Ok ladies am I wrong for thinking this way???

[jlovesfreestyle]

sorry if this is the wrong forum for this.....

OK i know its traditional for the man to pay the way of the girl when they go out and all that, fine and dandy, no issues there.... but am I wrong for getting upset when I take a girl out, drop 70 on a dinner, another 50 or so at the club on drinks, more on other ish, and I dont even get a thank you at the end of the night???

am i wrong for liking a girl who attempts to reach in her pocket to contribute for the meal, knowing full well ill pay for the entire thing??

am i wrong for expecting a woman to maybe throw down the tip on a 70 dollar meal?? or buy me ONE drink when ive already bought her 4??

see i dont mind paying for someone that shows appreciation for my genorosity.... what I DESPISE is when ladies act like its their birthright to have everything paid for and that no appreciation needs to be shown... and dont front plenty of yall think that way....

i just wanna know if im cheap for thinking this way? am i being reasonable to expect those things? or should I just suck it up and accept that girls will burn a hole in ur pocket, show no appreciation and thats just the way it is???

ladies and gents lemme know what u think on this topic...

 

[Martini]

am i being reasonable to expect those things?

of course. that chick is cheap! kick her to the curb lol 😉

 

[jlovesfreestyle]

but its not an isolated incident which is why i ask... im just curious to really see what girls think when they go out on a date with a guy... is it yeah, he's paying for everything, im leaving the wallet at home.. or do some of you have ways of showing u appreciate a dude paying the way....

 

[Putana]

Yo, that's kind of foul! It should be a courtesy to help pay for things! That dinner for two sure came out very expensive.....$70.00 + drinks?!?!? 2 words.....F*ck Her!!!

 

[marlene]

yea, whatta cheapo! thas why i believe in goin dutch cuz that way no one gets butt hurt...LOL 😛 but if a guy does buy me dinner and some drinks on a date, it is courteous to say thank you. anyone who doesn't say thank you jus didnt learn any good matters!😱

 

[doos]

YO GIRLS NOW AND DAYS
NOT ALL
ARE LIKE THEY DESERVE ALL THAT
SORRY IF THIS IS AN INSULT

SO NEXT TIME SING TO THEM YOUR A SURVIVOR FROM DESTINY'S CHILD

 

[jlovesfreestyle]

LMAO@ survivor..... i should tho... but whats really messed up is that if you tell a girl that, ur automatically cheap.... and ur right doos, A LOT of girls think they deserve that and that is what burns me....

 

[doos]

YO I FEEL YOU FOR REALS YO
CUZ I GOT NO PROBLEM IN SPENDING THE CHEDDAR ON PPLS AND I MEAN PPLS BUT WHEN YOU SEE THAT I HAVE DONE THAT COME ON DO IT IN RETURN

WURD GIRLS WOULD THINK THAT THAT YOUR CHEAP "SOME GIRLS NOT ALL" GOTTA QUOTE OR ITS OFF W/ MY HEAD

GIRLS WANNA BE INDEPENDENT SO GO FOR YOUR PAY FOR YOUR OWN DRINK

YO IM STRAIGHT UP W/ PPL AND IF I SEE A GIRL ACTING LIKE THAT I TELL IT STRAIGHT TO THEM " OOH YOU INDEPENDENT GET YOUR OWN DRINK "
AND NOT IN A RUDE WAY EITHER
AND YOU THINK IM CHEAP SO THEN DONT LOOK AT MY WAY THEN

 

[ninadodat]

THAT'S WHACK!!!

THE LEAST SHE COULD DO FOR YOU IS COOK YOU DINNER SOMETIME....AND EVEN RENT A MOVIE..IT'S MORE ROMANTIC AND EVEN ECONOMICAL..LOL

I ALSO BELEIVE YOU GET WHAT YOU PUT OUT SO BE CAREFUL.
IF YOU LEAVE THE SAFE OPEN SOMEONE'S BOUND TO ROB YOU!

 

[NAT]

no doubt...every girl likes to be "wined and dined" but I think that YES she should have gave u a thank you! Myself I like to split things half and half! One weekend the guy should pay and the next the girl should pay. To me thats a partnership and it doesn't make the girl look money hungry either. If she going out like that..then her ass ain't worth it to be takin' out for the evening!

 

[1sxychica]

but am I wrong for getting upset when I take a girl out, drop 70 on a dinner, another 50 or so at the club on drinks, more on other ish, and I dont even get a thank you at the end of the night???

She should ALWAYS say thanks even if you bout her a 49cent ice cream cone from McDonalds. And DAMMIT $70 bucks for dinner? Do guys like that exist?
am i wrong for expecting a woman to maybe throw down the tip on a 70 dollar meal?? or buy me ONE drink when ive already bought her 4??
That depends... maybe she got no change.. if she does however, she should be the one tippin'

i just wanna know if im cheap for thinking this way? am i being reasonable to expect those things? hell no ur not cheap... ur VERY reasonable...

one thing though..... i think ur spoiling her... if i know my man can't afford a dinner like that we pay half... it means u let her know... EVERYTHIN'S ON ME.

But dammit.. where u guys at? lmao

 

[Fiery*Desire]

damn thats !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!ed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, no thank you...what a biatch..anyway...females should pay sometimes..it should be reciprocal IMO😉