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I don't call girls girls call me :heee

I don't bother...it's the girl that always call me. If not...next.

-antonio
 
well since we're in the new 21st century i say there should be a change its always been the guy to do everything for the women and i think its time for us guys to stand back now and watch the ladies do their part now.....right guys?

as hard it is for some of us to put the effort to go up to ya and say whats up, start a convo or whatever to find out that ya dont wanna give us the time and day i mean that sucks but this is part of life of what we go thru daily

i mean ya have girls out there that just act really stuck up and conceited some havin bad attitudes thats really a big turn off but if there were to be more nice girls these days to come up to guys and say whats up then i think that would be cool to see i for one wouldnt think of her being desperate or a pathetic loser its just about being a friendly person wantin to get to know someone thats all

but then again it would be very rare to see that happen
 
I know this for the guys to respond to, but in my opinion..

I NEVA call the guy.. You want me - you step up to me.. Plain & simple..

I know the guys have like that 3 day rule or something, but eventually they crawl out of the woodworks 😛
 
What if the situation was switched around and you have, let's say, two guys or two girls?

Thankfully, I'm not playing that dating game nor have I had to for six years now, but I don't remember if I made the first call or not, but the call was a follow up from the previous night and plans for a date were made for that Monday.

If you have to worry about making a simple call, maybe it isn't even worth it. In 2003, a lot of shit has changed. Just call the guy up and say "Hi, just wanted to see how you were doing". If he doesn't call back, phuck him. No loss.
 
Well I like it when the guy calls me cuz like everyone said it shows they have an interest in me & they care or whateva. But I also call the guy up as well. Cuz I know it probably starts to get tired after a while with the guy doing all the calling. So if I feel like talkin to him then shyt I just pick up the phone & call him. I ain't scurred...LOl.
And about the thing with girls goin up to guys & askin them whats up & shyt well I'm all about that too. I'm a very friendly female so I have no problem goin up to guys & talkin to them. Shyt ask my girlie Michelle she'll tell ya some stories....LOL :heee
 
hey good 4 u ladies who have the courage to make the moves. i think it shows we have come a long way!!
 
WOMAN RULE THE WORLD

WOMEN RULE This world and statistics show that women make up more than 70% of CEO and executives,,That means women are in charge of their future. Independent women are what ALL men REALLY want. A women that would be a partner NOT a DEPENDENT on all aspects of the relationship.
It was a Woman that initiated the meaning of UNITY, by making the making the flag with all 13 stars on it.
It was a Woman that created all of us.
It was a Woman that RAN this country for 8 years and let her husband take the credit.
Its a Woman that can bear a child,feed the hungry,budget the house, pay the bills,and organize everyones schedule>ALL IN THE SAME DAY!
Its a Woman that takes charge of her life. Majority of those women, WE LIKE TO CALL MOMMY,Sister,QUEEN,Bella,Chula,Mami,Prima,Tia,Abuela,Hija,PRINCESA.


FROM THE DESK OF NYPRCAN: REMEMBER WOMEN DO NOT WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN THEY MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.
 
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NYPRCAN said:
WOMEN RULE This world and statistics show that women make up more than 70% of CEO and executives,,That means women are in charge of their future. Independent women are what ALL men REALLY want. A women that would be a partner NOT a DEPENDENT on all aspects of the relationship.
It was a Woman that initiated the meaning of UNITY, by making the making the flag with all 13 stars on it.
It was a Woman that created all of us.
It was a Woman that RAN this country for 8 years and let her husband take the credit.
Its a Woman that can bear a child,feed the hungry,budget the house, pay the bills,and organize everyones schedule>ALL IN THE SAME DAY!
Its a Woman that takes charge of her life. Majority of those women, WE LIKE TO CALL MOMMY,Sister,QUEEN,Bella,Chula,Mami,Prima,Tia,Abuela,Hija,PRINCESA.


FROM THE DESK OF NYPRCAN: REMEMBER WOMEN DO NOT WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN THEY MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.



Lemme find out you been readin Naya's book again. Hollllllaaaaaa
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smoothrhythm said:
Lemme find out you been readin Naya's book again. Hollllllaaaaaa
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LMAO,,Naw, it's just the way I think, My Moms has always been my example of Womens Empowerment. I saw FIRST hand what a MAN shouldn't do to a woman and How a MAN shouldn't treat a woman....
I promised my Moms since I was 7 that I would always do my best never to become the MAN that was in our house, when I was 7. I've kept my Promise since. My eyes are watering up, gotta go.

FROM THE DESK OF NYPRCAN: Thank God for GOOD WOMEN.
 
HEY NYPRCAN...THANK YOU FOR REALLY APPRECIATIN US WOMEN,AND LETTIN EVERYONE HERE KNOW!!IF ONLY EVERY MAN GOT HIS HEAD OUT OF HIS ASS AND REALIZED HOW IMPORTANT WE ARE,THEN SOME OF US WOULD BE SO MUCH HAPPIER!!!

P.S. WISH U AND NYA,NUTHIN BUT HAPPINESS!!!
 
Pookie the check is in the mail..lol😉 Actually it's very rare that a man truly tells it like it is,like my boo just did. I am not trying to sound high and mighty, but the truth of the matter is that Women do all this and still alot of men look down on women, in many countries giving birth to a daughter is considered something bad, these men make the women walk behind them not next to them, they consider them to be cattle for barter, even in this day and age.

As for what my Bello said it's true , life starts with a WOMAN, and through life that said WOMAN is taking care of you till your grown and even then she still tries to take care of you..lol it's just in our nature right Bello? That's why I say he is a man's Man.

as for WOMEN calling first...I did, and I have not regretted that phone call ever. If your that confident with yourself then go for it Ladies, there is no shame in it.

Thanks Cheryl😉
 
I HEAR YA NYA,OUR PLACE IS BESIDE THEM NOT BEHIND THEM!!EVER SINCE I BOUGHT THIS CLUB,I REALIZED HOW MANY MEN ARE SO PIGHEADED.WHEN THEY DELIEVERD LIQUOR THE MAN SAID.."I NEED UR HUSBAND TO SIGN FOR THIS"..I JUST LAUGHED.WHEN I TOLD HIM I WAS THE OWNER,THOUGHT HIS FACE WAS GONNA FALL OFF....ITS CRAP LIKE THAT,THAT MAKES SO MANY WOMEN DETERMINED TO SUCCEED EVEN MORE.SO YEAH IT SUKS,SOME OF EM HAVE THEY HEADS UP THEY ASS,BUT THEN AGAIN THAT MAKES US STRIVE HARDER.
WOMEN SHOULD BE APPRECIATED FOR WHAT THEY GIVE,WHAT THEY STAND FOR AND THE THINGS THEY DO!!WE R NOT INFERRIOR..WE ARE EQUAL..BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!!
 
pHiLLyGurL25 said:
Well I like it when the guy calls me cuz like everyone said it shows they have an interest in me & they care or whateva. But I also call the guy up as well. Cuz I know it probably starts to get tired after a while with the guy doing all the calling. So if I feel like talkin to him then shyt I just pick up the phone & call him. I ain't scurred...LOl.
And about the thing with girls goin up to guys & askin them whats up & shyt well I'm all about that too. I'm a very friendly female so I have no problem goin up to guys & talkin to them. Shyt ask my girlie Michelle she'll tell ya some stories....LOL :heee

yes, some stories i could tell!!! LMAO! this girl is not shy about saying anything....and i mean ANYTHING to a guy she thinks looks good! (jennifer, i'm not even gonna mention what you said to bouncer rob the last time we went out!!) LMFAO!!! shyness is def. not one of you qualities, girl! :lol

**MICHELLE**
 
You are one lucky woman Nyasia! 🙂 May the lord bless you both...can't go wrong he's a gem. I'm a guy and I know how guys think their mentality. Not many Men who can offer a true heart and strong appreciation for Earth's loveliest species, the human female. 🙂 NYPRCAN your posts have made me so proud!!! :yeey

-antonio
 
Thanks Cheryl and Enigma, It's just my Mothers Life that molds Mine and its my Bella's life that motivates me, it my Princesses that give my life purpose. You see, WOMEN are what makes me who I am. I appreciate My Bella for the person she TRULY is. I KNOW the side noone has ventured, and I see nothing but BEAUTY.

FROM THE DESK OF NYPRCAN: If Beauty is in the eye of the beholder? but my Bella has surpassed my eye, zapped through my retina and hit me straight in the heart. So what is that called?
 
YOUR VERY WELCOME NYPRCAN,THE FACT THAT U ACKNOWLEDGE US IN SUCH A WAY MAKES ME REALIZE THERE R A FEW MORE LIKE U OUT HERE.I WISH FOR U AND NYA GREAT HAPPINESS..HOLD ON TO HIM GIRL!!

AND ENIGMA,YOU EXPRESSIN THAT U FEEL THE SAME,HAS PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE.THANK YOU,FROM ONE OF EARTHS LOVELIEST SPECIES....ME!!!(hehe)!!
 
Cheryl phillips said:
YOUR VERY WELCOME NYPRCAN,THE FACT THAT U ACKNOWLEDGE US IN SUCH A WAY MAKES ME REALIZE THERE R A FEW MORE LIKE U OUT HERE.I WISH FOR U AND NYA GREAT HAPPINESS..HOLD ON TO HIM GIRL!!

AND ENIGMA,YOU EXPRESSIN THAT U FEEL THE SAME,HAS PUT A SMILE ON MY FACE.THANK YOU,FROM ONE OF EARTHS LOVELIEST SPECIES....ME!!!(hehe)!!

Cheryl does the word "VICE GRIP" tell you anything?..lolol I don't plan on letting this one get away...😉 he's my Rainbow at the end of a storm.
 
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