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Question everyone, I've been with my boyfriend like forever. The other day I bumped into my ex-boyfriend (actually he was my first boyfriend and the love of my life) and well as we were hanging out, something happened. You can say I kinda let it happen because my present boyfriend doesn't want to commit and I'm just basically tired of waiting. I don't want to go back with my ex but I don't want to leave my present boyfriend either! I want to tell him but I don't know how? I know this will hurt his feelings but then again he is a playa too so I'm kinda stuck here! What do you guys suggest?

P.S. I always knew my boyfriend was a playa and I didn't mind and I still don't but I don't think he likes to wear the shoe on the other foot. Oh and he's a swinger too and well I'm bi but he doesn't mind. Help!! :splat
 
dont tell him. if he cheats then you shouldnt have any shame in your game.
 
Do you girl, if he is a palya and you know it and you don't mind then he does not have much of a say; just be safe. Does he tell you about everyone that he sleeps with?
 
Don't tell him. As long as you take care of yourself go for it especially if he's not willing to commit.
 
aim4night said:
dont tell him. if he cheats then you shouldnt have any shame in your game.
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Oh believe me, I don't have any shame to my game. The things is, we talk about everything and one of the things we agreed upon is that we will not mess with our past partners and well temptation was too much for me. You see now? :huh
 
naynay102 said:
Do you girl, if he is a palya and you know it and you don't mind then he does not have much of a say; just be safe. Does he tell you about everyone that he sleeps with?
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Thank you and believe me I am very safe. If you can't wear a willy, then you can't be with billy! Oh and I know pretty much about all the girls he's slepted with. I have picked them out for him so I don't have to worry about getting jealous but this is becoming tiring and I'm ready to settle down and just be with him! But I guess that's not what he wants. So this is why I ran to my past but I know it wasn't right though! :huh
 
DESTINY0806 said:
I wonder, what ever happened to honesty and trust?
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Honey there is plenty of honesty and trust here, I just went a little too far and I don't know how he is going to respond when I tell him what happened. Capish!!
 
chulo75 said:
Or Fidelity, Integrity and respect.
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Fidelity, Integrity and respect??? :huh What's that??? Look, me and my man have an understanding. Instead of him going around cheating on me, I let him have his fun and I get them for him this way I can keep a tab of what's going on. He does the same for me, I just went a little too far when he wasn't looking and I know he will be upset when I tell him. My fear is not knowing, again, KNOWING how he is going to react.

Capish! :losmile
 
It seems from what I have read that you were unfaithful. So just break up with him before he finds out on his own and makes a mess of things. Why go thru the hassle of going thru a relationship with that in the back of your mind.
 
FreestyleKidd said:
Damn, Sadness! You sound like the perfect girlfriend :dwink
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Perfect??? Nah, I just have a different form of thought. I see it like this....

After being in a relationship for so long, men get tired of having the same sex everyday, night after night. But if you let him have a little fun on the side, (whether your there watching or not) and you get him that extra pleasure then you don't really feel betrayed compared to those girls that have their man (especially on lock down) and believe that the love their men feel for them will keep them out of other women P***y! Keep dreaming, if these men exist then they are very few. I just know I don't have one so I let him play and I play too!
 
Sadness said:
After being in a relationship for so long, men get tired of having the same sex everyday, night after night. But if you let him have a little fun on the side, (whether your there watching or not) and you get him that extra pleasure then you don't really feel betrayed compared to those girls that have their man (especially on lock down) and believe that the love their men feel for them will keep them out of other women P***y! Keep dreaming, if these men exist then they are very few. I just know I don't have one so I let him play and I play too!
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Wow! You're friggin incredible! Please Marry Me! :spin
 
Sadness said:
Question everyone, I've been with my boyfriend like forever. The other day I bumped into my ex-boyfriend (actually he was my first boyfriend and the love of my life) and well as we were hanging out, something happened. You can say I kinda let it happen because my present boyfriend doesn't want to commit and I'm just basically tired of waiting. I don't want to go back with my ex but I don't want to leave my present boyfriend either! I want to tell him but I don't know how? I know this will hurt his feelings but then again he is a playa too so I'm kinda stuck here! What do you guys suggest?

P.S. I always knew my boyfriend was a playa and I didn't mind and I still don't but I don't think he likes to wear the shoe on the other foot. Oh and he's a swinger too and well I'm bi but he doesn't mind. Help!! :splat
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You a little freak huh? I say you do your current man and your ex at the same time. Maybe you could stay with both. Imagin they stay together and leave you out of the picture. lol
 
Sadness said:
Thank you and believe me I am very safe. If you can't wear a willy, then you can't be with billy! Oh and I know pretty much about all the girls he's slepted with. I have picked them out for him so I don't have to worry about getting jealous but this is becoming tiring and I'm ready to settle down and just be with him! But I guess that's not what he wants. So this is why I ran to my past but I know it wasn't right though! :huh
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Will you ever ask him to be exclusive or is it to late to do? He is so used to you bringing him girls, it might be hard for him to get used to only being with you. Pray about it, if he really loves you then he will make the change. He has had the luxury of having a girl that gets him girls. Do you think he has slept with anyone on the side without you knowing? Trust is very important since you guys do have a mutual understanding of the relationship. I feel without trust nothing will ever be trully bliss, so be cautious because you have gone far and beyond for this man so he should definitely be grateful to you for evertyhing you have done for him and have allowed him to do. Are you ever with two men at once? (maybe I am getting a little to nosy. LOLOL) I feel that if you could bring him girls he could bring you guys you know.
 
crazygirl said:
what is that?
those words don't ring a bell
:lol
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I know they're not makin' me pull out the dictionary for that one. lol
 
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