i have been single again since the end of june. i have been there/done that. i am older now and not into games or casual flings,per say. i am comfortable and happy as anyone can be being single.🙂
anyway i am friends with this guy i used to work with. we have been friends for 4 years. we hang out a few times a year and talk via the phone every so often, since i am in college.
2 years ago we went out to a club and shared a passionate kiss . i really wanted to see if things would progress but around the same time his mom got cancer(is recovered now), he bought a new home and needed to care for her. so we didn't hang out as much but stayed in contact over the phone.
i then got involved in a relationship. i always thought of my friend. i spoke with him, once in a while, when he called me.
since i've told him i'm single again he has been calling me more. he always invites me to his house parties,but i never felt like going. finally i agreed to see him again. he had a house party,over the weekend, and invited me. guess you can say i was his date for the night. he is peruvian and i was the only white girl there. he made an extra effort to make me feel comfortable( it felt really nice) since my spanish is limited. we talked alot about our curent interest and stuff. we had several moments where we talked in private. after the party ended, we had a passionate moment. we made out. i felt a spark,something that is missing in my life. i stopped us from going too far, as i was not ready.
i trully like him alot and want to see where fate can take us.
circumstannces b4 prevented us from seeing where that 1st kiss would lead us.
but i am scared of getting hurt . i hope that he was not just in lust for the moment( in my heart i don't think he'd play me). i don't want this to jepordize our friendship if i am wrong about his feelings.
any advice??:hearton😕hearton
anyway i am friends with this guy i used to work with. we have been friends for 4 years. we hang out a few times a year and talk via the phone every so often, since i am in college.
2 years ago we went out to a club and shared a passionate kiss . i really wanted to see if things would progress but around the same time his mom got cancer(is recovered now), he bought a new home and needed to care for her. so we didn't hang out as much but stayed in contact over the phone.
i then got involved in a relationship. i always thought of my friend. i spoke with him, once in a while, when he called me.
since i've told him i'm single again he has been calling me more. he always invites me to his house parties,but i never felt like going. finally i agreed to see him again. he had a house party,over the weekend, and invited me. guess you can say i was his date for the night. he is peruvian and i was the only white girl there. he made an extra effort to make me feel comfortable( it felt really nice) since my spanish is limited. we talked alot about our curent interest and stuff. we had several moments where we talked in private. after the party ended, we had a passionate moment. we made out. i felt a spark,something that is missing in my life. i stopped us from going too far, as i was not ready.
i trully like him alot and want to see where fate can take us.
circumstannces b4 prevented us from seeing where that 1st kiss would lead us.
but i am scared of getting hurt . i hope that he was not just in lust for the moment( in my heart i don't think he'd play me). i don't want this to jepordize our friendship if i am wrong about his feelings.
any advice??:hearton😕hearton
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