sweet things like little kisses, hugs and holding hands is ok but nastiness like tonguing and groping in public is different... it's kinda expected at a dance club but don't do that in a store or a park where kids and elderly might be around...i have a problem with PDA and it has nothing to do with being ashamed of the person i'm with it's a matter of respect for myself and the people around me....i don't like and have never liked having hickeys either....i think those are just nasty....why put my intimate life out on public display.
I feel where u comin from kitty, i wouldn't mind some kisses and hugs, I also feel Musiclady cause i be at da club too and when u hearing the bomb reggea, it's mos def on! but if i'm walking with someone who is just irrisistable to me too then it's on...hollaaaaaaa
I have no problem with people holding hands and giving a little kiss in public...but I find it highly rude when I see people making out and being all over each other in public..get a room!!!
Public displays of affection, as long as they are in good taste, are great.
How to tell the difference? If you are about to engage in a PDA, picture yourself seeing someone else do the same thing. If you get the urge to yell, "Get a Room", it is not in good taste. LOL
For those of you who decided that you don't like PDA, not to get all "poor me" on everyone, don't take that stuff for granted. You are able to do that kind of thing whenever, where ever you want. Some of us have to keep that stuff behind closed doors. It's just not acceptable.