirting I can see as an okay thing as long as you don't act on it. cheating thats a whole different ball game. I have never cheated tempted but no I think too much and that saves my highney. It's good to have a concsious. But I agree with Angie, people in long term relationships probably cheat because they are not happy.
 
Lamatrix said:
okay flirting I can see as an okay thing as long as you don't act on it. cheating thats a whole different ball game.
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Have to agree girl, a little innocent flirting isn't a huge
problem in a relationship, and it isn't enough to end one.
Frankly, I think if ya flirt in front of your guy, he may get
jealous, but for the right reasons. For one, if he feels slightly
jealous, it may mean he cares. He may also, see how attractive
you can be to others, and make him more aware, of how much
he loves you, and how he needs to do right by you, in order
to keep you. In general, people cheat cuz they can!
 
1st off... the WOMEN cheat just as much as the men. the ladies are playa's TOO...! lol

bottom line to cheating... like Naya said.. it's animal magnetism.. its human nature to be attracted to something...!
the cheating has nothing to do w/ love....
it's more of an instinctive reaction.... like a $20 on the floor... that'd be hard to walk by & not pick it up right????
maybe it's a bad analogy.. BUT the point is.... sometimes we see something we like & are pulled to it...
some people can fight it.. some can't...
i think that may be why guys have a little less guilt about cheating..
they do not associate w/ love.. but more of an act.. behavior.

I am by no means condoning the act of cheating.. b/c all it does it hurt the one you DO love.. & it's not right.
BUT there is absolutely MORE to the act of cheating than.. YOU'RE JUST A DOG!!!!
 
Flirting is allowed...
esp. if it gets you worked up to run home to your real love...
that happens too, it's like amental foreplay.
you're out.... there is some flirting going on... BUT it makes you want to run home to YOURS.... and......

HEY Stevie B.. is on KTU.. " I wanna be the one"
 
If your going to cheat, why hurt the other persons feelings? Just break up with that damn person and hit it off with the other. Its better to be broken up with, then to find out your man or woman is cheating on you. Thats some sad shit. And why do people flirt?..for the fun of it?..LOL
 
Crystal2001 said:
If your going to cheat, why hurt the other persons feelings? Just break up with that damn person and hit it off with the other. Its better to be broken up with, then to find out your man or woman is cheating on you. Thats some sad shit. And why do people flirt?..for the fun of it?..LOL
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babygirl, things would be so much easier in love (hell in life) if people followed these simple rules, of finish one thing before you start the other, but unfortunately that is never the case. See people want to know they have something secure to go home too, while they are out there messing around, because everyone needs security in life, but they all also crave excitement.
 
Dang, I don't know the reason why people cheat .. Hmmm I've never been cheated on but, Then again maybe what I didn't know didn't hurt.. Ya know. Anyway's I think it's just much easier to be honest, isn't it hard work to go cheating and tip toeing around with other people behind your other halfs back.. I say Fu&$ a cheater lol I think a real man or women is one who can be faithful and if not at least have the courtesy to ask if your into open relationships that way we have a right to choose what situations we end up in.🙂
 
But isnt that sad naya? EXCITEMENT??? OOOO man, this is why im not dating..all guys are dogs...at least..the ones I know.
 
hmmmm! i never cheated or flirted with anyone while in a relationship! when i was single yeaaa oh hell yeaaa i did it but with single girls only.! BuT in a relationshipp oh hell no that is not koo to do..i agree with sexyangel n naya of wut they saidd only the cheaters can answer that q.!
 
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