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Hi guys! I am stuck in a situation thats killing me. I had a boyfriend back in 96 we lived together until 98. i left him and moved back home. met another man married him and now have a beautiful 5 year old boy. The thing is that i still think aloooot about my ex. but he was the biggest @!#hole in the planet. he was a jerk "you name it he did it"he was also my very first everything! why do you suppose i feel like this? do i need some tipe of closure or im just being dumb? dont get me wrong i do love my husband very much!
 
It's always harder to get over your first love, it will take some time but dont worry you will.
 
like everyone says you don't forget your first love..
even if he was an a*****e...
trust me i know..
i sometimes find my self thinkin of my frist love ,.... and that mane did me wrong.. to make a long story short i cried every night i was in that relationship...
and i'm over him and i'm in love once again. but he still passes my mind once in a while.
 
First loves are tough to get over but if he is on your mind that often you may need closure..A passing thought as crazygirl mentioned is one thing but on your mind all the time, must be confusing for you. How long have you been married?[
babygirl559 said:
Hi guys! I am stuck in a situation thats killing me. I had a boyfriend back in 96 we lived together until 98. i left him and moved back home. met another man married him and now have a beautiful 5 year old boy. The thing is that i still think aloooot about my ex. but he was the biggest @!#hole in the planet. he was a jerk "you name it he did it"he was also my very first everything! why do you suppose i feel like this? do i need some tipe of closure or im just being dumb? dont get me wrong i do love my husband very much!
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theres no question that assholes stay on womens minds forever. in bad or good way lol.

the reason for that has nothing to do with you its. Genetics and biology. women are programmed by millions of years of biology to look for a provider. thats there main mission. the rest is secondary. lol.

and so who has better chance of providiing in the jungle an a*****e or nice sweet guy lol?

so the biology kicks in lol. it will always kick in on that one lol?

and while women might even hate this man. they will always kind of follow him. cuase he is an a*****e. many women hate the men theyre with. but they stay with them.

becuase of that assholeness. cuase they this how stupid women are lol they view it as a strong quality. lol

but anyway again whats happening to you is not your fault. its genetics lolll.

an a*****e will always be on a womans mind. lolll

thats a given lolll
 
and you know a little follow up to that.

every guy that i know today that has marriage 10 or 15 years. has a little bit hardness

about him. meaning his way or highway type. and every guy i know thats not an a*****e.

or not stubborn usually single more often than not lol. just an observation i have made

over the years. and remember i never offer personal opinions.


these are scientific observations i have made over yearrrrrs. lllol.
 
He was your first "everything" honey....not easy to forget.

and rbonuc....as for that women are stupid coment....watch your tongue baby, for you are no genius. :nono
 
rbonuc29 said:
well ok if you can tell me what the state bird of new jersey was in 1830 by 5 pm i'll

take it back lloll
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Was it not the Goldfinch??? (shrugs cuz I don't know and don't care, but I'll humor you anyway, lol)...........ay, yai, yai...what am I going to do with you?
:yoplease
 
thanx guys for the good and wierd advice you guys are to cute! i will go to bed at night triyng to wander my mind on something else that is not him! sometimes i find my self in lala land with my husband right next to me and im thinking about my ex! wandering how hes been who hes with. but i wont let it control my life.

thanx much love and respect
love the cf family:1luv
babygirl559
 
bx cookie im gonna give you credit. but i really dont know if you posted it by 5 pm llol.

but i tell you what ill give you the first dance if i see you at club llloll. hows that?

for reward Or punishment?. llol. wait to you see me lol? or i see you llol ?


but anyway great job.

and i take it back. women are smart.
 
baby girl

another thing you can do. is buy a cat. actaully i got to admit to you what your going through part of it is normal.

when i was with a girl i cared for very much we cared for each other very much. but we both stunk in bed lol. one of things? actually i did and she thought she was great. but she really stunk lol ! i didnt care cuase i liked her. but man was she bad in bed holly crap. but anyway

what i did is i would picture who i would want in bed. etc,. and it worked well. lol

what im getting at i really dont know what im getting at cuase im hungry and i really dont care about relationships that much.

except that yes when your with some one else ill admit your mind does wonder. mine did.

its normal. look if it really bothers you that much sleep with that guy your thinking about one more time?

if you dont want to cuase you love your hubsand more. than your prob cured ?

next case?

llloll,.
 
rbonuc29 said:
bx cookie im gonna give you credit. but i really dont know if you posted it by 5 pm llol.

but i tell you what ill give you the first dance if i see you at club llloll. hows that?

for reward Or punishment?. llol. wait to you see me lol? or i see you llol ?


but anyway great job.

and i take it back. women are smart.
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OMG, lol
1 - If you look on the top of my post, it says I posted it about 10:19 am, so that answers that.

2 - I will give you the first dance if I can KNOCK you for all the stupid comments you have made!....LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

3 - I am not far from the Westchester Square train station. 5 min walk from work....15 minute drive from home.

4 - I didn't have plans to go to Remy on Friday.

5 - And your "women are smart" comment....that's the smartest thing you've said so far.

But I still got luv 4 ya boo!
 
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