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why when guys get upset they act and say they dont care about anything yet they say they still love u. (kinda like some mind game shit)then when u wanna talk bout it..they dont. :confused
 
Well with me it's cuz i feel like i'm theone being played so why would i care about what i'm saying, funny i just went through some stuff like this. well if you need to talk hun you know my aim name i'll be happy to speak with yu on this....
 
because some guys are not good at expressing there feelings we have been told that men shouldnt get emotional about any thing and only females get that way
 
IT'S A DEFENSE MECHANISM THAT'S USED TO HIDE WHAT'S REALLY BOTHERING THEM....ALOT OF TIME YOU HAVE TO ALLOW THEM TO VENT THEIR FRUSTRATIONS AND THEN CALM DOWN IN ORDER TO DISCUSS WHATEVER THE PROBLEM IS....MY MAN THREATENS TO LEAVE ME EVERYTIME WE ARGUE ABOUT SOMETHING..I DON'T PAY HIM ANY MIND (after 7 yrs u learn)LOL

SO ONCE HE'S CALM WE DISCUSS THE ISSUE...AND 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 IT DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO W/ME TO BEGIN WITH.
 
LMFAOOOOOO @ sexxxe

well sweetie I wish I could help but I've been going through this myself. I really don't know. but lemme tell you when u start having that same old I don't care attitude boy do the tables turn! I've come to a point in my life where I'm fed up w/ being the one to always make things right! PHUK THAT! if he wants me he can come look for ME plain & simple. don't sweat mamacita, b/c if things don't work out it's his loss...TRUST!
 
It is not every man is like that, just as the same as every woman being emotional, not every one is like that nor should they be put in a catagory. All it is dealing with emotion and the way it is acted upon. Take the time to learn about who ever your dealing with. Just because you don't understand it, doesn't mean it is not right. Open you ears, eyes and heart, and take time to understand what is happening and why.
 
I AINT LISTENING TO THAT CRAP EVERY MAN ISNT LIKE THAT!! WHO EVER I HAVE BEEN A SWEET HEART TOO ENDS UP FUKIN ME OVER! NO MO NICE SEXXXE I REPLACE DONT CHASE THEY CAN KISS MY ASS!!BEALIVE ME B ABY GIRL WHEN U START GIVIN THEM THAT FACE U WILL BE THE ONE TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT ITS WHEN THEY START FUKIN U OVER BC THEY KNO NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO UR SO WEAK ULL GO BAK! BELEIVE ME I KNO!
 
I say a lot of crap when I get mad which I know will bother my girl..well that's why I say it in the first place 🙂 but it's only anger talking. We guys realize that once we calm down and think things over then we come at you with the "I'm soooooorry!" 🙁


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he drinks everynight. i dont know bout him anymore thou. he said some shit to me yesterday saying if he tells me to sit i better sit. I hope he was playing around cuz I'm not trying to hear that controlling shit.
 
right you said it right they act like they don't care, but they still love ya... just tell them to cry you a river, build a bridge and get over it......they will get the hint
 
GIRL, I SAY RUN FOR THE HILLS!!! I COULD NEVER BE WITH SOMEONE WHO MEDICATES THEMSELVES WITH ALCOHOL EVERY NIGHT...HE MIGHT HAVE A PROBLEM.
AND AS FOR THE LIL COMMENT, WAS HE JOKING? IF NOT THAT'S THE FIRST SIGN...SOME MEN ARE ABUSIVE WHEN THEY DRINK (VERBAL OR EVEN PHYSICAL)...CUT HIM OFF AND MOVE ON.
 
If a person uses a substance as a form of therapy, that is not a good thing. Even when you talk to him, look at his past behavior from different aspects (happy , sad, angry, tired, stressed and others) If you notice a pattern when any situation where substance is used very commonly for any certain emotion or emotions, there is a problem.

I have never heard of any problem discussed properly or a proper decision being made under any substance.

There is a difference of a person who is not emotional or not knowing how to express them properly or showing it in different forms, and someone who needs assistance or seek guidance through substance.


I hope this person is not choosing to choose the substance over you in dealing with this situation, that is trully not a honorable form of communication and respect. Also substance (any thing) changes the mind and perception of how the world looks and of course how to make decisions and behavior.
 
when u ask r u mad they don't like that and they don't want to talk either. come on body language says alot. you can't play it off, saying u r not mad when u look and act like your mad. i hate when they do reverse psychology making it all in the womens mind. plz give me tylenol, i have a headache.lol.
 
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