,.so what happ with you and your dood,.,. he finally started chasing you again,.,.
im telling you seriously for a second,... these days,.., i think couples spend way to much time with each other,.,.,.and thats why theres so many problems,.,.,.
if you look for ex at our grandparents,.,. or how things have changed,.,. or grandparents,.,.
they had other things going on. like the male would be belong to like 3 clubs,.Elks Lions club,.,.Veterans,.,bowling,.,., the female would belong to the Pta,.,. baking coookies,.,.
point is 60 yrs ago couples had hobbies.,.,. they had other things going on,.,. that was'nt around each other,.,.every dam second of the day,.,.llol,.,.
or that sperated them.
these days.,., everything,.,. they do.,,.includes them,.,.,.
everything,.,.
so it's like they get sick of each other,.,.
back in the old days..,., there was things women could do that men could'nt and things men could do that women could'nt.
and so it created a ""forced"" ,.,.,scoial,.,. seperation,..,
im not saying thats good nor condoning it in any way,.,.
but the idea is good,.,.,., and that is that it seperated couples a lot,.,.,. in a bad way,.,.
but it seperated them alot..,
giving them a chance to breathe.,,.,.
by being part of other actitivities,...,that didnt include,.,.their relationship,.,.!!!,.,.
im a big believer in that,.,.,.,..,
that couples just spend in unbelievable amount of time with each other these days,.,.,.,.,
and it's not healthy i dont think,.,..,
like if they walk away for 5 minutes,.,.,.., the relationship,.,.,. that toook 5 years to build will fall to pieces in 5 seconds,.,..
it's part of the whole fortress mentality our generation has..,,.
which is,.,. build a castle,,..,and your not allowed out of it.,.,,. and everything is my way,.,.
im a big beliver in that that the relationship is the last thing you should be thinking about all,.,.day long all month long,.,..,in fact all year long id take it that far,.,.
it should be there,.,..,
like a mailbox,.., lol,., or parking spot,.,..,or a firehydrant,.,.,.
,.,.,.,.lllllllllllolllllllllll.,,.,.
i just dont belive in glorifying it like you guys,.,.do,.,.
sorry,.,.,.
,..,llol,,.
i belive it should be there,.,.,.,.,.but i dont belive in gloryfying it,.,.,.,.,..,
i think you people spend an unhealthy amount of time with each other,.,.,..,
i mean i really dont care cuase im 34
so really the opposite sex,.,..,is not as important to me as it was in my twenties,.,.,.
but one thing i do notice about you guys.,..,my peeers,.,.,. 30 to 40 i've noticed the way you go about these relationships,..,
ya ski together,.,.live together,.., you call each other at work 5 times,.,..,llllolll,.,.etc,.etc,.
is that you spend,..,.,.,an unhealthy amount of time with your mates,.,.,.
and i think thats part of the problem,..,
and even the few times yr not around each other,..,,.., your talking or doing something.,.,., that leads back to the relationship..,,.
and i think you can rip,.,..,alot of pages out of grandparents booook,,.,..,
who really spent,..,most of there youth away from each other,.,..,
,..,.,lloll,.,.
and there stuff,.,.,. no one needs to ask how long it lasted?
