Joe and ED and the cf guys

🤖 AI Summary

No AI summary has been generated for this thread yet.
JOEDOCPA said:
thank you . i just tell the truth i am nice good hearted but were ever i go i see females with thugs who cheet lie etc . oh yea they are a real help to there female if they are in jail . i am not a thug i dont drink and i dont smoke . im myself and i wont change for anybody if they dont like me for me they can step and keep walkin .
Click to expand...


NUFF SAID :cdevil
 
Aim is definitely right guys. I can relate some what to your pain though. I had a 4 year drought in the woman department myself back in '88 - '92, then in late '92 I went to my 5 year High School Reunion...Definitely not lookin' to hook up that's for sure...just lookin' to meet up with some old school friends, and catch up and what not. I ended up hooking up with my 1st true love of my life from 6th grade, and we are still together today. Michelle and I have been married now for 8 and a half years, and just had our first child last month, so trust me guys...what Aim is saying is definitely true.....When you least expect to meet the women of your dreams is when it will happen. Stay possitive and keep the chins up gentlemen and it will happen. Be Patient, and just continue to go out and have fun.

Steve
 
Joe...you are exactly right!! You should NEVER change who you are just to please someone else!! I have the same problem...I am a nice, goodhearted person and many times I feel that it isnt enough. But you know what? Im not gonna change myself to please anyone!! Im 28 yrs old now..and if you dont like me for who I am, than too bad!!! If people are too blind to recognize something good when they see it, then it's their loss!! Like Brenda K Starr said..."what u see is what u get"!!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
true Randi its funny when im out i see some females with dudes who treat them bad im like am i missin something u cant be a man if u hit a ladie but i guess some females like tuff guys i will stick to the way i was born nice and sweet and care for only my true friends all the people who hate me can keep walkin .
 
colvs said:
Aim is definitely right guys. I can relate some what to your pain though. I had a 4 year drought in the woman department myself back in '88 - '92, then in late '92 I went to my 5 year High School Reunion...Definitely not lookin' to hook up that's for sure...just lookin' to meet up with some old school friends, and catch up and what not. I ended up hooking up with my 1st true love of my life from 6th grade, and we are still together today. Michelle and I have been married now for 8 and a half years, and just had our first child last month, so trust me guys...what Aim is saying is definitely true.....When you least expect to meet the women of your dreams is when it will happen. Stay possitive and keep the chins up gentlemen and it will happen. Be Patient, and just continue to go out and have fun.

Steve
Click to expand...


THAT IS A BEAUTIFUL STORY :inlove
 
Well said Randi. 😉
No one should ever change for another person because it will only make you sad/depressed in the long run. Be true to yourself and proud of who you are and just know that no matter what anyone else thinks....you're all beautiful from the INSIDE OUT. God Bless and good luck to you guys.

Steve
 
Thanks Mel. 🙂 It was a Cinderella Story come true for me and Michelle. Totally unexpected, and it just happened, and we are still happily married to date, and goin' strong. 🙂

Steve
 
JOEDOCPA said:
true Randi its funny when im out i see some females with dudes who treat them bad im like am i missin something u cant be a man if u hit a ladie but i guess some females like tuff guys i will stick to the way i was born nice and sweet and care for only my true friends all the people who hate me can keep walkin .
Click to expand...
Joe, I hear ya on this subject. I dated a girl prior to hooking up with my wife, and the reason why we broke up is because she asked me one of the most stupidist questions a woman has ever asked me in my life......one night after a nice romantic dinner we were hangin' out cuddlin' and what not, and out of no where she asked me if I was ever going to fight with her, and I was totally taken by surprise with that question and asked her what she meant by it. I thought she meant like verbally argue or something like that....she told me she meant as in Physically fight with her as in hit her, and I was like, Uhhhhh....NO.....I'm a lover not a fighter, so if you're looking for someone who is going to rough you up a bit, then I'm not the man for you, and sadly we ended up breaking up shortly there after. I look back now, and am extremely happy the way things worked out in my life since then. I have heard from friends of mine who still keep in touch with my ex that she's got one kid so far and the guy she had the kid with left her. I feel sad about that, but unfortunately there's nothing I can do about it now, and that's the life she chose for herself. But I hear ya Joe...I don't understand the women who like being treated rough. All I can say is God Bless em.

Steve
 
I hear ya Ed, and I can't even begin to imagine your pain...20 years is quite a bit longer than my 4 year drought. You just have to some how continue to stay positive and just keep searchin' for the special lady in your life buddy.

Steve
 
Well...........Ed I'm not extremely familiar w/your story but I do know Joe's...and u know Joe if I was able to fix it all for you, as a friend, I would.

For every great guy there's a great woman. Spread your wings and look beyond the horizon. 😉
 
im hangin in there . not my problem that some females are cant see that im a nice guy there loss not mine . i willl let them stick to there thugs as i sit back and laugh on how can they get by if there man is in jail oh yeah thats a real help.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top