*Painful Break-Ups*

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LocaBoriquaQueen said:
No matter how long you have been with the person its funny how they can turn out to be the opposite person you would have thought they were.
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Girl I hear that!...
 
Yup! My ex-wife turned on me in the worst way and I thought that I will never trust another woman. I didn't want to either, but then I met my girl now and She stuck by me in everything and I was able to trust her and mend most of my heart. I say most of my heart because some of it will take a very long time to heal. :bangbang
 
i have been lied to and deceived so many times that i find it hard to trust anybody...i have been single now for 8 months and i don't even have the urge to start dating or meet new people...it feels like my emotions were drained and i can't feel anymore....maybe it's depression..who knows...but as of right now i just want to be alone and spend time with my friends and family who i know that i can trust and not have to put any energy into meeting someone new....

does that make sense?
 
kitty said:
i have been lied to and deceived so many times that i find it hard to trust anybody...i have been single now for 8 months and i don't even have the urge to start dating or meet new people...it feels like my emotions were drained and i can't feel anymore....maybe it's depression..who knows...but as of right now i just want to be alone and spend time with my friends and family who i know that i can trust and not have to put any energy into meeting someone new....

does that make sense?
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Very much! And you're not alone. 😉
 
LaBettyBoop said:
How many times had you thought you'd finally found "the one" - only to have your heart crushed in a sudden split? Did you ever have that feeling that you'll never be able to love again? Did it affect you so bad where you felt you had "no life", didn't want to eat and perhaps not even get out bed?
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It's happened to me. You get over it and move on.
 
Harry thats much easier said then done! After going through 8 horrible years w/somebody, my "guard" is always up, I dont think I can love somebody the way I could before.
 
cArLiToS WaY said:
I've been with the same person for almost 7 years, and I'm 26. I'm so glad that I don't have to deal with the headaches and backstabbings of the dating scene. So for me, this is the one, and the only one.
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Good for you. 🙂 May you always stay "headache free". 😀
 
Originally Posted by LaBettyBoop
How many times had you thought you'd finally found "the one" - only to have your heart crushed in a sudden split? Did you ever have that feeling that you'll never be able to love again? Did it affect you so bad where you felt you had "no life", didn't want to eat and perhaps not even get out bed?
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situations like this makes u lose hope and stuff :realsad
 
LaBettyBoop said:
How many times had you thought you'd finally found "the one" - only to have your heart crushed in a sudden split? Did you ever have that feeling that you'll never be able to love again? Did it affect you so bad where you felt you had "no life", didn't want to eat and perhaps not even get out bed?
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Yeah I've dealt with some pretty bad breakups and dealt with a lot of pain and at times felt like I could'nt move on, but u know what those breakups, now that I look back upon them, have made me that much stronger...

I think breakups are gods way of helping us find the right one 2 one day give us everything that we've been searching 4 in a relationship.......
 
Carlito, you are so lucky to have found someone at such a young age.

You are also so right... there are so many bullsh*tters out there, it's discouraging and you're lucky that you aren't out there searching for "the One".

Naya, now you know we've discussed how I am so afraid to date and how I feel like I'll never find my Mr. Right.... and I will always thank you for your support and encouragement.

I do honestly feel that I needed to go through what I did to become the woman I am and for that, I am grateful. We all fall into the category of taking things for granted some time in our lives and I did that and it cost me.

Now, I love life and appreciate all that I have, but I do wish I found my significant other.

muah
 
Oh yeah, I have had my love life predestined.. Heartbrake... lol.. need I say more.. but I learned alot about myself. Naya, I was with my ex for 11 yrs, and it took me these last 3 years to really get over the hurt and feelings of betrayal. I felt there was no one else I could love or care about again. Never mind TRUST. But I took that time to work on ME, and now I have met someone and it is a healthy relationship.. I'm not bringing any mental or emotional baggage and he is the most wonderful man I've ever met... and damn it, I deserve it!
 
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