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ok lets adress a few things shall we.... first of all im not who some of you think i am. although i know her and i applaud her courage to say what ever she wanted regardless of how many of you gave her a hard time. think about why would she need to create a new log in name just to be part of something you never made her welcomed too? isn't her man a VIP member here? so if she really wanted to peep on CF she has every oppurtunity and none of you would be the wiser. so i gues you are not as smart as you think you are. chuckd you say you closed my thread to protect the names of some the poeple who where mentioned in my peom yet you wanted everyone to believe that I was someone who was banned and reincarnated? so how were you protecting the person who you assumed I was? then you said if you used your "power" abusively you would close up all the gay bashing threads as soon as they are written. when are you gonna stop pulling the gay card? I never saw any threads here bashing gays. perhaps a few people have used various less than flattering names to describe a gay person but thats not bashing. having said that we get it already. you are gay and proud of it so why do you always have to say it? i don't see straight men saying "im straight" all the time. its just annoying.
many of you mods/super mods here have one thing in common you all say that the reason you close threads or ban peeps is to keep the drama off the boards but people love drama. like someone else said life would be very boring if we all agreed and had the same likes and dislikes all the time. like i said before this site is turning into the OPRAH show with the beauty tips and the movie reviews. whats next? who's my baby daddy or i need a makeover? get real. we can all turn on the tv for this shiat.
i don't care what you say mods here abuse their power and thats just the bottom line. i log on and see it happening all the time. as long as you are outside of the little familia just say one thing that rubs someone the wrong way and you are out. yes if i don't like it i can just never log in you are 100% correct about that but instead of people leaving or getting dropped why don't you try to make this a place where we can be ourselves and say things that we want to say? we all don't have to agree. if i read something that i don't agree with I either offer my view or ignor it. thats just the way you ahve to live your life. everything can't go the way you want it to all the time so you either try and change things or say FUK it.
chuckd if you feel like closing this thread now please do whatever you feel you must it won't cost me a dime. you got the power...
 
ok lets adress a few things shall we.... first of all im not who some of you think i am. although i know her and i applaud her courage to say what ever she wanted regardless of how many of you gave her a hard time. think about why would she need to create a new log in name just to be part of something you never made her welcomed too? isn't her man a VIP member here? so if she really wanted to peep on CF she has every oppurtunity and none of you would be the wiser. so i gues you are not as smart as you think you are.

It wouldn't be the first time it's happened....far from it.


then you said if you used your "power" abusively you would close up all the gay bashing threads as soon as they are written. when are you gonna stop pulling the gay card? I never saw any threads here bashing gays.


How would you know that if you claim you are a new member?



perhaps a few people have used various less than flattering names to describe a gay person but thats not bashing. having said that we get it already. you are gay and proud of it so why do you always have to say it? i don't see straight men saying "im straight" all the time. its just annoying.


That's rich....I think a gay/lesbian would know when he/she is being bashed...it's like being straight bashed...oops, my bad, that doesn't happen, so you really wouldn't know then?




i don't care what you say mods here abuse their power and thats just the bottom line. i log on and see it happening all the time. as long as you are outside of the little familia just say one thing that rubs someone the wrong way and you are out.



It doesn't matter if you are in or out of the "familia"....I can roll out a few names that were beloved members of this site that have been banned: Nyasia, DJ Paradise, Kenny Guido, Mickey Garcia..it really doesn't matter who you are.
 
demore said:
when are you gonna stop pulling the gay card? I never saw any threads here bashing gays. perhaps a few people have used various less than flattering names to describe a gay person but thats not bashing. having said that we get it already. you are gay and proud of it so why do you always have to say it? i don't see straight men saying "im straight" all the time. its just annoying.
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I'm not replying to the rest of your thread, or Poetry in Motion's post, because the fact of the matter is we see things differently. The three of us could debate on this issue until the day we all die, and no one is gonna see it differently.

I'm addressing the item I quoted above because I'm sure you are not the only member here who feels that way.

Yes, I bring out my sexuality a lot, and have the avatar and the signature. I do this on every website I am a member of. On top of that, I have my AIM ID there.

I have been contacted on a weekly basis by new people who are in the closet, and have no one to talk about it. I've have been contacted by more than a few members here who are in the closet, who tell me that my being out makes them feel welcome, and comfortable, and gives them hope that they will take that step for themselves.

If my being "that out" can help other gay men accept who they are, and come out, and stop living life on the "down low" and putting themselves (and the straight women they marry) at risk for A.I.D.S and other STDs, then I'm gonna keep doing it.
 
ChuckD said:
I'm not replying to the rest of your thread, or Poetry in Motion's post, because the fact of the matter is we see things differently. The three of us could debate on this issue until the day we all die, and no one is gonna see it differently.

I'm addressing the item I quoted above because I'm sure you are not the only member here who feels that way.

Yes, I bring out my sexuality a lot, and have the avatar and the signature. I do this on every website I am a member of. On top of that, I have my AIM ID there.

I have been contacted on a weekly basis by new people who are in the closet, and have no one to talk about it. I've have been contacted by more than a few members here who are in the closet, who tell me that my being out makes them feel welcome, and comfortable, and gives them hope that they will take that step for themselves.

If my being "that out" can help other gay men accept who they are, and come out, and stop living life on the "down low" and putting themselves (and the straight women they marry) at risk for A.I.D.S and other STDs, then I'm gonna keep doing it.
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You go Chuck! :cheer
 
That's right!! When I came out, I felt I was able to breathe again....of course being caught wearing mom's high heels lip-synching to "Fame" at age 3 was probably a dead giveaway, but that's another story....
 
Brklyn345 said:
That's right!! When I came out, I felt I was able to breathe again....of course being caught wearing mom's high heels lip-synching to "Fame" at age 3 was probably a dead giveaway, but that's another story....
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OMFG!! LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO
 
Brklyn345 said:
Because CF is so much more than just a freestyle site. Sometimes the purpose of the "silly" threads is meant to be just that...an outlet for all of us to bug out with fellow Cf peeps. Other times it can be an outlet to vent anger at what's going on in our lives, the lives of those we care about, and what's going on in this world. When you have the time PIM, I suggest you use the search engine and browse previous threads...you'll come across many happy threads, many sad ones, and of course, the drama threads....you'll see why this site is special to many of us because many of the fellow CF peeps have never met, and probably will never meet, due to our various locations in the world, yet we feel comfortable speaking our personal biz up in here...stuff we never even tell our families LOL.
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My reply was more of a point I was trying to get across rather than an actual question.
 
I don't wanna get involved in this crap but I would hafta bet Chuck's intentions are genuine & his actions are in the best interest of all parties involved... 🙂
 
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HI Krystal, welcome back!!!

:1popcorn anyone want butter on theirs?
 
SuzyD said:
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HI Krystal, welcome back!!!

:1popcorn anyone want butter on theirs?
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I'll take some! Hand it over here gurl!! :lol Add some humor to this thread for a change 😉.
 
LOL @ Ed! Almost like I never left huh? Yeah something like that...even though we're goin on day 55 or some stupid ish like that. *sigh*

Hiiiiiiiiiiii Chuck and Suzy! Welcome back? For a bit anyways! TRYIN to get back in to my own damn house and when that happens...POOF goes the internet access again cuz while we'll have electricity...the cable and phone lines will still be down but I ain't gonna stress that cuz right about now I'd give my first born to be able to sleep in my own damn bed! :lol :lol
 
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