Joe and ED and the cf guys

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mike we should hang out sometime I work in Alexandria but I live in Western VA out by Warrenton
 
Hey Aim,. now if ya really want to help them. Hmmmmm.......
 
I think you guys lack some self-esteem. C'mon, if you feel that the ladies aren't "biting", then work on self-image, self-determination, and self-confidence.

Stop putting yourselves down and stop blaming it on the ladies.

If it helps, lower your expectations. There are beautiful women everywhere, even in D.C. Don't try and reach for what you can't get. Look at what's in front of you.

We all have things we don't like about ourselves; even I do. Point is, you can't let that shit get in the way and take over your lives. So what if your single. Great. Enjoy it. Make the best of it. I don't think it's the females with the problem, I think it's you guys. No woman want's a man that has a low self-esteem and all that BS. What a female want is the attention, the love, the flattery, the admiration. They won't get that if your too "involved" with your own self pity.

A lot of you on here, even the females, have turned this site into a "venting" forum, focusing on love and relationships. I understand many of you want some positive feedback, but it has to come from you. Because what I say is just going to go right through you and after 5 minutes, you're still feeling like shit. Was anything accomplished?

What it mainly comes down to is two things: low self-esteem & trying to get the perfect chick. You know what? There is no such thing as the perfect chick. If you find her, let me know. Same goes for the perfect male. Doesn't exist. No one is perfect. Try and focus on one thing: You. Because if you don't, know one's going to want to be with a person who's considered a "mess".
Rather than whine about it, do something about it.
 
a female just wants a nice car and someone who makes good money and they also want a tall man not a pintsize man . there are very few females that look for the inside of the man which is the heart . most that i run in to forget my name the next day . just like the bust a move song back in the day

got no money got no car now you have no woman and there u are .
 
Hey

That's my point; I know i'm not perfect. There is no such thing as being perfect(A la Kobe bryant!!LOL). I'm OK with who I am. I'm not trying to get the hot girl by putting on a fake image.
 
same here i wont change for anyone if nobody likes me for me they can step and dont talk to me i can tell which ones i one into here in philly who are talkin out there ok i will keep it clean lol . have a nice day 🙂
 
Ah, but it is amazing how much plaing the "hurt puppy" role helps ya get over with the ladies... They feel bad for you and.....
 
guys i'm gonna spank yas. stop feelin sorry for yourselves and get out there and do somethin about it. have ya tried salsa lessons???:jiggy i hear they attract females. if ya can move on your feet then ya gona get the ladies.
 
Joe, I think you a rarity...you have a good heart and you are very sweet. In my opinion, there arent nearly enough guys like you out there!!! And I know that one day soon, there will be a girl who sees that and who will be very lucky to have you!! So just keep your head up!!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
i would trade my so good heart and being so goody in a second all it has brought me was hopes shattered and not much else while the so called bad a$$'s get the ladies to keep them company worked all my life to develop a certin ethic in the way to treat women you understand iwth respect and dignity and all that stuff like if i had a daughter , sister or female cousin an
wanted her treated the same way
 
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