Darn it....I wanna CHEAT!

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Putana

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Ladies PLEASE don't hate me for this...but I GOTS to write my mind or I'll go nutsy. Not to mention I like hearing your suggestions & past experiences....

I'm back with my 'baby's mama' 😉 & we're trying to make amends....I truly feel like I love her & love to be around her....yet recently when I went to a club with some friends (which I only do once in a blue moon), some of these 'F'ing ladies....Geezuz!!!! One VERY attractive lady stood in my general area...glanced my way & gave me this look I can feel in my hip pocket! She waved & walked, staring me down...she wanted me to step to her....Argh! I didn't do sh*t, but I so desperately WANTED too! She was hot! Same thing here at work. This one chick is practically ASKING for it!

I just don't understand why I can't be like my cousin...he only has eyes for his 'bola de chicle' (he's a good looking guy & she's a bit rotund!) My women is FINE and all, we have strong similarities, we love doing things together & we have a son. We seldom fight, she's not jealous + she's a VERY good friend (which is important). As a bonus, she gives good 'pootie tang'!

So what's wrong with me!?!?! Can I love someone, yet wanna bang someone else?!?! It doesn't make sense, but that's what I feel! I truly feel like I love this women, but can't resist other a$$e$. What say you?

And I don't wanna "cheat" in the sense that I want another serious relationship! I'm just talking f*ck buddies! No brag intended, but their are some candidates that wanna "do it" no strings attached....oh how tempting!!!!

Again ladies, sorry if I make myself sound like a jerk...I'm only speaking my heart here!

p.s. - I may not post for a few days...I'm still searching for a **looks around cubie** job. Hopefully this thread will be nice & fat when I get back!
 
Ohh shoot Putana....ask urself this "Do u really love her????" if you really do there should not be thoughts like these. During the time u were separated u probably had aquaintances, you liked and now wanna continue the same world.......yes its fun but if you want really want to mend things, just be with her, keep it that way, just her. What goes around comes around and when u least expect everything is known. Think like it is...would u like her to think in this way too. Keep yourself away from temptations, if you wanna bang, be alone, and have fun..dont hurt her in that way, in reality u are not playing her you are playing yourself. Think of what u want, who u want, is this the person that can makes u happy, will like for long term, if so dont play, if so be a playa, simple as that. :crap
 
BBOOP I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF!!!! PUTANA.....JUST REMEMBER THAT SAYING WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND.....YOU DO THIS TO HER AND ONE DAY THE ONE YOU TRULY LOVE WILL THEN DO IT TO YOU!!!!

SO THINK REALLY HARD.....LIKE BBOOP SAID IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER THEN YOU SHOULDN'T WANT TO .....YES TEMPTATIONS ARE STRONG, BUT SHOULDN'T YOUR LOVE BE STRONGER??? IF TEMPTATION IS ALOT STRONGER THEN DUDE I HATE TO SAY IT BUT YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE NOR DO I THINK YOU TRULY LOVE HER. YOU ARE JUST COMFORTABLE WITH HER, NOT ONLY CUZ YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR SO LONG, BUT SHE IS ALSO THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD AND YOUR FRIEND. YOU HAVE THAT SAFETY BLANKET THAT YOU CAN'T SEEM TO LET GO. THINK REALLY HARD BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING DRASTIC.....SHE DESERVES MORE THAN THAT!!! DON'T YOU THINK??? IF YOU REALLY FEEL THE NEED TO CHEAT....THEN I SUGGEST LETTING GO OF THAT SAFETY BLANKET AND BECOME SINGLE AGAIN.
 
thats my fresca..thinking the same here....women point of views..it was hard to respond to this without ugrrrrr :crap ...how about getting some opinions from the men up in here.....
 
I'm with Heavenly and Baby on this one Putana! Think about what you really want before you act!

Baby? I highly doubt the men would venture to post an opinion here! (gigglin cuz i know thats gonna stir em up) :angel
 
Hmm is it wrong to look? Probably not. Is it wrong to look and drool and think naughty thoughts? Heck yes. 🙂

I for one wouldn't want my boo to do that when she sees a guy. So why should I do it? And for what reason? I got a wife at home that cooks, cleans, loves me, and gives me good pu-tang every single night whenever I crave for it. 😛

I dont need nothing more. So if you are in a happy relationship...why why why??? Do you get that tired that easily? Are you REALLY tempted to try out another even if you are married or if not married have a girlfriend?

I dont know...I happen to think a female is the most adorable most precious thing in the entire universe...and to me...one world is enough, one p*ssy is enough. I dont even bother with out there, there's no point when you have a true friend to stick with you till the end.

And another thing...dont think she doesnt know you feel this way...cause clearly she knows!

~Antonio Martinez
 
>proud look< i knew Enigma would be up in here posting what its all about! 😉 >hugs Enigma<

REAL LOVE can not be replaced by one night stands! 😀
 
I've been waiting for Enigma to respond!!! LOL!!!

NUB YA ENIGMA 😀
 
Enigma, Nene..u a real Man...the only one who can post in here...and be on our side...Im looking for someone like u....where are u????? xoxoxo:blahxoxoxoSweety...
 
Heavenly muaaaaaaah!! :hearton

Deviouz amen @ love can't be replaced with one night stand.

BabyBettyB00p!


Thanks sweety!!! Im here, and I'm here again lol Thanks for those Thursday kisses!! hehehe

~Antonio 😱
 
Ladies...

Putana said he wouldn't be around this weekend that he would get the responses on Monday I believe! 🙂

I'm still wondering where all the male responses are! >giggles<
 
Wow! Elear is the only dude in here with the "gallz" to repond to this thread! Thanks to Elear & all who answered! Really!!!

Well, I dunno, but I've heard other guys (not on this site) have my same way of thinking! Its like, U FEEL like your in love, yet that wandering eye.....I can't stand it! I have my good weeks & my bad! This week I've been very good! In fact, I'm going on a mini-vacation to Orlando this weekend with her & my shorty! That should be fun! I guess I'm just addicted to various a$$....I dunno!
 
I respect your honesty Putana, and as someone in a commited loving relationship, I know where you are coming from. NO ONE is perfect, who matter what anyone sez...they will always be moments when you want what you dont have. a moment of wanting to be unattached and able to just "f*k" some chick...thats natural...i applaud you for your hoest feelings...but the difference between you and cheaters is that you stopped and thought about it and knew it wasnt right....

so do i believe that you love your girl and are happy in your relationship? YES I DO.
Much props
 
Aw Jen Jen! Your the BEST! I try! I actually haven't cheated on her when we're ACTUALLY together! Then again, the opportunity hasn't been THERE to take recently! When I worked at customer service....look out! Available "cooter" was everywhere! not to sound like a d*ck, but now that I'm in tech support I work with a bunch of nerdy guys & fugly, fat girls! Maybe that's God's way of sayin' "chill out chopsticks"! maybe.....
 
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