Announcing my "retirement"....

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ChuckD

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Hiya CFers!

After much thinking about my current situation, I am unfortunately making this post to announce my retirement from the club scene.

10 years ago, I went out with friends to celebrate one of them turning 21. We went to a club called "Bumpers" (it's since closed) and they had the music pumped sooo loudly, it sounded distorted coming from the speakers.

The next morning, I awoke with permanent damage to my ears. I now have tinnitus, a non-stop ringing or buzzing sound in my ears.

Because I didn't go to clubs that often, it wasn't much of an issue. However, since joining the online freestyle community, my attendance of shows has increased, which is no good for my ears. I tried using earplugs, but it doesn't really help.

Copa on Wednesday was the last straw, as my ears are still ringing from that show. The volume is slowly decreasing in the ringing, but it is still louder than it has been before. So as much as I hate to say it, Backdrafts on Saturday will be my last show. 🙁 I will be there to give support to the new schoolers one last time, and see everyone that I can. I will have earplugs in, so if you talk to me and I don't respond, give me a chance to take them out.

If I remember right, Backdrafts has a "backroom" where there are pooltables and the music isn't sooo loud. If it gets bad, I can run back there to give my ears a break.

Anytime there is a get together like a dinner, or beach party or whatever, I'm down for that, but the clubs are out. I'm only 35, and it is way too soon to lose my hearing. Especially when I have sooo much that I want to hear in the future (my guy taking his wedding vows with me, my kids' first words).

It was great meeting all of you at the shows, and thanks for giving me the memories that I have! It's been great. And at the next show, after Backdrafts, make sure you toss one back for me! 😉

Keep supporting the shows guys!
 
wow chuck......had no idea. Hope your hearing gets better man. Have ablast on your next and final event. But your smart about preserving your hearing for future events in your life. God Bless.
 
Chuck we understand- and we love you

we're behind you .. don't sacrifice your well being for a night of fun. You're still a part of us!!!!
 
Awww Chuckie!!! You'll be missed, but your health is first! It was so great to hang out with you again! Your the best - had me laughing all night! :lol
 
Sorry to hera that. I hope you feel better.
 
Take care of yourself FIRST. We can all have fun at other events that doesn't involve clubs and loud music. You're such a great person and with that kind of personality you need to preserve your hearing for compliments. 😉
 
Chuck that isnt such a bad idea, I am pretty sure there will be plenty of get togethers that wont be so loud...Ummmm.... Like lets say My Pajama Party LOL 😉 Hint Hint. Take care of your ears. MUAHHHH
 
no worries chuck do what u gotta do to take care of your hearing... use earplugs if u need to hit up a club.... and don't use a walkman, or at least keep the headphone volume very low... 🙂
 
Liz_Torres said:
we're behind you .. don't sacrifice your well being for a night of fun. You're still a part of us!!!!
Exactly! 🙁 And don't think that means you're not welcome on the board anymore, because you'd be WRONG! 😛
 
Hey Chuck, you do what you got to do, and your health definitely comes first. I'm going to miss seeing you at shows, but you will always be there in spirit! And hey, if you ever feel like getting together for like dinner or movie, feel free to hit up Maci and I. She is only one town away from you, and I'm out there pretty much every weekend, so as I said, if you want to spend a night with the M&M's let us know! 🙂

Look forward to seeing you tomorrow night and having a great time!
 
That sux....but hey you gotta take care of yourself (#1 priority brother).

I'm not going to BackDrafts, so not gonna meet ya for who knows how long buddy 🙁 .

If you're ever up in our neck of the woods, you're more than welcome to stop in.
 
Thanks for the love everyone!!!!!!!

I won't lie, I'm really bummed by this decision. One of the reasons I was so psyched about my weight loss was that I can dance for longer periods, and now that really doesn't matter. I'm doing some research on this topic. This is not something that can be cured, but there are treatments that can "lessen" the volume of the ringing. However, you have to stay away from loud noises. So the clubs are definitly out.

I'll always be around the sites, and any "non-club" gathering that happens, I'll be there!!! There are still people here I haven't met that I want to (Henny, Tank) and there has to be a way to work around this.
 
for a second i thought this was another "i'm leaving CF thread"... so i was prepared to yell atcha... but hey... u know what's best for you.. you already done enough to support 🙂... alll the best!
 
aww sorry to hear this Chuck.. u have to take care of yourself!! you are one cool person!! very funny also u had me dying @ the copa!! well take care of yourself and hope to see u around at one of the non club events!!
 
HEY CHUCK .... SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR HEARING.... MY MOM HAD THAT FOR YEARS... PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF...YOUR HEALTH COMES FIRST , NOW AND ALWAYS.... GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS ... MUAHZZZZZZZ !!!! :wave

AND HI TO ALL YOU GUYS.... JUST STOPPING BY ... YOU KNOW I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF MOM ALWAYS... GOD BLESS HER TOO.... :hpound
 
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