When does the guy you're "dating" become "your boyfriend"?

[aim4night]

When is he your boyfriend?
When does the guy you're "dating" become "your boyfriend"? Is it after you've slept together? Is it after you've discussed it? What are the signs that your man is all yours?
The question isn't "when do you know that man is your boyfriend" but... "How and when can he call you his girlfriend". Why can't it be otherwise?

saw this posted on women.com, think this is a good topic.:inlove

 

[Melly22]

I Just Assume When We Are Seeing Each Other Exclusively He Is My Man And Im His Girl Never Really Thought About It Much

 

[aim4night]

i dont put label on it.

 

[LocaBoriquaQueen]

I think when the both of yall made it clear that you guys are seeing only each other and are exclusive....You have to make it especcially clear for men, yall know how men are.... j/k

 

[aim4night]

yea i hear ya. well the guy i date says he isnt w/anyone else but i am not gonna get burned again so no label here. lol

 

[CoOl_AL_FrM_qNs]

bery good question 😉 someone answer it cono

 

[Lamondfan]

I dont think it has anything to do with when you sleep with someone for the first time...hell, that could happen between two people the first night and maybe lead to nothing. I consider a man my boyfriend when he tells me that he isnt interested in dating anyone except me. Otherwise, he is just someone I am dating.

 

[Lamondfan]

aim, dont blame you. I am overly cautious when it comes to that. They can say that arent with anyone else all they want, and that may be true, but I dont feel that doesnt mean they are against meeting anyone else. Like I said, until he says he wants to be with me and only me.....cant take him seriously!!! LOL I know, thats terrible, but just from past experiences.

 

[Liz_Torres]

y didn't ya'll tell me this b4
if I knew this I wouldn't be "married/attached"!!!


shiat!