*Painful Break-Ups*

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LaBettyBoop

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How many times had you thought you'd finally found "the one" - only to have your heart crushed in a sudden split? Did you ever have that feeling that you'll never be able to love again? Did it affect you so bad where you felt you had "no life", didn't want to eat and perhaps not even get out bed?
 
yea i've been through this so many times my family says i can write a book. i dont think there will be a fairytail ending but i do think that i must try and try. it is better to have loved then not have loved at all. there are so many people out there waiting for us. if you breakup w/one you are sure to find another when you are not looking. i have my sad day(s) but i dont dwell on them. i feel that i had break ups cause higher powers intervened and knew something i didnt. it was for the best. there is always a reason why fate works in mysterious way for me. i have hope and if i dont find a true love for life, i will still be happy knowing i tried.
i have my friends and family. thats more then some people have.:girl
 
LaBettyBoop said:
How many times had you thought you'd finally found "the one" - only to have your heart crushed in a sudden split? Did you ever have that feeling that you'll never be able to love again? Did it affect you so bad where you felt you had "no life", didn't want to eat and perhaps not even get out bed?

unfortunately yes, after 10 1/2 years you don't ever think of yourself without that person, but then it happens and your lost, don't know what to do, I thought I would never ever ever in my life love again, and I was on a "I HATE MEN MISSION"

then I met NYPRCAN, and fell in love again. He changed my whole outlook on love, he showed me that it was ok to love again, and let myself be loved. I thank him for that everyday, even if he doesn't hear it.
 
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Naya that is so beautiful, it made me feel like :sosad.


I do too sometimes, cause some things in life just seem as if they are destined not to work, or as if it was the wrong time and place for them, but you have to try right? try and live it to the fullest and enjoy it why you have it, cause some people never know the meaning of having someone so beautiful in thier lives.
 
Thank you LaBetty, from the both of us😉
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Anytime Naya. I love to see people happy. I really do. Everybody deserves happiness in life at one time or another.

I hear that girl, and If I had some wine I would drink to that too!..lolol
 
Everybody deserves happiness in life at one time or another.
yep thats so true. even if it lasts a short while.

hey can i have a drink?? lol.
 
hell yeah, on THURSDAY DAMMIT! 🙂 well ladies, I am going to get into my pj's, get my hot chocolate, and read a little before going to bed. Have a great night everyone. :sleep :wave
 
you two nya. hot chocolate would seem nice here but isnt it hot by you?lol. enjoy it.
 
yup!
I've learned that when people give up on u, they are not worth the struggle or the stress" *** "No love, no friendship can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever" *** "Don't leT what Happened in the past hurt ur future"
 
Yes I've been there...in my previous one aftr 4 years shit hit the fan...I found out so many things about him (that he was keeping from me) that it almost scarred me. I didn't eat....didn't want to get out of bed and cried every nite for almost a month....But life goes on and it's not the end of the world.

And I'm doing alot better now then I was at that time.
 
Yeah that has been the story of my life. You find yourself so happy and consumed for the feelings that you have for the person, at that you also think the feelings are mutual, then he turns around and does something horrible to decieve you and hurt you. That is why it is so hard for me trust anyone again. No matter how long you have been with the person its funny how they can turn out to be the opposite person you would have thought they were.
 
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