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Its many factors. For one its love. Another is respect.

Sometimes rbonuc29 a man has a home to come to..a wife that served him a warm meal...two beautiful kids screaming "daddy did you get me potatoe chips!"

Seeing your wife smile, your kids smile...then after midnight making love to your wife.

True guys dont want to throw all that down the drain because of some piece of ass...regardless how fine it is.

It takes a lot of courage to do that because temptation is a bitch. But who is stronger? Temptation or you? Well "will power" is stronger 😉
 
Tru Dat Ant.

I also think it depends on how you were raised, or what you saw as a child.

If your father had a "boys will be boys" mentality, and you were told to "go out and score", then you will most likely cheat. Or, if you watched your mother get cheated on, and she allowed it to happen (and when I say allowed, I mean she knew about it, and excused the behavior), you think that means all women should be treated that way.

I was raised to believe that finding someone to love is more important than sex, and that once you have that, you accept it, and celebrate it.
 
~Applauds~ Two gentle men indeed. I have always felt that we must teach our boys to respect women and our girls to demand the respect. I as a mother will never codone behavior that is disrespectful from either of my sons or daughter. I think what most people who cheat (i use people b/c both man and women do it) don't weight they options and only realize their mistake when they are caught and loose it all.
 
well im gonna answer this goofing around then im going to answer this seriously.

first gooofing around. its hard to stay with one woman when your going out with some one cuase theres so many hot chicks everywhere. that if i cant stay on a diet how can i be faithfull llol.

now seriously. when i get married. cuase of had some one or 2 years relationships. never cheated. im talking seeing thats when i cheat. but never in the relationship.

when i get married. based on what i saw my mom go through with divorce. when i get married. the woman will have to sign an oath in front of a lawyer. and a judge.

that she has to be with me provided i dont cheat etc. that she has to be with untill that kid graduates college. and not a moment before. after that she can go f**k who she wants llloll.

But i am determined. not have a broken house. the world has robbed me of much. but it wont no matter what rob me of that. i will not have a broken home thats for dam sure llol. thats one of my few last goals left in life lol.

and i will achieve it lol. even its by force llloll. but the woman that marries me stays with me all 22 years till that kid has a degree in his or her hand lllloll. wether she likes it or not.

shes free to go. but once she married to me shes staying married to till the kids has a degree. after that free to go could care less what you do. but my kids will not be raised in broken home. thats for sure.

thats one of those things that i have carved i stone. and no one will change it. not sex not money not temptation not anything llol. you marry me. your staying married lllloll. !not cuase of me. cuase im a sworn enemy of divorce. and i have a giant score to settle with it.

and that will be my revenege agsint the power or spirit of divorce if you will for my father leaving in 78. there will be no divorce in my house lol thats for sure. no matter what it takes.

period.

lloll

but since im not married i can cheat all i like for now llloll
 
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shes free to go. but once she married to me shes staying married to till the kids has a degree. after that free to go could care less what you do. but my kids will not be raised in broken home. thats for sure.
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Thats cool though that you put ahead the kids more than anything else. I like that.
 
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see man

you could have been at the sandbar tonight.
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yeah true lol "could" but didnt lmao

not my cup of tea. For many that is their fun. My fun is shopping, movies and PC lol
 
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But i am determined. not have a broken house. the world has robbed me of much. but it wont no matter what rob me of that. i will not have a broken home thats for dam sure llol. thats one of my few last goals left in life lol.
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Good Luck with that and I prayed that your dream will come rbonuc29, it's something I think we all want but one thing I have to say being a divorce mom, relationships that are not happy one's are already broken. A child should never grow up watching their parents be unhappy. And another thing being a husband and a father is two different title's. You can stop being a husband but a father you are for life. It's something I see alot of men forget. I thank god that my ex-husband never confused the two.
 
hahaha

oh belive me no one is getting divorced in this house. happy or not happy. who ever lands with me poooor her lllloll. but who ever lands with me. aint gonna be alllowed to disgrace the insitution of marriage.

i know our generation and our parents before us. treat marriage like an Suv they ride it for five years then trade it in. i will not allow any peer that ends up with me to disgrace the institution of marriage.

shes staying married wether she likes it or not lllol.
 
with what

lllolll

there is no luck i create my own lllol. other people need luck i dont. i create my own accomplishments and failures.

but thanks llloll. but holding a relationship for me is not a task. like it is for some people.

I can hold a two year relationship with one hand tide behind my back.

so whats 20 years llloll
 
it is

cuase in my relationships theres rules and order. and authority. thats why mine last for a long while. llol. and most peoples there is no order except disorder. thats why theres dont last.

mine have discipline and strict adherence to procedures from both sides. the rules of course i create llloll.

and thats it. after that you just set sails and see where it goes.

but most relationships these days run without a leader llloll. where everybody is 50 50.

and we all know where those end up.

anyway why do i keep talking about this??

you notice how all the arguement i have here are with women. i gotta stop talking to you girls your slowly

killing my head. ok convo over

except with enigma lllllolll.

yeah man its important to me that my kids get raised in a home which is has a mother and father for life.

and thats my goal.

and i will not be stopped. and i will conquer it. and i will have a 20 plus year marriage.
 
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it is

cuase in my relationships theres rules and order. and authority. thats why mine last for a long while. llol. and most peoples there is no order except disorder. thats why theres dont last.

mine have discipline and strict adherence to procedures from both sides. the rules of course i create llloll.

and thats it. after that you just set sails and see where it goes.
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