Darn it....I wanna CHEAT!

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Do we know if this couple is still together. After all the thread is 2 years old. All I got to say that there is a thing called cosmic justice. Like someone mentioned before what goes around comes around. The universe has a fuuny way of sending you back all the negative and positive energy you send out. It might not happen today, tomorrow or this year. But it will happen.
 
Putana said:
Ladies PLEASE don't hate me for this...but I GOTS to write my mind or I'll go nutsy. Not to mention I like hearing your suggestions & past experiences....

I'm back with my 'baby's mama' 😉 & we're trying to make amends....I truly feel like I love her & love to be around her....yet recently when I went to a club with some friends (which I only do once in a blue moon), some of these 'F'ing ladies....Geezuz!!!! One VERY attractive lady stood in my general area...glanced my way & gave me this look I can feel in my hip pocket! She waved & walked, staring me down...she wanted me to step to her....Argh! I didn't do sh*t, but I so desperately WANTED too! She was hot! Same thing here at work. This one chick is practically ASKING for it!

I just don't understand why I can't be like my cousin...he only has eyes for his 'bola de chicle' (he's a good looking guy & she's a bit rotund!) My women is FINE and all, we have strong similarities, we love doing things together & we have a son. We seldom fight, she's not jealous + she's a VERY good friend (which is important). As a bonus, she gives good 'pootie tang'!

So what's wrong with me!?!?! Can I love someone, yet wanna bang someone else?!?! It doesn't make sense, but that's what I feel! I truly feel like I love this women, but can't resist other a$$e$. What say you?

And I don't wanna "cheat" in the sense that I want another serious relationship! I'm just talking f*ck buddies! No brag intended, but their are some candidates that wanna "do it" no strings attached....oh how tempting!!!!

Again ladies, sorry if I make myself sound like a jerk...I'm only speaking my heart here!

p.s. - I may not post for a few days...I'm still searching for a **looks around cubie** job. Hopefully this thread will be nice & fat when I get back!
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Hey Putana,

I Think Its Ok To Look But Not To Touch When Your With Someone, But If
Your Are Really Tempted At Clubs Like You Said Maybe You Should Consider
Not Going to Clubs After All You Said You Only Go To Clubs Once In A While.
Could Find Something Else To Do With Your Friends? And Or Start Hanging
Out With Guys That Have Girlfriends Themselves. And Ask Yourself This Question Is It Really Worth Jeopordizing What You Have Know With Your Girl Friend?
 
tanktruck said:
Do we know if this couple is still together. After all the thread is 2 years old. All I got to say that there is a thing called cosmic justice. Like someone mentioned before what goes around comes around. The universe has a fuuny way of sending you back all the negative and positive energy you send out. It might not happen today, tomorrow or this year. But it will happen.
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Dam 3years old
Thanks for posting This I will Stop Posting In This Thread Immediately!!!!
 
If you love this woman set her free if you feel like you are going to fall in to temptation. It is very easy to fall, it's hard to say no. There are attractive people everywhere; but when you are committed they are all off limits. What are the other girls going to give you that is different from what you get at home? Really think about that, in the end its all the same, imagine if she were to be thinking about men like you are thinking about women. It's hard to find someone that loves you unconditonally, with all the good qualities that you mentioned about your woman. If you think that you are going to fall let her go or tell her that you have been going through a crisis and need some time to think about what you want. Remember think about this, how would you feel if your wife loves you and was giving it to alot of other guys on the side, without you knowing about it. Would you think she is a lying whore or would you say I understand completely because I was thinking of doing the same. Remember the famous saying because it is really true, what goes around comes around. And if you do cheat and she does find out because woman have a sixth sense called intuiton, then there goes the trust and without trust you guys are over with for ever, even if she does stay with you the relationship will never be the same. Is new ass worth all this?
 
I don't think any of you people know the true meaning of love.

Love isn't all about just p*ssy. Matter fact, love isn't about p*ssy.

It's about actually loving someone as if you love a friend, a mother, a father, etc...
That's what a RELATIONship is all about.

Love is giving. Love isn't about taking or needing.

I see your responses and I see a bunch of confused people with problems in relationships.
Why do we have so much more problems in a g/f, b/f relationship than as if we would have with a friend relationship for instance. I can answer that. Because most of you are in NEED of love and don't know how to give love without expecting anything back.

Love a loved one as if you are loving a mother.

Get the NEED that you feel from life. Get the best out of life. Love yourself first. It is only then that you can love someone in a relationship. Don't get caught up in bullshit relationships.

The people that we get caught up with tell us alot about ourselves. Remember that.

There's always a right way. But then again ignorance is always there.


P.S. And I don't wanna here no guy in here talk about whether or not the p*ssy is good. Does it matter that the p*ssy is good??????? I thought love conquered all.


As for you Putana, you can do whatever it is you want. But I can tell you something. I can tell that you "love" your wife or g/f because she seems to be the right match for you as you say. But I can say that you don't truly love her. If you did, there wouldn't be room for excess fantasies. Those fantasies your wife would fill.
 
Well, I think when you love someone who isoutside your family or friend relationshop and your really in love with them. It's a totally different kind of love. Stronger but in a different way. You still have loyality, honest, respect, commitment and intrigrity to them but it's on a totally different level. In fact, I would venture to say that it is stronger than any other relationship you have with anyone else.
 
No it isn't. I see it as a special kind of love. It isn't worth more or less than any other relationship.

I'm just saying that people do things to hurt one another and I don't think it's right. Would you make a friend hurt like that? A mother cry like that? I don't think so. You have to really care for the person (not just passion) your with as if you cared for a mother is the point I was trying to make. That's what REAL love is all about.

Love and passion are two different things. Best thing is we CAN feel both for that one special person.
 
Well, I value you input on the subject. But, atleast for me, this is how I feel. I'm not saying I'm right or your wrong. Just people see things differently. I know I love my partner more than anyone else in the world. But that doesn't take the love I have for my family either. You have more trust in your partner, more faith in your partner. Your spending more time with them than with anyone else. So, the bond is stronger.
 
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