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Thanks Chuck and La Mas...you both make good points. I just feel like maybe I need to ask him why he has been so distant lately (as a friend). Sometimes you need closure to finally move on. Chuck, I could rake my brain trying to figure out why he is acting this way but only he knows the real reason why. Thanks again 🙂

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Freestygal said:
Thanks Chuck and La Mas...you both make good points. I just feel like maybe I need to ask him why he has been so distant lately (as a friend). Sometimes you need closure to finally move on. Chuck, I could rake my brain trying to figure out why he is acting this way but only he knows the real reason why. Thanks again 🙂

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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NO OFFENCE.....BUT IF HE DONT CARE, THEN WHY DO YOU. HES MARRIED AND MOVED ON. HE DONT CALL OR VISIT...BUT YOU OVER YOU ALL STRESSED OUT....MY ADVICE TO YOU.....READ THE WRIGHTING ON THE WALL AND MOVE ON...YOU CANT BE HIS LOVER , AND HE DONT WANT YOU AS A FREIND. ITS THAT SIMPLE. if you agree he only wanted to use you ...is that the kind of freind you want?
 
Im not saying that...all I was wondering is how someone go act one way and then act completely dfferent without any explanation. I guess I shouldnt have bothered posting this...the best thing to do is ask him directly. Not because I want anything from him..just some answers. Like I said, sometimes u need to know in order to have closure. Oh, and Im not saying he agreed to use me...I dont know what goes on inside his head. I said I cant rake my brain trying to figure out the answers to his behavior when only he knows.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Well .. maybe you should be happy he stepped back.. cuz eventually, all that flirting would've eventually come to something!! People think that they are strong and they can say no.. but sometimes just when you think you got it under control.. all hell breaks lose..! Why would you try and get some answers from him? He really doesn't owe you anything. He's married and belongs to someone else. Sorry, but you should really leave it alone.
 
Im not saying he owes me anything...but when someone has ben in your life for a long time..as a friend even...and then they just stop communicating with you, you feel like you want to know why. Whatever the reason is, at least if you know, you can move on. I wasnt asking this because I want to pursue a relationship with him. I asked because I was wondering why people can just change so easily. Im not like that...Im a nice, good hearted person and I dont all of a sudden change into a nasty person. People need to make up their minds which way they want to be.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Randi,

the best thing u can do is forget about him. Learn from the situation. He's probably ignoring you because he couldnt get what he wanted. Guys are dogs... bueno... SOME GUYS (antes que me llaman la atencion otra vez... Henny...:nah ). but U live and learn...
 
do you really want a friend who is dishonest?? that is no friend that is someone out for himself.
 
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