Question for the ladies....

🤖 AI Summary

No AI summary has been generated for this thread yet.
M

MSxBEHAVIN

New member
Joined
Mar 6, 2001
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Points
0
Location
NYCity, Queens Baby!!
Okay ladies...I just wanted some feedback from the females (men you are welcomed to reply although I have a feeling what your opinions will be lol) here's the deal....

I'm 24 years old and bi sexual and none of my females friends know about my sexual preferences and I'm a bit scared to tell them because I don't want them to think I'm interested in them in that way but I wanted to know what you would do if a female friend of yours told you she was bi. Would you be disgusted, would you end your friendship or would you just accept it?
 
You know that's a tricky question......

I would not care at all. The friendship would get a little funny cuz then I will start thinking oh what if she looks at me in a different way....what I mean is you know how us girls change in front of eachother and share everything. Things could change withing the group. Make sure you TRULY trust them and KNOW them, that way you know they won't backstab you and bad-mouth you.

Girls are evil with one another so becareful. They will probably say they will stand by you, but probably as time goes by the friendship will change.....Just my 2 cents. But if I were you I would tell your best friend and take it from there. There is no need for you to annouce it the whole world. Unless it comes up. And think about it...your sexuality should not matter in a friendship. So if there not there 4 you, then there not your true friends.
 
My friend from high school confessed to me that she was attracted to me. I admit, I was taken aback and didn't know how to respond. I just laughed it off and made it clear that I was very straight. It didn't change our friendship at all. So she likes girls.... so what?!! I like boys. Is she gonna not be my friend because of that? I wasn't disgusted because homosexuality doesn't bother me. It's not my cup of tea, but there ain't nothin wrong with it for others. She is still a good friend who I trust and love very much. Her personality hasn't changed, just her preference in lovers. As long as she's happy, I'm happy. She's still the same homegirl to me. 🙂
 
YOU KNOW IT WOULDN'T CHANGE ONE BIT OF MY FREINDSHIP WITH THAT PERSON. I MEAN THATS HER BUSINESS, WHO AM I TO TELL HER WHAT KIND OF SEX SHE SHOULD BE INTERESTED IN. IT WOULDN'T CHANGE A THING.
 
WELL PERSONALLY I WOULDNT CARE IF ONE OF MY FRIENDS WERE TO COME OUT AND CONFESS SOMETHING SUCH AS THAT TO ME BUT I GO WAY BACK WITH MY HOMEGIRLS WE HAVE 13YRS OF FRIENDSHIP AND I DONT THINK I COULL LET SOMETHING SUCH AS THAT COME IN BETWEEN OUR FRIENDSHIP. IT ALL DEPENDS ON HOW CLOSE I GUESS YOU ARE WITH YOUR FRIENDS TRUE FRIENDS EXCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU ARE, BUT LIKE CHULA SAID YOU KNOW HOW SCANDALOUS US FEMALES CAN BE LOL, JUST BE SURE YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE TELLING THEM, I MEAN THERE YOUR GIRLS THEY SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND EXCEPT YOUR CHOICES. 🙂
 
DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU THAT IS THE LEAST THING TO BE JUDGED BY OF ALL THINGS AND IF THEY ACT DIFFERENTLY ITS BECAUSE THEY ARE SELF CONCIOUS ABOUT THEMSELVES AND DONT UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF BI-SEXUALITY!


WANNA HEAR SOMETHING FUNNY THOUGH, WAIT TIL YA SEE HOW MANY OF YOUR FRIEND ARE ALSO BI SEXUAL OR BI CURIOUS ONCE YOU LET IT OUT ,MAYBE WHEN I TOLD MY CLOSEST FRIEND THAT I WAS BI-CURIOUS SHE SAID SO IS SHE AND SO DID MY SISTER IT WAS THE WEIRDEST AND FUNNIEST THING BUT WORRY ABOUT WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND THATS ALL THAT MATTERS....PEACE😉
 
i would accept it...that stuff is common now...but be prepared for some stupid sounding questions or remarks 😀
 
DA BOMB!!!

You guys are da bomb...it's so true that my sexuality shouldn't matter when it comes down to our friendship and I feel a lot better about telling them but I'll do what you said Chula, I'll let my best friend know and see her reaction...maybe I might get myself a girl by coming out if at least one of them is curious...lol thank you guys for the advice and I'll let you know how it goes...

MUCH LOVE! MUAH

p.s. erin...if what you said is true about 99% of women being bi then I'm going to have myself a REAL good night...J/K I'm sure you'll find a girl sweety
 
For what it's worth, when I was 18, a new friend came into her own sexuality and told me - OK, I was freaked for a minute or 2 and she gave that to me, then I mellowed and it was all ok. But at first, they may have strong negative reactions - let them have it for a few minutes to get used to the idea - if they're being rude after that, forget them, but they may need a little time to adjust.

Good luck!
 
i feel so normal!!

It's amazing what you find in these posts...

A few years ago I decided to tell about my bisexuality to my group of friends, why I don't know... They were kool with it, but one of them is no longer my friend for reasons beyond my comprehension. One of them & I still kick it to the clubs & such but she is still comfortable around me to undress & switch dresses & all that other stuff girls do.

However, I have one friend who told me from the getgo bc of other conversations that she thinks homosexuality is disgusting. So you know I dont tell her none of that.

I guess I felt the need to respond to this post bc I really did not think this was accepted by straight women. I know straight men love it - they all seem to want threesums as soon as I tell. But I am always scared of telling other girlfriends.

And as far as getting a girl - that is the hardest thing to do!! I go on the personals, but never seem to find what I am looking for. Any advice on that???😛
 
If they are your "TRUE" friends..then they won't care what your sexual preference is...why should you keep going on hiding this from them? Personally a friend is a friend and they should be understanding to you. Good luck to ya!
 
well one of my home girls is bi and she is the best person i ever met and i dont look at her different we just have competition when we go out and hunt for girls
 
sucks sometimes

the worst part is seeing a girl that is gorgeous & you want to meet, but being so scared because of the stigma that society places on this lifestyle. Being scared of shame, ridicule, being "discovered". That is why I barely ever tell anyone. But I have been having such bad luck with men it seems that is the best alternative. Anyways, why do you want to tell your friends??😕
 
It shouldn't change anything...

Well I think only people that are insecure about their sexuality would turn down a friendship just cause they were gay,bi whatnot.. my best friend is GAY and he didnt tell me for 5 yrs because he was afraid I would stop being his friend!! When he told me he was crying and begging me to be his friend.. I just slapped the shit outta him and told him to stop!! He would always be my baby and I dont care what he does in his bed!!! So girl if your friends freak on you ...then they arent true friends now are they.. your sexuality doesnt change who you are and the friendship you give them. Good Luck to ya...😀
 
Just Curious

Whats it like to be bi?? How is it different.. do girls give you more pleasure then men.. I am just wondering.. not that I want to go there but I am only curious to know if Women are better?? 😀
 
Why tell them?

Why tell them at all? Why do they really need to know? Your preference has no bearing on their life so I don't think you need to tell them. Now, if the ask you, then you should be honest.

Also, keeping quite will give you the opportunity to give out cheap feels without anyone thinking twice. LOL - just kidding. i was dying to say that.


PMX
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top