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now this guys is really driving me nuts...he is all jealous about things, he watches what i do, tells me how to do things...and then tries to claim he wants to be just friends...he will give me this just friends bullsh*t speech and then not even 10 mintues later he is all trying to hold my hand and hug me, whats up with this???????????

if i go talk to other guys he comes from where ever he is and tells me that i need to go with him somewhere, or i need to be doing this or that!!! god forbid i go to lunch with co workers i get the third degree, but jerk still says he wants to be friends, WHAT TO DO???

i need to look for another job, LMAO
 
GIRL IF ITS BECOMING UNHEALTHY MOVE ON IF HE ISNT YOURS AND HAS NO INTENTION OF GIVING YOU MORE THEN WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE YET IS MAKING CLAIM ON YOU RE-EVALUATE THE SITUATION. IF ITS A FRIENDSHIP SEX SHOULD NOT BE A PART OF IT AND IF THAT IS WHAT HE IS TELLING YOU YOU GUYS HAVE BETWEEN EACH OTHER THEN GIVE HIME A FRIENDSHIP IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT AND NOTHING MORE. HE NEEDS TO THINK THINGS THROUGH AND DECIDE WHAT IT IS HE WANTS WITH YOU AND FROM YOU SO THAT YOU CAN THEN DECIDE IF ITS WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOU BUT IN THE END DO YOU MAMA AND WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY 🙂
 
thats perfect sexy, thanks!!!! i mean to me if he isnt willing to bring it to another level, i say leave me alone, let me get with someone else...but he wants to be the only one!!!! but just friends??? its a bad circle we are getting in...he is torn, doesnt know what he wants, thats what i am feeling from him...his gut is telling him he wants it, but thinks things through and he is scared...but i cant go on like that...so i am at the point of just LEAVE ME ALONE, but he doesnt go for that...he says i am just having an attitude or whatever, I DONT KNOW...why do i do it to myself???
 
HE NEEDS TO KNOW HE IS GIVING YOU MIXED SINGALS THAT HE IS TRULY CONFUSING YOU BY NOT LETTING YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT IT IS YOU GUYS HAVE OBVIOUSLY IT GOES BEYOND A FRIENDSHIP BECAUSE SEX IS INVOLVED AND AT THE SAME TIME HE IS SHOWING YOU OR ACTING AS IF HE DOES HAVE CLAIM TO YOU WHEN HE SEES YOU WITH OTHER MEN ETC ETC. LET HIM KNOW WHERE YOU STAND BECAUSE AT THIS POINT YOU NEED TO KNOW SO THAT YOU CAN DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU HE NEEDS TO REMEMBER HE IS THE ONE THAT IS ATTATCHED NOT YOU. AS I SAID THOUGH MAMA DO YOU AND WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT FOR YOU AT THIS POINT WHAT EVER WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY CAUSE WE CAN ALL OFFER ADVICE BUT IT IS YOU WHO HAS TO DECIDE IN THE END. FOR ME LOVE IS A BITCH AND IF YOU ARENT THERE YET WALK CAREFULLY UNTIL YOU HAVE ALL YOUR ANSWERS 🙂
 
ok this comes from experience if ya want to have some fun with a married guy go ahead !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it he's the one thats married not u...thats his problem....but don't let u'r feelings get involved...cause right from the start u know he is a lying cheating pig...cause i mean think about it he's out !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!in around and his poor wife is home probably wiping snot from thier kids noses.....so if u dont' have a concious and can deal with being a homewrecker...go for it....all my married buddies live in california so its easy not to get attached and just have some fun everyonce in a while...=)
 
mzcrazybtch said:
YES IT'S TRUE THAT THERE IS A FLIPSIDE TO EVERYTHING BUT WHEN YOU MARRY YOU DO IT FOR BETTER OR WORSE AND THAT'S A DECISION THAT THEY MADE...WHAT TICKS ME OFF SOMETIMES IS THAT PEOPLE DON'T TAKE IT SERIOUSLY ANYMORE...TRUST ME TONI I'M NOT MAD AT YOU BECAUSE IF IT WERE MY MAN IT WOULD BE HIM I WOULD COME AFTER....(I THANK GOD I DON'T HAVE THAT PROBLEM)SO NOW HE HAS A PARTIME WIFE AND YOU ON THE SIDE (HOW CONVENIENT FOR HIM) DON'T YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU CAN CALL YOURS? (JUST ASKING, GIRLFRIEND)
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What the hell kind a crock is this? In one paragraph you de-funk what you said then in this one you state the flipside with a bases of "For better or Worse?

I'm not going to flame because I just think that all opinions are like "Culos".....everyone has one. But to actually say "For better or worse", let me remind ya, we aren't in the 50's anymore. Yes, back in the salad days, that term would have fit well.

I for one am testimonial that not every quarter has a shiny side. I left for Alaska on movement for three weeks. Came back a week early and found another in my bed. Threw his ass of the second story balcony and he had the nerves to come back with the Police trying to charge me with Assault and Battery. Did it stick? No. Why? He was shacking up with my ex-wife. Cool thing was, he to was in the Army, I got him reduced in Rank for adultry.

Moral of the story...you really have to think to yourself..is it really worth being with the individual who screwed up. Especially if there are kids involved. And this goes both ways. Remember....dogs come in both sexes. And the reason why you don't hear much of it on the FEM side is because it isn't discussed.

Me alone......I may flirt, I may talk Mad Mojon....but in the end. That's all it is. Mad Mojon.

Now as for Toni, if you're really happy with him...enjoy it. Happiness is a hard to come by feeling. Sad thing to it is, when you do find it, sometimes it is attached to another. But every situation is different for everyone. In your case, they are just still joined by legality and paper. Not by heart. Make note: Be carefull.
 
I think its like this....if he really felt the same, why is he goin home everyday to the other girl? Apparently, he must not be feelin the same way as you think right? Or he would have dropped her, but yet like Reber says..."every situation is different"... but do ask yourself the question....if theres a connection between you two, then why isnt he leaving the one whom it seems he has nada with?? or is it just a fantasy for him?
 
DO I NEED TO CLARIFY HERE? OBVIOUSLY I DO.....TWO PEOPLE TAKING VOWS UNDER GOD SHOULD TAKE IT VERY SERIOUSLY....TO ME MARRIAGE IS A SERIOUS COMMITTMENT THAT I FIND PEOPLE RUSH INTO ALL THE TIME....I FIND IT MESSED UP FOR A MAN TO BE LIVING WITH THEIR SPOUSE AND PLAYING THE FIELD (OR VICE VERSA) ANYONE WITH MORALS CAN UNDERSTAND THAT BECAUSE SOMEONE IS ALWAYS BOUND TO GET HURT IN THE LONG RUN.

TONI IS GOING TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS REGARDLESS OF WHAT ANYONE SAYS...AND THAT'S FINE BY ME BECAUSE IT'S HER PEROGATIVE BUT THIS THREAD WAS STARTED FOR A REASON AND SHE KNOWS PRETTY MUCH HOW I AM..SO DON'T GET SO BENT REBER BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE IN LIFE THAT HAS EVER BEEN DONE WRONG.
 
MsCrazybtch, People get married, get seperated, get divorced. Not everyone gets married and has a beliefe in the man above. So when you say, "You got married in the eyes of the lord", who did? You, them, us, ??? Biblical morals are for those who have faith in it. Not everyone does. I for one don't.

And Ms Crazbtch, Like I stated in the beggining of that thread, "It is not a flame", Meaning.....Not to get bent out of shape like you are getting now. So, chill...relax...grab a "Mike's Hard Lemonade" and watch "Zoom" on PBS.
 
OH REBER...U CRACK ME UP...TRUST ME BABE, I'M NOT BENT....AND I CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT U ARE SAYING SO I'M NOT MAD AT YOU....NOT EVERYONE CAN BE ME...(how did u know I watch zoom with my daughter?) lmao!
 
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