Me and my girl just broke up :-(

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My girl and I just broke up after being together for 3 years and 3 months. Im very sad, confused, lonely, "not hungry", twisted, and f**ked up right now.
Other than that, I feel fine.
The fire just wasn't there anymore. We were more of friends recently than being girl/boyfriend. I dont think I could see her again, but she still wants to see me and be friends.

The other bad thing is that I lost alot of good friends cause of her. So Im gonna find myself more lonely at times. I dont know what to do. I do love her and I care so much for her. I know that this is a good move for the 2 of us because shes finishing up college and Im successfully running my own business. But Im hurting now.

Jeez, its friday night and I have absolutely nothing to do. Im at work now on the Internet. Can anyone try to cheer me up. Im bout to go crazy up in here.

so sad
 
sorry to hear that sweety 🙁

but hun at least u two broke up cos of loss of feelings not cos one cheated or lied... so baby, stay friends with her... there is no point breaking this off completely.
 
Thanks, but its too hard for me to stay friends with her. I couldnt handle her being with someone else. The thing is that we should have not made it this far. We had nothing in common, I like freestyle, she doesnt, we do not like the same tv shows, nothing. But Ive grown to love her deeply. She did bring me alot of joy. But Our relationship was going nowhere recently.

But I know what I have to do now. Join the Gym, lose some weight, Go out with good friends and feel better about myself. Ive been through a huge breakup before, however this break up is more mature than my last if that makes any sense, My last big breakup was Back in H.S. days. I am so glad CF is here, It helps out when Im down to come here and have all you Cf'ers support.

Thanks
 
I know this is extremely hard for you right now, but everything will be fine. there is always a light at the end of every tunnel. that's 4 sho!!! stay friends with her like sxy said, theres no better friend than one that you love, trust and care for already. good luck sweetie!!
 
can this cheer up a little? :mdance im sure ull find someone new i believe theres someone out there to just complete your world just hang out with ur closest friends for support :hearton
 
I've been with my girl for 5.5 years and this is what I know...
1st year - almost got fat because constantly eating at restaurants
2nd year - lots of fun
3rd year - nothing but arguments and doubt...boring
4th year - year of understanding eachother
5th year - become the best of friends and lovers
6th year - if i dont marry her i'm done

we all go through a period of arguments and wondering if this is all we have to look forward to...have to be strong

the other thing I believe is once you break up once ... it will never be the same ...
 
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