1sxychica
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Another dilemma, hahaha... I hope u guys don't think i complain too much. Just need ur word on this matter.
Anyhow, here goes....
My hun is like a social butterfly(bad wording, i know). He knows so many people sometimes it amazes me. We could be in a place out of town and he would know someone there....
SO there are a bunch of guys recently crossed his way. They all used to be high school buddies. So they all started hanging around each other A LOT lately, sometimes they hang out every day.
So the problem is.... I really really really don't like these guys. I mean this is how it goes with them when I'm around: they are talking about something they did back in high school and laugh about it (me having no clue) then they are talking about someone they all know (again, me having no clue), they also talk about some inside jokes and call things by nicknames (yes, me having no clue).
And now it seems to me that every time I call him he's over at this guys house. And everywhere we go out we seem to find them around. So basically i get no "time alone" with my own boyfriend.
So you say this is not a BIG problem, I can live with it. But I always believed that there must be something wrong in a relationship for a man to spend so much time with his friends, mind u... all of a sudden too, it happened withing the past month.
To me, everything is perfect in this relationship. No fights all love. So then what's up with this?
How do I tell him that I can't stand these guys and that I want him to spend time with me more. I can't just tell those guys to get out, cos I need time with my man, so I'm stuck listening to all this BS about their friends and these sexy girls they meet at the parties.
Another thing is that my boyfriend is sooooooooo different from them. They look like the kinda guys who don't take care of themselves, they looks like drop-outs, losers, idiots... listening to their conversations wants me wanna go puke. As you see, I really don't like these guys.
I ask him what happened to his old friends, he says nothing. THing is, I love his other guys he used to hang with, they're funny and considerate that I'm fairly new to the scene (been with him for 3.5yrs and they knew him for over 8yrs). SO they try not to make me feel isolated... unlike these losers.
Anyhow... damn this is long... I hope u get the idea....
I'm not asking u guys to agree with me.. i actually want to know if my thinking is wrong..... i want u to help me out before this leads to some kind of argument.
thanks a lot!!
*luv ya*
Anyhow, here goes....
My hun is like a social butterfly(bad wording, i know). He knows so many people sometimes it amazes me. We could be in a place out of town and he would know someone there....
SO there are a bunch of guys recently crossed his way. They all used to be high school buddies. So they all started hanging around each other A LOT lately, sometimes they hang out every day.
So the problem is.... I really really really don't like these guys. I mean this is how it goes with them when I'm around: they are talking about something they did back in high school and laugh about it (me having no clue) then they are talking about someone they all know (again, me having no clue), they also talk about some inside jokes and call things by nicknames (yes, me having no clue).
And now it seems to me that every time I call him he's over at this guys house. And everywhere we go out we seem to find them around. So basically i get no "time alone" with my own boyfriend.
So you say this is not a BIG problem, I can live with it. But I always believed that there must be something wrong in a relationship for a man to spend so much time with his friends, mind u... all of a sudden too, it happened withing the past month.
To me, everything is perfect in this relationship. No fights all love. So then what's up with this?
How do I tell him that I can't stand these guys and that I want him to spend time with me more. I can't just tell those guys to get out, cos I need time with my man, so I'm stuck listening to all this BS about their friends and these sexy girls they meet at the parties.
Another thing is that my boyfriend is sooooooooo different from them. They look like the kinda guys who don't take care of themselves, they looks like drop-outs, losers, idiots... listening to their conversations wants me wanna go puke. As you see, I really don't like these guys.
I ask him what happened to his old friends, he says nothing. THing is, I love his other guys he used to hang with, they're funny and considerate that I'm fairly new to the scene (been with him for 3.5yrs and they knew him for over 8yrs). SO they try not to make me feel isolated... unlike these losers.
Anyhow... damn this is long... I hope u get the idea....
I'm not asking u guys to agree with me.. i actually want to know if my thinking is wrong..... i want u to help me out before this leads to some kind of argument.
thanks a lot!!
*luv ya*
