Forget Bi Girls, Who's Lez.

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Waz Going on? :rainbow

So I'm a les. and NO I will not give you a chance to change my mind.
My advice is to stay away from Bi girls.
I'm looking for the right girl, and if she loves freestyle like I do that would be da bomb.
I am 24, femme from NYC.

Get back @ me :hearton
 
Sorry ma, I guess you could consider me Bi, but I do love freestyle.
 
ok as far as the stay away from bi girls thing....I will try to answer that

A LOT of lesbians, or shall I say "pure" lesbians as in those who have never touched a man feel that bi girls are basically whores & will only date other "pure" lesbians or lesbians that wer with a man once like mad years ago.

As for me, I was bi. Hell I was married & had 3 boys with my ex husband before I realized hey, I am really not bi I am just a lesbian.

Lo & Behold a few years later, I am divorced & "out"

Now, my personal opinion...I would mess with a bi-chick on a pure, hey ma ur cute lets chill type deal but as far as a commited relationship, I would probably have to say I would only seriously date a lesbian BUT considering my background, if she is gay now & used to be bi that is all good.

Some girls just like dating lesbians because they feel that they can get hurt less, it is a security thing. For me, if u r gonna cheat, u will cheat whether it is with a man or a woman, so that is not an issue for me.

I have dated bi chicks, I was a bi chick but the older I get (28 now UGH) I tend to more mature lesbian relationships.

Hope that makes sense & remember that is just my opinion 😉
 
Thanx for clarifying that Dayer...

LidadiMC, aren't you a freind of Missy's? We met at the South St pier a few years back......to see George LaMond perform..I had my kids.......

anyhow- I'm not Bi/les......

holla!
 
Hey Liz,

You're right, we did meet. I can't believe you remembered that was a while ago.

About the staying away from bi girls. Drawing from a recent experience that is my advice. I used to hear it all the time, that when a lesbian dates a bi someone always gets hurt. Lucky me I found it to be true. Ok, maybe it's wrong to generalize but in the long run I don't think they would be able to stay in a committed relationship.
 
SexyChola said:
WAIT! I have 1 question.....why stay away from bi girls????
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Ok, I can answer that.

I'm gay and read a book called "Husband Hunting Made Easy" (very funny) and the author lists different men to stay away from. One is "Say Bye-Bye to Bi Boys".

The reason was that if you are a gay man with a gay man, and your man becomes interested in another man, you can fight for him.

However, if you are dating a bi man, and he decides to leave ya for a woman, there is really nothing to do but accept defeat.

He ended the reason with "If you date a bi person, every setting will become a test of trust. A relationship is difficult to maintain without having to worry about every Dick AND Jane."
 
Chuck...I do see the point...but ya know the way I am or should I say used to be cuz its been awhile since I kicked it...but I liked having "Friends w/ Benefits" lol for real tho, just homegirls to go to the clubs & kick it but then whatever went from there went from there. Then go home like any other night... so I guess maybe all depends on what you ae looking for.
 
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