Okay, I have a question and it's one that has crossed every girl's mind at one point. What is with you men?????
I mean for real, guys bitch and moan that there are no good girls out there. That they are all either sluts, or idiot air heads, or money hungry leeches, or some combination of the three.
So when you get a girl who isn't a nag really, makes friends with all your friends, is pretty, nice to your parents, good to you, doesn't care if you take her to taco bell or a 5-star full service restaurant. SHe doesn't mind hanging out in track pants but can just as easily look stunning in an evening gown, can talk cars and sports but at the same time is interested in other topics and can carry on intelligent conversation, you tell her you are so proud that out of all your friends you're happy to be the one with the most intelligent and successful girlfriend of them all. Tells you she loves you the way you are and that you don't have to change for anyone except yourself and that if you do want to change she is there to support you. Is loyal to her friends and wouldn't leave them hanging and lets you know she would do the same for you. Tells you that she loves you and will be patient with you while you figure out how to be in a relationship. Tries to understand you and takes you back when you f*ck things up and ignore her for days on end and then come back and tell her what an a*****e you feel like, and she doesn't make you feel like more of one than you already are even though you probably deserve it. And every time you guys have an argument or a new issue she NEVER throws your past screwups in your face, and you promise her that you will never shut her out again.
Why? Then why? Do you stiff her for an important family function, make her look stupid to her family, make her miss that family function, and then refuse to talk to her or return her calls or emails? Especially when the last time you spoke there was nothing wrong??
This happened to someone I really care about this weekend and you guys know me, I ususally have really good advice. But I am so upset for her, and he is such a nice guy normally, that I can't make heads or tails of this one. Anyone wanna jump in here and help me explain it to her because I am at a loss!
I mean for real, guys bitch and moan that there are no good girls out there. That they are all either sluts, or idiot air heads, or money hungry leeches, or some combination of the three.
So when you get a girl who isn't a nag really, makes friends with all your friends, is pretty, nice to your parents, good to you, doesn't care if you take her to taco bell or a 5-star full service restaurant. SHe doesn't mind hanging out in track pants but can just as easily look stunning in an evening gown, can talk cars and sports but at the same time is interested in other topics and can carry on intelligent conversation, you tell her you are so proud that out of all your friends you're happy to be the one with the most intelligent and successful girlfriend of them all. Tells you she loves you the way you are and that you don't have to change for anyone except yourself and that if you do want to change she is there to support you. Is loyal to her friends and wouldn't leave them hanging and lets you know she would do the same for you. Tells you that she loves you and will be patient with you while you figure out how to be in a relationship. Tries to understand you and takes you back when you f*ck things up and ignore her for days on end and then come back and tell her what an a*****e you feel like, and she doesn't make you feel like more of one than you already are even though you probably deserve it. And every time you guys have an argument or a new issue she NEVER throws your past screwups in your face, and you promise her that you will never shut her out again.
Why? Then why? Do you stiff her for an important family function, make her look stupid to her family, make her miss that family function, and then refuse to talk to her or return her calls or emails? Especially when the last time you spoke there was nothing wrong??
This happened to someone I really care about this weekend and you guys know me, I ususally have really good advice. But I am so upset for her, and he is such a nice guy normally, that I can't make heads or tails of this one. Anyone wanna jump in here and help me explain it to her because I am at a loss!
