when is it alright to say " I DO"

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I was with my ex husband a total of 8yrs and maried only 3yrs to him then again my whole situation was shitty so Iwont go there lol pero every situation is fdifferent. I wont say go with your heart cause its such a cliche and because most of the time its what we do anyway but when making such a important decision use your head is the commitment somethign yuor ready for , do you know that person well enough to know you want the rest of your life with them and then agian you can know a person all your life and not really know them. One thing i think you should deff be aware before you make that choice is if both of you want children. Bottom line are you redy do you feel ready to enter a life long commitment to be with this one eprson for the ret of your lives.
 
you all have great points
and i agree wit angie you have to think with your head when it come to something like getting married...
but what Nessa say's you can know a person all your live and it won't work out but you can know a person a few months and you can live happy together..
there is still alot 2 think about..
 
bueno nena.....keep ya head up and go strong and firm w/ what ur heart and mind tells u. as angie stated keeping a clear head is sometimes a key factor. MUA
 
Mama marrage is somethign sacred and a lot of us go in not understanding that thats why I say you have to think things thorugh with your head and not your heart how many times have we all followed are hearts and the outcome was mierda. SOmetimes love is lust and we get confused with which one is what everythign is always all good at teh beginning but you have to look past the obvious and know its something your ready for . I wish yuo the best if this is about you and that God guide you in whatever choice you make.
 
i've been married for 9yrs & wonder sometimes if i should have waited cause i did'nt know what it was like to date and i've been with him since i was 15 on & off i got preg and my mom told me to get married & get out i was the family f-up now i wish i had the courage to say no my mom i want to stay engaged for a year but i didnt i went along with everybody else i did'nt listen to myself MY ADVICE IS THAT PERSON SHOULD DO WHAT FEELSRIGHT TO THEM IN THEIR HEART AND IF THEY ARE BOTH READY FOR THE COMMITMENT NOT FOR ANYONE ELSE BUT THE 2 INDIVIDUALS INVOLVED HOW DO THEY FEEL & WHAT MATTERS TO THEM YOU DON'T HAVE TO MARRYTO MAKES THINGS RIGHT OR SHOW THAT U LOVE SOMEONE .LOVE IS A BOND AND BECAUSE YOU ARE OR ARENT MARRIED DOSENT MEAN YOU LOVE THAT PERSON ANYMORE OR ANY LESS
 
I Dated My Ex For Six Years,we Were Married For 4 Years,and Are Now Divorced.i Met My New Girlfriend Six Months Ago,and Really Think I Found My Soulmate.she Is The Female Version,of Me,and Even Though I Said I Would Never Fall Again,i Cant See My Life Without Her In It.
 
italo512 said:
I Dated My Ex For Six Years,we Were Married For 4 Years,and Are Now Divorced.i Met My New Girlfriend Six Months Ago,and Really Think I Found My Soulmate.she Is The Female Version,of Me,and Even Though I Said I Would Never Fall Again,i Cant See My Life Without Her In It.
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Awwww how sweet. 😉
 
italo512 said:
I Dated My Ex For Six Years,we Were Married For 4 Years,and Are Now Divorced.i Met My New Girlfriend Six Months Ago,and Really Think I Found My Soulmate.she Is The Female Version,of Me,and Even Though I Said I Would Never Fall Again,i Cant See My Life Without Her In It.
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i love everything you have to say.. when i start post like this.. you give me so much hope. and u don't even know it.. :fkinaman
 
I HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND SEEN ALOT IN MY LIFE.I HOLD ALOT OF OLD TIMER TRAITS,AND IDEAS.THERE ARENT TOO MANY OUT THERE ANYMORE.ALL I WANT IS TO MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY IN ANY WAY I CAN.IF I COULD TAKE THERE PAIN AWAY,AND GIVE IT TO MYSELF,I WOULD.YOU GUYS AND WOMEN ARE ALL MY FRIENDS.I MAY NEVER MEET ALOT OF YOU,BUT ANY HELP I CAN GIVE TO YOU ALL MAKES ME A HAPPIER AND BETTER PERSON.
crazygirl said:
i love everything you have to say.. when i start post like this.. you give me so much hope. and u don't even know it.. :fkinaman
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i personally think that the right time to get married is when no one else, no matter how fine, can take your attention away from your partner, then and only then can a person HONESTLY say that they are in LOVE. Thats just my opinion!
 
Marriage is a beautiful thing..something that is shared between two people. There is no time limit on when love will bite and take its toll. When it happens it happens, whether it works or not is a whole other game.
 
Enigma said:
Why is marriage so important in a relationship?
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Well.. I gotta say this. Marriage is important to me because it means security.. it means your loved one is YOURS, it means that this person thinks so much of you that he wants the world (well maybe not the world) to know that he is committed to you, that his love for you is so deep that he wants to make sure NO ONE else can sway you away. That he has "found" what he was looking for..that he is LUCKY to have you in his life..

If Reber had NOT committed to me that way, I wouldn't have left MY life, my security, my Family, friends and stability to be with him..
 
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