Missing Girl in Aruba

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Carlitos...do you really think it's right to call this girl a bitch?? I highly doubt that she is alive after all this time. Give me a break! First, those 3 guys accuse the 2 security guards of being with Natalee the last time they saw her...now they keep changing their story every 5 mins. I truly believe they did something to her and hopefully they will break down and confess in the near future. Her family deserves to know the truth regardless of what anyone thinks of her choices. If she was harmed, SHE DID NOT DESERVE IT..no matter what choices she made!

Ramdi (FreestyleGal)
 
Freestygal said:
Carlitos...do you really think it's right to call this girl a bitch?? I highly doubt that she is alive after all this time. Give me a break! First, those 3 guys accuse the 2 security guards of being with Natalee the last time they saw her...now they keep changing their story every 5 mins. I truly believe they did something to her and hopefully they will break down and confess in the near future. Her family deserves to know the truth regardless of what anyone thinks of her choices. If she was harmed, SHE DID NOT DESERVE IT..no matter what choices she made!

Ramdi (FreestyleGal)
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Yea, you're right. She's not a bitch! Just stupid, young, and prob. naive WHICH, I might add, is exactly why this happened.
 
Ok Carlitos..I dont completely disagree with you that she made a stupid mistake..but shouldnt the guys that possibly harmed her be the ones to blame here?? Being stupid isnt an invitation to be harmed (if they did indeed harm her).

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Ok honestly she made a STUPID mistake...it is the guys fault no doubt but the fact she made that stupid mistake let all this happen...cuz had she just stayed back she would be home now
 
the bottom line is... she was wasted and not thinking straight, I am sure drinkers in here have made that mistake a few times, and yes she should know that if she gets like that when she drinks, she should have watched her drinking, the friends should have pulled her out of the car no matter what the hell she was saying or how she was saying it, or told the police, the adults should have been notified when she left with the guys,and the ones responsible should pay to the full extent of the law no matter that they are rich or anglos or whatever, it is apparent that soem thing happened that night, three guys a drunk 18 year old, who knows if maybe she got slipped some type of drug in her drink, I wouldn't put it past anyone to do that, especially in outta the country places.
 
I hope this gets resolved and those responsible punished
 
I agree with you Naya..they should pay! She may have been drunk but she didnt say "Please hurt me or kill me". If they were decent guys, they would have just left her alone! The blame should be on them, not on Natalee.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
maybe now kids her age will learn if they go away and go out partyin to leave the drinks behide and dont talk to people u dont feel a good vibe with . just say no its not that hard .
 
Well now I know why my mother and others are always like be careful, don't go off with people you don't know, dont leave your drinks lying around, stay near your friends and brother...normally I roll my eyes cuz I think it's common sense but I guess the reminders are a good thing cuz people seem to forget about their safety
 
JOEDOCPA said:
maybe now kids her age will learn if they go away and go out partyin to leave the drinks behide and dont talk to people u dont feel a good vibe with . just say no its not that hard .
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Ha! These kids today will never learn. This isn't the first time, nor will it be the last. I mean, how long have we been saying this?

Don't drink too much.

Don't talk/walk to people you don't know.

Don't take a drink if you don't know the person that's giving it to you.

Don't leave your drink unattended. Ever!

DON'T TRUST ANYONE!

 
cArLiToS WaY said:



Ha! These kids today will never learn. This isn't the first time, nor will it be the last. I mean, how long have we been saying this?

Don't drink too much.

Don't talk/walk to people you don't know.

Don't take a drink if you don't know the person that's giving it to you.

Don't leave your drink unattended. Ever!

DON'T TRUST ANYONE!

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I agree %1000 with you Carlito, I get worried when my son hangs out with his boys at the car club, not because of what he may do, cause I hope to God that he is smart enough not to do anything stupid, but you never know what other peeps are capable of, and you have to be 100% aware of your surroundings.

it's ;like driving, you can be the most careful person driving, but there is always an a*****e in the street that thinks he is above the law and speeds and takes your llife... it's a shame.
 
Freestygal said:
I agree with you Naya..they should pay! She may have been drunk but she didnt say "Please hurt me or kill me". If they were decent guys, they would have just left her alone! The blame should be on them, not on Natalee.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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This I have to disagree with. Natalee is to blame also.

And if you want to get into the finger pointing game...her friends need to be blamed also...cuz not only did they let her go off with these guys...they did NOT bother to tell anyone about it. HELLO!!!!!!!!!!! That's your girl! And she's goin off with 3 strangers? HELL NO! Idda been bringin down the roof yellin for someone to come help or something! :director
 
Krystal said:
This I have to disagree with. Natalee is to blame also.

And if you want to get into the finger pointing game...her friends need to be blamed also...cuz not only did they let her go off with these guys...they did NOT bother to tell anyone about it. HELLO!!!!!!!!!!! That's your girl! And she's goin off with 3 strangers? HELL NO! Idda been bringin down the roof yellin for someone to come help or something! :director
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Natalee wasn't forced to drink what she drank. She made that choice. She also made the choice to get into the car with those people.

And Krys is right. Her friends should've called anyone for help.
 
I think everyone involved in this case was irresponsible from Natalee, to her friends to the suspects...
 
All Im saying is that, yes, she made wrong choices, and maybe her friends did too, but does that give these boys the right to harm or kill her?? NO!!! It is not an invitation for that to happen! I am standing by that!

Randi (FeestyleGal)
 
I don't think in ANY of the views expressed here that ANYONE said it was OKAY for those guys to do whatever it was that they did.

*Goin back to read cuz maybe I missed something*
 
Well it doesn't give them the right to kill or harm her but it seems everyone's irresponsibility led to this...
 
SONYA said:
Well it doesn't give them the right to kill or harm her but it seems everyone's irresponsibility led to this...
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BINGO, everyone from natalee to the perps are responsible. NO it doesn't give them the right randi, not at all, but you also can't leave yourself open to attacks. I hope they at least find out something soon.
 
The scary thing is that things like this always happen and even tho this case got a lot of attention (even here in Canada it's on the news) the sad thing is this will happen again...I hope people learn from this
 
I agree with you Naya...and that is one of the many reasons why I have never been fond of bars and drinking and I certainly do not condone this behavior. I really feel for Natalee's family because right now their main concern is finding their daughter and they have to be going through hell right now.

Krystal...I wasnt saying that anyone said that it was ok for those guys to do anything to her, it just seemed to me that most people are blaming Natalee and her friends more than the guys. I guess we will have to see what happens when it finally comes out what happened to her and why.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
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