Single Parenting And Dating

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La Mas Grande said:
NOT EVEN CLOSE DARLIN :lol BUT EVEN SO IT WAS A NICE DEBATE ALTHOUGH YOUR DEAD WRONG.

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Well I Think You Already Lost By Admitting You Lie About Your age, And You Say You Are Younger Than You Are, So Therefore I Must Conclude That Your Not
29 This Number Be Must A Couple Years Younger Than You Actually Are.
 
hey I lie about my age all the time. Nothing wrong with that. I especially love it when I get asked for ID.
 
BlueScorpio said:
Well I Think You Already Lost By Admitting You Lie About Your age, And You Say You Are Younger Than You Are, So Therefore I Must Conclude That Your Not
29 This Number Be Must A Couple Years Younger Than You Actually Are.
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ROTFLMAOOOOO YOUR TOO FUNNY. AS TO WHY MY AGE MAKES A DIFFERENCE IS BEYOND ME BUT THIS THREAD IS ABOUT DATING AND BEING A SINGLE PARENT IN WHICH YOU HAVE YET TO GIVE A VALID REASON AS TO WHY I SHOULDNT DATE. YOUR REASON OF ME ENDING UP KNOCK UP ISNT A VALID ONE, ALL OF MY CHILDREN ARE FROM ONE DAD WHO I WAS WITH FOR MANY YEARS. JUST BECAUSE YOU DATE DOESNT MEAN YOUR GONNA END UP PREGNANT. I'M A MOTHER FIRST BUT IM ALSO A WOMEN WHO DOESNT WANT TO GROW OLD WITH OUT A MATE.
 
Lamatrix said:
hey I lie about my age all the time. Nothing wrong with that. I especially love it when I get asked for ID.
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Well I Can See You're 33, I Don't Like To Lie Specially About My Age! It's A
Little Disrecpectul If You Ask Me, But I'm Not Sit Here Selfrighteous When I
Have Lied About My Age I Think Twice In My Lifetime.
 
La Mas Grande said:
ROTFLMAOOOOO YOUR TOO FUNNY. AS TO WHY MY AGE MAKES A DIFFERENCE IS BEYOND ME BUT THIS THREAD IS ABOUT DATING AND BEING A SINGLE PARENT IN WHICH YOU HAVE YET TO GIVE A VALID REASON AS TO WHY I SHOULDNT DATE. YOUR REASON OF ME ENDING UP KNOCK UP ISNT A VALID ONE, ALL OF MY CHILDREN ARE FROM ONE DAD WHO I WAS WITH FOR MANY YEARS. JUST BECAUSE YOU DATE DOESNT MEAN YOUR GONNA END UP PREGNANT. I'M A MOTHER FIRST BUT IM ALSO A WOMEN WHO DOESNT WANT TO GROW OLD WITH OUT A MATE.
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Maybe You Should Read My Post To ChuckD.
 
ahhhhh but it isn't disrespectful. Not to me and I am not sittin here being selfrighteous. Honestly those who know me know me well KNow EVERYthing about me.
 
ACTUALLY I DID AND ALL IT MAKE ME THINK IS THAT YOU HAVE SOME MISERABLE EXPERIENCES DATING. AND WHAT I THINK CHUCKIE POO MEANT ABOUT ME BEING HAPPY IS THAT ITS OKAY FOR ME TO LOOK FOR SOME ONE WHO I WOULD WANT TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH WHICH IN THE END LEADS TO BEING HAPPY AND CONTENT


BlueScorpio said:
Maybe You Should Read My Post To ChuckD.
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Lamatrix said:
ahhhhh but it isn't disrespectful. Not to me and I am not sittin here being selfrighteous. Honestly those who know me know me well KNow EVERYthing about me.
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I'm Not Saying You're A Bad Person, But Me It Is Because When Lie About You're
Age What It Is Your Saying That Your Afraid That If I Know Your Age I May Not Hang Around You Or Be With You And By Doing So Taking Advantage of The Fact That May Be Would Not! ( This Usually Applies To Dating)
 
I don't lie to someone I'm dating. lol plus i'm not dating I'm taken.
but just cause you date doesn't get you pregnant. Having unprotected sex does. and it doesn't mean that if you date you are gonna have sex with the person you are dating. But if you are protection is always available and they have extra tough condems. lol omg I'm crackin up at this. thanks for the laughs.
 
La Mas Grande said:
ACTUALLY I DID AND ALL IT MAKE ME THINK IS THAT YOU HAVE SOME MISERABLE EXPERIENCES DATING. AND WHAT I THINK CHUCKIE POO MEANT ABOUT ME BEING HAPPY IS THAT ITS OKAY FOR ME TO LOOK FOR SOME ONE WHO I WOULD WANT TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH WHICH IN THE END LEADS TO BEING HAPPY AND CONTENT[/QUOTE/]

Your Asumtion Is Incorrect I Did Get From My Expiriences They Are From Others
Like Some Of My Friends And Family. Thing I Seen On The Job Every Where Pretty Much. Maybe You Missed That Part That Said If Your Not Happy With
Yourself Your Not Going to Be Happy With Someone Else.
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And Who Said I Wasnt Happy With Myself. I Happen To Liek The Person I Am And Wouldnt Mind Meeting Someone To Share That With. Your Saying That Is Wrong, Be For Real
 
Lamatrix said:
I don't lie to someone I'm dating. lol plus i'm not dating I'm taken.
but just cause you date doesn't get you pregnant. Having unprotected sex does. and it doesn't mean that if you date you are gonna have sex with the person you are dating. But if you are protection is always available and they have extra tough condems. lol omg I'm crackin up at this. thanks for the laughs.
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Yeah I Had One Of Those Extra Tough Condoms I Thought I Was May Of Leather
But I Broke.(lol) NP
 
La Mas Grande said:
And Who Said I Wasnt Happy With Myself. I Happen To Liek The Person I Am And Wouldnt Mind Meeting Someone To Share That With. Your Saying That Is Wrong, Be For Real
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But You Already Have Met A Person To Share Your Life With.(Hello The Father Of Your Children). Am Not Saying That AnyThing Is Wrong All I Say I Think I May Not Be A Good Idea To Be Dating When You Have 3 Already.
 
So She Should Become A Nun?
That Isn't Realistic. Again Why Should She Become Pregnant From Dating? After All There Is A Procedure That Prevents That And Who Says She Is Going To Sleep Around. Last I Saw Two People Dating Didn't Mean Sleeping With Each Other.
 
We're human being first in formost. We all have needs. Whether someone has 3 or 50 kids. She has the right to find someone to complement her as a woman. She has 3 kids so what does that have to do with anything. She just has to be more careful and protective of her kids in finding someone to date. No one has the right answer for finding someone special and sometimes we make mistakes. God know's I have but we live and learn. Find a man who will accept you babies is hard but there out there!! Just don't settle for anything but the best for you and your kids. If it can happen to Carol Brady it can happen to you! LOL Seriously, it can.
 
LMG, back to the subject...

I have been single since I was pregnant with my 2nd son who is now 6 years old. Granted, I was still so in love with my boys father that I didn't consider myself single for 4 of those years (still very intimate with him), but for the last two years, I've been "alone".

I dread dating... I mean, I feel like no one is going to be good enough or love my kids enough, ya know? Don't get me wrong.. I know so many women who meet someone that they wind up marrying and that man loves their kid(s) but I just am so weiry of that not being the case here.

I guess now that I'm ok with me dating... (had to get out of the "I'm a mom, not a woman" type of thinking to the thinking of "I'm a woman not just a mom". I guess the only way to do it is to do it on our free time. When the kids are with their father. Never have the man around the kids until it's a real thing.

I wish you luck... as I do myself!!! 😉
 
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