Angie, I don't want you to feel guilt over it.. as adults we must make decisions that although may be the right choice for EVERYONE as a whole, may not always be so wonderful for our children, individually. As a parent and a single one at that, it goes without saying that it's hard... but you are a GREAT Mother!!! And just seeing how you will try things to help him and raise him right should over shadow any guilt you feel. That is one lucky kid, who will one day be a MAN and make you proud!
I guess the guilt remains cause we arent in a permananet situation this also is temp so its like the minute he gets adjusted I got to change shit again so its hard not to feel guilty you know. Tangita glad you like lol
Ma.. he is still very young.. he won't remember being uprooted at this time... so now is the best time to do it... I have no doubt once you get settled, he will be fine!
Ahh ma, leave that guilt thing behind, unfortunately in life we are given situations that we have to make the best of them. You love you son and he knows it, you didnt abandoned him when the going gets tough. Your a great mom Ang and I know that we want to give our kids the world but sometimes we have to settle for a little less to insure them a more secure future.
You have a tough job, your raising a man and its up to you to mold him into the type of man that will make you proud. Be strong, consistent and loving.
You see, he's a good kid. He just needs to learn thats all. Teach him with patience and you'll get greater results, as he gets older, some things, he'll have to learn for himself and he'll wish he would have listened...Trust me , I know. It's all a part of growing. Just always give him guidence. In this world, he'll need it.
Well I spoek to him yesterday he gave me no eye contact and smiled the whole way through but maybe he was awake when I though he was knocked out and I whisphered to him how much I loved him and that he was goign to do great things in his life mayeb he heard me in his sleep and figured let me help mommy out a little bit. Thank you guys for all yor advice and support. 🙂
I Agree With D Ma Be Firm. Just Today I Was Reading About That In The Paper And They Were Talking About How They Just Expel Your Kid And There Aren't Any If And Or Buts About It. I Know It's Hard But Don't Ya Worry Pretty Soon You'll Join Us On The Front Cover Of Parents Magazine With Your Weapon Of Choice. Lmaoo No For Real Ma Ponte Fuerte. Show Him You Are The Boss And He Need To Know The Evil Look. Ya Know The One Our Mama's Used Give Us. Get That Look Perfected Too. Cha Cha Y Lo Que Te Falta. Isn't Motherhood Grand? Lol Hell Look At Me Goin On 5. I Must Lost My Damn Brain Somewhere In Bushwick.
lol que jodona I know he is about to well has gotten an early start with the terrible twos but he is getting adjusted which has to be a lot on his lil self but I am working on it he needs one on one time with me alone so I prob will do that with him this weekend make it a mommy and me weekend.