Signs of a cheating ASS OOps I mean man

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Hey has any one ever caught their man cheating? How about had suspicions of a cheating spouse?

What did you do?
what did you find?

Or have you ever asked and he came clean about it. ( LOL thats a joke what man would tell you the truth)
any interesting stories I want to hear
 
First of all.......You posted this in the wrong section. It goes in the "Love Forum". This thread will be moved to there.


And second of all............Are you okay??????????? :smirk
 
oooo this should be fun 😛

*sits back and anxiously awaits cheating man caught stories*
 
One time I went to pick my X up & i found him with some ghetto b1tch and she had my pants on..I was like hell nah. I made her go upstairs and take my pants off. Then I smacked him so hard his earring flew out his ear LOL. The one that did it was when i found out he was bi-sexual too. And the guy was BUSTED!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
hmmmmmmmm stories..........well lets see there was this one time I gave my ex my whip (b/c his loser ass didn't have one) and while I was waiting for him to pick me up he was 1 1/2 hours late, when he finally does come his x-girlfriend was in the car. dique she was having probs and he needed to help her. needless to say she got the warning to get the fuk out my whip or get her ass beat and of course he got a good mouth full and stranded about 45 min from his crib.
 
Um lets see...right after my daughter was born, my ex started talking in his sleep- that gave me some clues, he also did other things, like he started sleeping in the living room and he got the haircut, started coming home at strange hours and going back out to "work" late at night. When he bought me home some nice stds, I obviously knew. I came right out and asked him and at that point he couldn't deny. There had been many times before that that I had suspected, lack of interest in sexual relations, a certain womanly smell on him. He just said I was crazy and being too jealous. So after I had got the stds (I still thank God daily that they were things that could be cured, especialy since I was breast feeding my daughter. Eeww, to think he came home to me and expected certain things after he had just been with the other chick and he hadn't even washed himself.....eewww. Anyway, he kept right on seeing her, she wound up pregnant. It was really tough cause at the time we were living in a really small redneck town in south central Virginia where everyone knew each other, and where ever I went people would stare and talk. The girl and her friends would call me and talk crap, he'd always defend her. I stayed with him for my daughter mostly, even though it was mostly later on for her that I finally separated. It wasn't as much as the actual act that did me in, but because it was ongoing and all the lies and deceit. I hate lies. And never once did he say sorry or try to regain my trust.
Since then, he came home with crabs- said one of the guys in his work crew had them and the crabs crawled off the guys butt, out of his clothes, across the work truck bench, into his clothes where they merrily settled down on his butt.....nice try..
There were the 7 hour trips to the deli, 12 hours to throw out garbage (yeah what did you bring it to Jersey?????). Good thing we hardly had sex anymore.
 
OMG Dianita that's awful!!!! He didn't deserve you but he did deserve the crabs!
 
Wow I had one ex-bf in particular that was always cheating...everytime I would tell people him and I were together I'd get a weird look and then that person would say something like "oh that's weird I thought he was with_________" yeah dealing with that for 4yrs wasn't fun...
 
daym. What an interesting read.

and I thought by the title of the thread, you were asking for a list of signs to tell if your man was cheating.
 
Well Chuck in my case, when people keep giving you weird looks and telling you that they thought he was with someone else when you tell them who you I think that's a sign lol
 
SONYA said:
Well Chuck in my case, when people keep giving you weird looks and telling you that they thought he was with someone else when you tell them who you I think that's a sign lol
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Wow. Sad. Sorry you went through that.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Wow. Sad. Sorry you went through that.
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It's one of those things that just makes you stronger and wiser...I actually don't hate him cuz it made me who I am today...I don't take things at face value anymore cuz of that experience and that's a good thing lol 🙂
 
SONYA said:
It's one of those things that just makes you stronger and wiser...I actually don't hate him cuz it made me who I am today...I don't take things at face value anymore cuz of that experience and that's a good thing lol 🙂
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And that's a good thing. 🙂
 
Yup as corny as it sounds what don't kill you make you stronger...I'm telling nothing truer (however you spell it) has ever been spoken
 
NVDisMa729 said:
Sometimes if it keeps happening over & over you start to think there's something wrong with yourself
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Exactly! On top of that he (my ex) would try to convince me that it was me, that I wasn't good enough, too fat, too ugly, stupid, worthless. I heard it all. I doubted myself as a person and as a woman. I was depressed. Now he's gone and I'm with someone else who actually thanks God that he's by my side. Guess who's crying now.
 
NVDisMa729 said:
Sometimes if it keeps happening over & over you start to think there's something wrong with yourself
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True but in my case I met someone else that broke that chain...although I'm no longer with him either have a normal relationship really put things into perspective and shows you that you're worth a lot more 🙂
 
SONYA said:
True but in my case I met someone else that broke that chain...although I'm no longer with him either have a normal relationship really put things into perspective and shows you that you're worth a lot more 🙂
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That's what happened with me too. We're still together, but even if one day it doesn't work out. He's encouraged me to find myself again and to notbe with someone who can't appreciate me or respect me.
 
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