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When do you think parents should start talken about sex to the females and how much info should we give them. For one my mother said keep your legs closed but never said its something I had to do meaning she didnt say you cant have sex till your married she just sayed its better if you wait,keep your legs closed you dont want a child at a young age. So I guess I was afraid of losing it because I heard things ffrom my friends saying it hurt so thats what scared me also I was afraid to lose it because I didnt want the guy to diss me afterwards, (my brothers taught me about that) I wasnt scared to lose it as to my mother would disown me and shit. Thats why when it happened and my mother asked me maybe a yr after I did it I wasnt afraid to tell her that I had done it. I always want to keep an open relationship with my daughter I mean even though she is only 3 months old now I just know this is a soft issue to me. I want her to be able to talk to me about things.
 
never... to be honest i never had a SEX talk with my mom... and i STILL feel uncomfortable talking to her about it... kids learn thru school and media... i never needed my mom to tell me anything... i guess its different for everyone.. i personally hate talking to her about anything sexual... but some girls do... u sorta just gotta take the risk... she'll either open up... or not
 
How about when you keep telling your child keep your legs closed do you think that thats ok or just telling them one time and letting them figure it out by themselves.
 
I'm 18 and my mom knows everything about me. She knows I'm sexually active, she knows I smoke, all that bad stuff. It hurts her but it makes her feel better that she knows rather then me hiding it from her. I like it too because I dont have to sneak around.
 
did she ever ask you if you were sexually active?
 
I think that all you can do is teach your child about sex the responsibility it takes, the risk and the consquences. Give them examples. Show them what could happen if they do. Let them know that at that age most boys love ya till you open your legs then love goes straight out the door and that they don't respect you. Talk about sexually transmitted diseases. Not all diseases can be stopped by a condom.

I have a teenage daughter and we are pretty open with each other. She looks at boys in front of me and yeah i laugh cause she knows what will happen if she goes further than even lookin. See theres my beat down, Her Dads death wish carried out, and her Titi LMG who will kill her again after she dies. Yeah pretty much the death threat works. lmfao!

My daughter knows better she even says hell no i'm not gettin caught up in all that when all they want is booty.
 
I dont mean talk sex but basically what LMg does and La Matrix. they talk about the importance and the consequences on the issues I for one never spoke about Sex with my mom but I she told me the consequences and things about it.
 
You HAVE to talk to your kids about sex. If not, they will experiment and then they will learn the hard way about pregnancies, aids, and other stds.

I remember my Mom talking to me about sex, she talked to me about condoms, and how to use them, and while she didn't expect me to wait until I was married, she said I should at least wait for it to be someone I cared about, otherwise, it meant nothing.

She also told me that it was something I shouldn't talk about, because while it was ok for guys to have sex, the girl will get a "reputation" and I should always take her feelings into consideration.

Obviously, that was before I came out..........:lol
 
I agree with you chucky I like the way your mom explained it.
 
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