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if there is nothing that burns me more is when a guy tries to be a man when he is trying to get you, and then without a word they just shut you out completely! if you don't want to continue the relationship then be the same agressive man and speak your mind.

A very Close friend of mine is going through a tough time now, and it burns me that it's always the good ones, that get burned!, I mean is it so wrong to care for someone? is it so hard to accpet that affection and just ride with it? I mean really what the hell are you scared of? it won't kill you, or leave you bankrupt, so what exactly are you running from? The easiest thing in life is to love someone and let your self be loved, so why do they make it so hard. Who in here wouldn't want to be loved unconditionally? So i hope everything works out for her and that her frined realizes what a great girl she really is, and how wonderful life will be just because he has her in it.
 
Nyasia... i so feel ur girl on this... it happened to me... this guy just stopped out of no where... of course he tried to make things up in months after... but I mean why not just tell me what's going on. It's painful and yes, annoying.

I hope ur friend gets what she deserves best-- a better man.
 
Ohhhhh Naya I know EXACTLY what you mean....You know my history with Bill....I gave him EVERYTHING and would have given him more but he was not ready for my love....was too scared. Sometimes people run away from love because they too have gotten burned and felt what it was to loved and dissed again. Girl why don't you think I can't be with anyone yet....I can't be in love cuz I don't have the heart to give out.
 
Things you can't explain Nya. Oh wait...it is explainable...they not a man! 😡

Sounds you have a great friend there Nyasia who has a heart of pure beauty. This man doesnt deserve it...so she needs to shut him out the way HE shut her out of his heart!

There is plenty of nice gentlemen's out there and such a sweety doesn't deserve to be around a guy who is either confused/lost or plain weak.

~Antonio
 
She is a total gem, and he in his own way cares for her, but too much confusion plagues the mind. I know things will work out for the best for both of them, because when you open your heart with nothing but purity, it will win.

Thanks guys for your insights too.
 
that is messed up...
naya i am real.... whether i am with a girl or trying to get with a girl... i don't put up fronts for anyone.... you have to be real with da ladies....women love when men are themselves,,, so be real guys no frontin.....the ladies deserve it
 
Thanks Rookie. I say be real from the start too, that way there are no surprises later on. But I think things are starting to clear up now. 😀
 
Damn am I the only person who is siding with the guy....I mean I understand where he is coming from. YES I know it might be hard for the other (cuz I've been there) but sometimes what WE want doesn't really happen the way we want them to be. Sometimes you just need to give that person time to deal with their issues, back off and say hey I love you enough to let you go and do what you must do. If you say these two are meant to be or that it will work out in the future then he will come back and when he does he will give her more than what she ever dreamed he would give her. If he doesn't return than it wasn't meant to be and she will find her true love soon. Only time can only tell. The guy isn't a jerk because he can't accept what is being given to him, he's just scared and confused and we have all been there before.
 
i am sorry any guy who puts up a front in any situation is a straight up cornball(had a nastier word but we have censors.
Like all these songs say KEEP IT REAL
 
i don't know how people can defend people who lie and put up fronts.
i guess they want to live their lives in a lie.... thinking that the significant other is one thing when the significant other is actually the opposite
 
Look all I can say maybe HE DID keep it real....maybe he told her from the get go that he didn't want to get serious, maybe he told her about his past (if any), maybe he just didn't think about the consequences. How was he to know he would fall for this girl the way he did?? Hmmmm these are all assumations I am making from the thread Naya posted and some from experience. I know how it was to get the bad deal.....but I'm starting to understand....starting to see stuff I was soo blinded and time gave me this insight. I don't know.....I don't know these people but I can only say how I see it and what I have experience. I just don't think its fair to be pissed at the guy.....maybe she's better off without him. Who knows. All I am saying is that we're humans....we get scared for whatever reason....
 
if a person can not be honest from the door... when talking to someone or getting to know someone....then he is a a*****e...
honesty goes a long way in friendships, relationships and life...

so to you ladies out there, if you want to front, get the steppin cause i don't want to hear it
 
well in this case Heavenly, things were always out in the open between these two, but he's the one who won't let go, but won't step up to the plate either. what I am saying is that if you want to leave then leave, but be a man about it and say it, don't just go ghost on her?, speak your mind, say what's bothering you, don't just think that she is going to guess what ia wrong..
 
Yea I know what you are saying and I feel for her BIG time.....I've been there 🙁
 
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