What do you think hurts more?

[Erin]

If someone tells you upfront that they dont want to be with you anymore for someone else, Or if the person stays with you and cheats on you behind your back and you find out later? ERIN:sosad

 

[JOEDOCPA]

what i hate the most is when i get lied to i never get told the truth.

 

[melissa figueroa]

Find out later hurts more as you can see i am going throught that and that sun-of-a-gun didn't have the ballz to tell me in the first place.Some people would rather not know but it is better to know upfront cause then it is where they both can move on .Not to mention std's and all nobady neds to be at risk for no one even if you love him

 

[Erin]

I hear ya Melissa! :sick

 

[JOEDOCPA]

true keep your head up Melissa u dont need him you will find someone better.

 

[melissa figueroa]

Thanks Joe I know that there are plenty of guys that will treat me right but the only thing is not to many share my passion for freestyle wich he does 100% to find that again will be hard.LOL.

 

[melissa figueroa]

erin need someone to blow some steam off or chat im me freestylechula80@aol.com

 

[JOEDOCPA]

your welcome freestyle is my fav. if u ever need to talk just email me at inmemoryofbigden@aol.com

 

[Erin]

Thanks Melissa, I will take you up on that!🙂 ERIN

 

[Krystal]

I'd rather know up front 🙂

 

[michelle28]

exactly!! who wants to be cheated on??

*MICHELLE**

 

[Edalgiere]

how about them letting u go becase they love you

 

[Edalgiere]

think niether is a good thing

 

[crazygirl]

getting lied to hurts like a bi*ch, i'm going through that right now as well
men don't have the balls to tell u anything up front

 

[Enigma]

Or if the person stays with you and cheats on you behind your back and you find out later? ERIN:sosad

That right there hurts more. 🙂 Because at least...if they were to tell you upfront...you can handle it and realize that it was her/his lost.

Joe...you never answered this thread's question 🙂

-antonio

 

[mzcrazybtch]

it hurts more but yes it's the person's lost...it'll take time to get over the pain but they are the ones who look bad, not you.

 

[Coro'sGirl]

tell me y my ex told me he wasnt my friend no more and he was like have a nice life and good luck wit this new guy im talking to uhhhhhh he told me he felt nothing for me not even as a friend he basically kicked me out of his life and it hurt so bad :sosad then the next day his cousin who i was close with told me my ex told him not to talk to me so he wasnt my friend either oh well thats two losers i dont have to deal with i gained one good person in the long run :inlove

 

[JOEDOCPA]

i wanna know up front if someone likes me i dont wanna be lied to again like the other one did to me .

 

[Liz_Torres]

I want to know up front

 

[myonlysweetie]

For me, its best to know upfront. If that person doesn't want to be with you, I would rather them tell me then go behind my back. Once you find out, you can pick up the pieces and go on!