So Men Like Aggressive Women...
It's old news that many men complain that their wives/partners are not interesting or interested enough in their sex lives. This is the most common excuse given by men for having secret affairs with other women. They seek a more assertive sexual partner. Well, today's women have become more aggressive in both the boardroom and the bedroom. For the sexually aggressive women, and the majority of men who desire them, there are many advantages to this ever-growing female independence.
A Passion for Aggression
To the majority of men, one wonderful thing about an aggressive woman is that she's likely to be bold in and out of the bedroom. She's completely in tune with what she enjoys when it comes to lovemaking. She'll always be up for a sexual escapade, willing to experiment with new ideas, and keep the romance fresh with surprises and spontaneity. Men can rest assured that today's sexually aggressive woman is not shy or uncomfortable about discussing fantasies and naughty little ideas. Not only are men turned on by the female aggressor, but they often have a sense of relief from the pressure to always be the ones to initiate and perform. Although most guys swear that they would do virtually anything to land a woman who would treat them like sexual prey, in the minority there are men who feel quite differently.
Threatening, Not Titillating?
Tradition in society has held that young girls are to be "good" girls, and boys are reared to become the "man of the house" and rulers of their domain. With women increasingly becoming the aggressor, some guys find this transition uncomfortable, even when they have been fantasizing about the scenario for years. Some feel intimidated, even threatened, by sexually aggressive women filling in a role that used to be thought of as exclusively for the man. Some men with partners who have ravaging libidos fear that if they cannot perform to the extent or frequency that their women demand, their women will take their insatiable desires elsewhere. Although not as common, there are men who claim that the sexual aggressiveness of their mates actually caused a diminished desire for sex simply because they knew it was so readily available. Because there was no challenge, pursuit, or excitement of the "hunt", some men actually lost their appetites. Slut vs. Saint
Although the majority of men claim they desire for their women to be sexually aggressive, women are often confused by male contradictions. There is often a marked difference between who men want to sleep with, and who they want to marry. They send out the message that they want their women to be either a slut or a saint, with little definition in between. It is the seemingly saintly woman that men want to take home to mother, take to social functions, and then marry and live with happily ever after. Why is it, then, that the very last thing many men do on the eve of marrying these saints is to hire sexy "sluts" for their entertainment at bachelor parties? It is from this male contradiction that women struggle to determine how aggressive is too aggressive. Trying to figure out if a woman's best chances to nab her Prince Charming is to act saintly or slutty is too unpredictable to ponder. Regardless, the sexually aggressive female should never confuse being an active partner in bed as being unladylike or slutty. Being sexually aggressive does not translate into being promiscuous in the healthily aggressive woman. With women taking more control over their lives, including their sex lives, sexual inhibitions continue to slowly diminish and the emergence of the more sexually aggressive female is inevitable.
It's old news that many men complain that their wives/partners are not interesting or interested enough in their sex lives. This is the most common excuse given by men for having secret affairs with other women. They seek a more assertive sexual partner. Well, today's women have become more aggressive in both the boardroom and the bedroom. For the sexually aggressive women, and the majority of men who desire them, there are many advantages to this ever-growing female independence.
A Passion for Aggression
To the majority of men, one wonderful thing about an aggressive woman is that she's likely to be bold in and out of the bedroom. She's completely in tune with what she enjoys when it comes to lovemaking. She'll always be up for a sexual escapade, willing to experiment with new ideas, and keep the romance fresh with surprises and spontaneity. Men can rest assured that today's sexually aggressive woman is not shy or uncomfortable about discussing fantasies and naughty little ideas. Not only are men turned on by the female aggressor, but they often have a sense of relief from the pressure to always be the ones to initiate and perform. Although most guys swear that they would do virtually anything to land a woman who would treat them like sexual prey, in the minority there are men who feel quite differently.
Threatening, Not Titillating?
Tradition in society has held that young girls are to be "good" girls, and boys are reared to become the "man of the house" and rulers of their domain. With women increasingly becoming the aggressor, some guys find this transition uncomfortable, even when they have been fantasizing about the scenario for years. Some feel intimidated, even threatened, by sexually aggressive women filling in a role that used to be thought of as exclusively for the man. Some men with partners who have ravaging libidos fear that if they cannot perform to the extent or frequency that their women demand, their women will take their insatiable desires elsewhere. Although not as common, there are men who claim that the sexual aggressiveness of their mates actually caused a diminished desire for sex simply because they knew it was so readily available. Because there was no challenge, pursuit, or excitement of the "hunt", some men actually lost their appetites. Slut vs. Saint
Although the majority of men claim they desire for their women to be sexually aggressive, women are often confused by male contradictions. There is often a marked difference between who men want to sleep with, and who they want to marry. They send out the message that they want their women to be either a slut or a saint, with little definition in between. It is the seemingly saintly woman that men want to take home to mother, take to social functions, and then marry and live with happily ever after. Why is it, then, that the very last thing many men do on the eve of marrying these saints is to hire sexy "sluts" for their entertainment at bachelor parties? It is from this male contradiction that women struggle to determine how aggressive is too aggressive. Trying to figure out if a woman's best chances to nab her Prince Charming is to act saintly or slutty is too unpredictable to ponder. Regardless, the sexually aggressive female should never confuse being an active partner in bed as being unladylike or slutty. Being sexually aggressive does not translate into being promiscuous in the healthily aggressive woman. With women taking more control over their lives, including their sex lives, sexual inhibitions continue to slowly diminish and the emergence of the more sexually aggressive female is inevitable.
