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LMAO AT MARITINI, I DIDN'T READ THE WHOLE THING BUT, YOU GO GIRL FOR REAL! 😀
DAYER, DON'T LET THAT STOP YOU, AND FROM WHAT I'VE READ YOU REALLY DO NEED TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE EVEN IF ITS JUST A THING ABOUT KICKEN IT! YOU HAVE THE WHOLE CF THERE, AND YOU KNOW WERE ALL BUGGED OUT, YOU WON'T EVEN WORRY !!!!
 
Damn Jade....

You have me speechless, I'll have to get back to you.

Dest...

No doubt I got peeps to chill with but that doesn't help in other areas Ma 😉

And...

I don't wanna walk. Damn, all I want is my baby back & to be happy.
 
I HEAR YOU MA, YOUR IN LOVE, ALTHOUGH THAT IS SOME TOUGH LOVE, IT'S LOVE. WE'LL IF YOU DECIDE TO COME OUT YOU KNOW YOU HAVE YOUR PEEPS😀
 
we got into a fight the other night. Like where I have mad scratches & they aint from sex.

So I called her on my lunch break & mentioned that she didn't say she loved me in like 2 days (she always sayd it 1st & always several times a day) & she comes out with "yeah cause you pissed me the f*ck off so I had to beat the sh*t out of you a little"

WTF???

Yeah I held her down, pushed her off me & grabbed her hair to get her off me but never did I swing on her. NEVER,I olve her way too much.

So..I left her voicemail that said I wouldn't speak to her until she decided to reply to this thread (she posted once as lilginz25 to blow me up about how I have been in her bed the last 4 years) so...we will see.

She will probably never reply but then again, it would prove that she doesn't give a f*ck

Last week was perfect, I spent every night with her & took her to work every morning. I even took trains to pick her up at 1am so she wouldn't have to ride home alone, giving myself only 3 hours sleep for work the next day.

Damn, I really need a girl that will appreciate me 🙁

But, I really just wanted things to work with her. She told methey were going to break up. She told me she was sorry for treating me like sh*t but yet....I am still hurting.

Everything that makes me happy is ending as I write this. Iwill never find another girl like her.

🙁
 
Dawn, would you ever allow your children to scratch and mark each other like that? Would you allow anyone else to leave marks like that on them? Would you mark them like that? So then DON'T ever accept that on yourself!!!

If there is physical fighting then this relationship most definitely has some forms of abuse present. I kinda felt the mental and emotional abuse, but now you also have the physical abuse.

YOU NEVER HURT SOMEONE YOU LOVE LIKE THAT. 🙁

If you didn't know before, that should have clued you in. WOuld you stand to hear one of your friends was getting beat by her man or husband? So it's the same thing. Just cause Sammie is a chick and not a guy does not lessen the severity of the situation or the attack nor does it excuse the behaviour either. What's wrong is wrong is wrong.

For God's sake, you desrve better than this!!! How do you explain to your kids what those marks are if they see them? And what kind of an example does that set for them?

If you don't love yourself enough than love your kids enough not to see their mama hurt in any way and not to set such unhealthy examples of what you and I both know is not love, only dressed up in the label.

Just cause something says Versace on it doesn't necessarily mean you don't have a knock off in your hands, does it???🙁
 
Jade

Its not like that really. Its not like I sat there & caught a beatdown. We got into a catfight. Trust me, I was wrong too. I just have short nails, she doesn't. So I got scratched.
 
you don't have to get a beat down for it to be wrong. The MINUTE, and I swear to God the f*cking second an ex pushed me, I pulled a knife from the stack of dishes I had just washed on him.

My mom doesn't hit me and neither does my dad. I used to cat fight with my sister.

But if my lover ever laid their hands on me in any type of hurtful day they would regret the day their grandparent's were conceived.

Any kind of that behaviour is unacceptable. And so what if you got some shots in. Good for you for you defending yourself. Now how do you explain those marks to your kids?

And if they were to show up with marks like those on their bodies from their lovers how would you take it?

You know the answer and so if that's what's good for them then it's good for you. RESPECT yourself and then command it from anyone you meet.
 
I hear you & yo, if anyone laid a hand one my kids I would kill them.

We've gotten into fights before though, not in a long ass time, but we have.

If they ask, I would say I scratched myself in my sleep.

And, if the day ever comes that I swing on her full force, I will regret that for the rest of my life.
 
Besides,

I know how to push her buttons. When we argue, its ugly. But thats not the issue. We fought, its over & I love her.

She has a 4 day weekend, I am going to see if in those 4 days she will make the move to be mine. If not, then I know its time to move on. Its when you are alone that you know who you really want.

Like when her sister crashed her car, I was the one she called 1st. It made me happy. Not in an ego boosting sort of way, just because I knew that I was the one that would be there for her when she needed me.

Does that make sense?

I know I don't make too much sense myself.

Gotta run, gonna pick her up from work & try to talk things out & hey if we can't talk it out, I have my BadBoyJoe2 CD in my walkman 😉
 
Dawny,

I am going to have to agree with Jade on this one. The minute the hands were involved in something other thn carresses.. it's time to let go..

I know the last thing you want to hear right now is all the negativity, but girl, this is all wrong..this is not good for you or her. You are a funny and smart girl , and loving mom, and good friend, there is no need for you to sit around and hope that things will turn around. It seems to me that your always the one giving, regardless of the fact that you hurt her once, ok that was then this is now, when will the payback end?
Don't ever let your self esteem be stepped on by ANYONE!! girl, your self worth, or your self respect Dawny. You are better than that, and girl I know first hand the pain that comes with knowing that you'll have to let go, but it's something that will go away, pain always goes away, but if you loose your self esteem, respect and worth, you may never get those back.

Girl Loving someone with all your heart is wonderful, but keep some of the love for yourself, because in the end , no one can love you like you do!!..

Naya
 
Amen to that sister!!! Dawn, it always hurts to let the one you love go, but in the end it's worth it. No one can love you like YOU do, and no one can love you, and love you the way you want and deserve, unless you love yourself like that first. Then whoever the next person is either has to love you by the standards you love yourself with or they can step!!!

In the meantime, have a lemon drop on me!!! Or even better, an Amaretto sour!!!!! And smile and tickle your babies. Love is good like that, any kind of love will help cure the pain of another love or lost love!!!😉
 
yeah....

I guess I was just too stupid to see that I was strung along.

Its all good now. It hurts, yes but I'll be ok.
 
😱 DAMNNNNNN JADE JEEZ UZ MAN
YOU WRITE BOOKS BUT GOOD ONES
 
hey!! a fellow cf'er was in need!!! I had to have her back!!! And school some ppl's ignorant asses!!! (not you Dawn!) 😀 😛
 
MMMMMMM

see? if you're gonna have a sour puss it might as well be one that is yummy and doesn't talk back!!! 😱 😛
 
WOW!!!

Hey guys, just want to say hello to all members and say in advance that as a new member I like what I see very much so.

Ok....now for Dayer,

You should be proud of yourself for acknowledging and not denying your "nothing but toruble & heartache" situation. Although, not to the extent as yours, I can personally relate to your situation. I would love to elaborate a lot more but that will take too long and I need to go. Drop me a line through my email and I will be more than happy to give my two cents.
 
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