Why do guys run away???

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My best friend, whos 18 (no Not Me, lol)got pregnant by her boyfriend..and he ran away! She told me he says hes got a new girlfriend and tries makes her jealous.He's being a real jerk! I even told him I'd kick his ass!UGGGHHHH! F&%ker!She's so upset.I've never seen her cry before this. Its so hard to chear her up.I feel so bad for her. What can I do to chear her up and help her feel better? and Why do guys get young girls pregnant and leave????😡
 
Cuz they're not ready. I was in the exact same position. Tell her to think about how her baby will feel if someone pops in and out of their life without rhyme or reason. It would make that baby feel bad. That's what my dad did, and my cuz (who don't kow her dad) said she's glad she never met him cuz it would hurt way more to know that he KNOW'S you and he don't want to see you than it would if he doesn't. I don't know if this make sense. I hope it helps though. She will find someone someday who could be more to her child than an immature boy could be. That's for sure...
 
LatinoCop said it best! Also there are some people that are just cowards when it comes to being responcible and doing the right thing. People that won't stick around aren't worth the tears. They don't really care. LilShyGyrl all you can do is be there for your friend and try and help in whatever way you can. That guy isn't worth you getting hurt in some way. I hope thing's turn out okay for your friend!! Take care!!
 
The boy is a deadbeat, if he comes back, kick him out, you dont want your baby to grow up knowing his/her dad doesnt care for him/her. But collect Child Support.

Just look at Eminems case with his pops leavin when Em was 2 months old. Now you have to think about the child, thats #1 now.


peace
 
well this is how I look at it....

IT TAKES TWO!
 
i also agree with latinocop, and the rest of the gang, he is an a*****e... :crap
 
lilshygyrl said:
My best friend, whos 18 (no Not Me, lol)got pregnant by her boyfriend..and he ran away! She told me he says hes got a new girlfriend and tries makes her jealous.He's being a real jerk! I even told him I'd kick his ass!UGGGHHHH! F&%ker!She's so upset.I've never seen her cry before this. Its so hard to chear her up.I feel so bad for her. What can I do to chear her up and help her feel better? and Why do guys get young girls pregnant and leave????😡
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Those guys are freakin' idiots. They're obviously selfish and have to consideration for others. Just to be fair i don't know what the situation was the led to him leaving, but if he did it just cause, than that's just plain wrong. A blessing in disguise for your friend 'cause now she knows where he's coming from.
 
Why do guys get young girls pregnant and leave????
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There are two parties at work here, the inserter and the receiver. The question should be why your friend chose to receive in the first place?
 
Abortion is a relatively easy tool to utilize here in the United States, take advantage of it before the end of first tri-mester and be careful in the future.
 
I'm very sorry that your friend is going through this, shygyrl. I wish I could give some "comforting" advice. But let us know how things come along. If you feel it's still appropriate to talk about it. 🙁

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the best thing you could do for her is to be by her side no matter what decision she makes with her baby. Right now she may not realize a lot of things, but in the end she'll know that even though he ran away - a true friend stayed in her life and helped her out when she needed it the most! she'll be the happiest gurl in the world becuase of u! just stay by her side.
 
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