pinostyle
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WOW!!!!
Wow! I'm gone for an 8 hour shift and look what happens!!!!!
Everybody and their grandmother posts here! Suddenly, cool threads pop up, and Miss. Vixen returns with a vengeance! Love problems? Life problems? Boy/gurl problems? Ladies, what the hell happened?:sosad
Can I not leave you for a few hours...Either way, knuckle up 'cause it seems as though you're in for quite a fight!
Vixen...Oh my sweet Vixen! First of all nice to see you back! What the hell am I gonna do with you?
It seems as though you've gotten yourself into quite a jam🙁!
One thing I've noticed here, is that our peeps with the problems are quick to speculate and worry about what the other person is feeling and stressed over! If you centre your focus onto yourself then all will be fine! As in other words, make your decision as to what you're gonna do and stand your ground!
The dilemma here is within your "friend." He's the one that put this stress onto your friendship and he's the one that has to deal with the repercussions of the decision that HE made to spring this onto you!
Did you do anything wrong? Yes and no, if at this point, you continue to flirt and be cutesy with him you may be pulling @ his heartstrings!
THAT'S NOT FAIR!!!
You already know how he feels about you and if you continue to treat him as though you two are a "couple" then he'll continue to feel the way he does. Maybe a break from each other would do you good! I know that it sounds extreme, but put yourself in his shoes. Maybe time apart will allow you to value his friendship and relationship more (bring the novelty back into you relationship). It seems as though you 2 are taking this relationship for granted. After all "He's put his heart out on his sleeve" and you've made it difficult for him to walk away. He doesn't want to but it may be the proper course of action.
You want to keep him as a friend, and as you said "If something happens - Let it happen!
I've got one question for you...
WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN? 😕
Are you not telling us the whole story? Do you have feelings for this man? Are you developing feelings for this man? What does he mean to you now? How would you feel if he walked out the door tomorrow and you 2 never saw or spoke again? Would you chase him? Would you cherish the time you had together? Or would you be angry with the fact that he was selfish and looked after only himself? Are you afraid of saying anything wrong for the fact that you may hurt him? Or are you afraid of hurting the relationship?
I think that the two of you are jumping to conclusions and you should both shut up and enjoy the ride!
Forget about all the other shit! And let yourselves go!
HAVE A BALL WITH IT!!!!😉
If things go a rye then you'll deal with it when "you cross that bridge"
You obviously "Like" him for you to keep it open to, "if something happens later - the let it happen!"----> (I know I'm killing you with that one!)
You have a few options here. Good luck
Wow! I'm gone for an 8 hour shift and look what happens!!!!!
Everybody and their grandmother posts here! Suddenly, cool threads pop up, and Miss. Vixen returns with a vengeance! Love problems? Life problems? Boy/gurl problems? Ladies, what the hell happened?:sosad
Can I not leave you for a few hours...Either way, knuckle up 'cause it seems as though you're in for quite a fight!
Vixen...Oh my sweet Vixen! First of all nice to see you back! What the hell am I gonna do with you?
It seems as though you've gotten yourself into quite a jam🙁!
One thing I've noticed here, is that our peeps with the problems are quick to speculate and worry about what the other person is feeling and stressed over! If you centre your focus onto yourself then all will be fine! As in other words, make your decision as to what you're gonna do and stand your ground!
The dilemma here is within your "friend." He's the one that put this stress onto your friendship and he's the one that has to deal with the repercussions of the decision that HE made to spring this onto you!
Did you do anything wrong? Yes and no, if at this point, you continue to flirt and be cutesy with him you may be pulling @ his heartstrings!
THAT'S NOT FAIR!!!
You already know how he feels about you and if you continue to treat him as though you two are a "couple" then he'll continue to feel the way he does. Maybe a break from each other would do you good! I know that it sounds extreme, but put yourself in his shoes. Maybe time apart will allow you to value his friendship and relationship more (bring the novelty back into you relationship). It seems as though you 2 are taking this relationship for granted. After all "He's put his heart out on his sleeve" and you've made it difficult for him to walk away. He doesn't want to but it may be the proper course of action.
You want to keep him as a friend, and as you said "If something happens - Let it happen!
I've got one question for you...
WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN? 😕
Are you not telling us the whole story? Do you have feelings for this man? Are you developing feelings for this man? What does he mean to you now? How would you feel if he walked out the door tomorrow and you 2 never saw or spoke again? Would you chase him? Would you cherish the time you had together? Or would you be angry with the fact that he was selfish and looked after only himself? Are you afraid of saying anything wrong for the fact that you may hurt him? Or are you afraid of hurting the relationship?
I think that the two of you are jumping to conclusions and you should both shut up and enjoy the ride!
Forget about all the other shit! And let yourselves go!
HAVE A BALL WITH IT!!!!😉
If things go a rye then you'll deal with it when "you cross that bridge"
You obviously "Like" him for you to keep it open to, "if something happens later - the let it happen!"----> (I know I'm killing you with that one!)
You have a few options here. Good luck
