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Thank you everyone...I still feel real crappy, but I'm not the crying mess I was this morning. That is so important to me cause I don't want my daughter to see me crying all day. She'll be getting home soon and we'll be doing our yearly tradition of making him a birthday cake to sing to him tonight, and maybe then we'll drive up to the cemetary and I'll leave him a card I wrote out for him. Hopefully this year the things we put down for him on his grave won't be stolen this year.
 
When your daughter gets home hug her and look in her eyes. Then embrace her once again as you tell her you love her and allow yourself to feel embraced by both your daughter and your son. He's always been with you.
 
You know LaBetty, I do that all the time. Those 2 would have been like two peas in a pod. He looked alot like her too when she was born except, Carlitos had these really light eyebrows. They were so light, it almost looked like he had none and my daughter whan she was born was so hairy we called her lobita. Even the backs of her ears were all fuzzy. Thank goodness that hair fell out, otherwise she'd be really embarrassed now. And then my son was chunkier- Martina was 8lbs8oz and 21 and a half inches when she was born and my son was 21" and 10lbs4oz. He was a little butterball.We used to call him rollitos. But whenever I feel like I want to hug him, my daughter's the victim.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss. It saddens me to read this. I can't imagine what you are going thru. But remember one thing the one way to help you thru this is to talk about it. whether its us or any one. No one can tell you that he wasn't a part of the family. He was a part of you and a part of your ex. You can hit me up pm too if you ever need to talk. don't worry girl we all here for ya.
 
aye lo siento mucho Dianita. 🙁 and like other's have said don't ever feel bad over venting up in here. you'd be surprised the support you get. ((HUGS))
 

My Heart goes out to you, can't imagine the pain..truly sorry for
what you've gone thru.. even tho your baby didnt live after birth..
always remember he did live and breath Thru You, In You..
he was alive in you for the 10mths you carried him, therefore you
still gave him Life! Im so sorry your lil angel had to go..but he will
always be in your heart, body and soul..looking down on you from
heaven..god bless you and yr family! :aangel
 
Dianita ma, I know its hard ma, and it will always stay with you, but just know that your little angelito is in heaven looking over you and your family. Ma a big hug and kiss goes out to you mami, and your nena mami. Mu@@@@
 
May God always bless and take care of you Dianita and yours. Sometimes we don't understand why things happen but God has a purpose for everything. Just know that he's in HIS care and one day you'll be reunited.

Take care mama..
 
Wow, your story is very heartfelt, Im very sorry for your loss. Just keep being an excellent mother to your daughter and her love and appreciation for you will always make u a feel a little better.
 
I just wanna take the chance to thank you all for replying. Believe it or not, you guys made yesterday a little easier for me. The last couple of years I basically went through it alone and a few times was actually told to shup up or drop the subject and was kinda waiting for one of those replies, but you were all so great and understanding. You guys are the best!!! Que Diosito los bendiga siempre, siempre a ustedes!!!
 
Que quede claro, "tu no estas sola, para eso etamos, y siempre estaremos"....

Amen, y que DIOS te bendiga a ti y tus seres queridos tambien !!!

Dianita said:
I just wanna take the chance to thank you all for replying. Believe it or not, you guys made yesterday a little easier for me. The last couple of years I basically went through it alone and a few times was actually told to shup up or drop the subject and was kinda waiting for one of those replies, but you were all so great and understanding. You guys are the best!!! Que Diosito los bendiga siempre, siempre a ustedes!!!
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:sosad OMG, I love you guys, I really do! My own mother hates me and my dad passed away in 99 and I've had no one. I just can't tell you guys enough how great you all are. I'll tell you guys, just by chance I stumbled onto CF and now I kinda feel like God brought me here.:sosad
 
Dianita said:
OMG, I love you guys, I really do! My own mother hates me and my dad passed away in 99 and I've had no one. I just can't tell you guys enough how great you all are. I'll tell you guys, just by chance I stumbled onto CF and now I kinda feel like God brought me here.:sosad
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Well then no more :sosad and a lot more of 😀 and :dancingb.
 
It wasn't by chance you stumble onto this site....it was meant to be. just remember we're here for you always. don't hesitate to ask or say something
 
Dianita I am so sorry for your loss...you had me in tears reading that...I know your little boy is up in heaven watching over you & his sister....don't ever be afraid to post anything on here..we're all here for you girl...hugs to you & your daughter
 
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