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here's the scenerio...you knew this guy who had a girl for let's say 5 years. Broke up with her to be with another girl. Been with this girl for 2 years.
All of a sudden found out that the girl of 5 years is pregnant with his child and had the baby. Obviously he's been going back and forth.
Here's the shyt. The present girl has no idea that he's been playing her and he has a kid. And the baby's mother thinks he broke up with the present girl.
What do u guys think? Pretty F*cked up don't u think??:nono
 
UGH! Shame on him! :crap

Chinita! It's kinda hard to say what I'd do but if the present girlfriend was my girl...I'd have to tell her rather then let her continue to be played. 🙁
 
it gets uglier. let's say ur related to the guy. and ur good friends with the baby's mother and the present girl. what do u do then?
 
hmmmm related to him?

KICK HIS AZZ! I would! Then make him tell them the truth! UGH! Damn MEN! :mad
 
Krystal said:
hmmmm related to him?

KICK HIS AZZ! I would! Then make him tell them the truth! UGH! Damn MEN! :mad
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i know... for real. Men!!! They just don't learn. Then again they just don't listen. And when you try to help them out, they just push u away.
 
CHINITASENSATION said:
here's the scenerio...you knew this guy who had a girl for let's say 5 years. Broke up with her to be with another girl. Been with this girl for 2 years.
All of a sudden found out that the girl of 5 years is pregnant with his child and had the baby. Obviously he's been going back and forth.
Here's the shyt. The present girl has no idea that he's been playing her and he has a kid. And the baby's mother thinks he broke up with the present girl.
What do u guys think? Pretty F*cked up don't u think??:nono
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Been there, and I can tell you it doesn't end. well after a few beat downs for both him and her(because she knew I was with him) I dealt with the situation, but I found out on my own, I think you should tell the guy if he doesn't fess up (because the situation can turn very ugly trust me, on of us three is running around with a facial scar, and if you see my pics it ain't me).lol But seriously though it can get ugly, if he doesn't fess up then somebody has to tell these girls what's going on. It's not fair to either one of them. and let's not forget the kid or kids eventually. Bad move dude, in situations like this someone always ends up very hurt. 🙁 I hope it works out chinita.
 
MAMA YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT THIS BUT ALL YOU CAN DO IS TALK TO HIM. HE NEEDS TO GET HIS HEAD OUT HIS ASS AND DO THE RIGHT THING. THING ARE GONNA GET REALLY UGLY AND THE LAST PLACE YOU NEED TO BE IS IN THE MIDDLE.WHAT HE IS DOING ISNT FAIR TO ANYONE ESPECIALLY HIS SON. MAYBY YOU NEED TO BEAT HIM DOWN. LOL

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Good gosh I'm with La Mas stay out of the middle mama, First try talking to him about coming clean on this, He needs to tell each girl the truth. Obvously the first chick isn't going anywhere and He ain't over her. The 2yr chick should bounce on his azz and let him deal with the 5yr chick. I agree that its foul but, think about it, you always have to keep a connection the the baby mama or baby daddy and I for one aint the type to put up with that ish, especially not long term. Baby mama drama can get real thick and if the 2yr chick is a good girl then she needs a better man. The 5yr chick should've known him better, but then again love is blinding. Bottom line, Stay out of the middle, you don't want to be in a situationw where your hearing every side and involving yourself to the point where it becomes your drama.. Hope all works out !!
 
CHINITASENSATION said:
here's the scenerio...you knew this guy who had a girl for let's say 5 years. Broke up with her to be with another girl. Been with this girl for 2 years.
All of a sudden found out that the girl of 5 years is pregnant with his child and had the baby. Obviously he's been going back and forth.
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To me it looks like he was going back and forth in more than one way😀
 
$#!@ i'm confused lol 😱 the guy sounds like quite the loser tho. but i guess if the 2nd girl doesn't know about the baby, he should break up with her and go back to the 1st girl. he's been with her longer anyway...
 
STAYING OUT OF IT IS THE BEST I COULD DO. TO BE HONEST I COULD CARE LESS ABOUT EVERYONE INVOLVED. THE ONLY ONE I'M CONCERNED ABOUT IS THE BABY. HE IS THE INNOCENT ONE OUT OF ALL THIS MESS.
 
If it were me, and I was the 2nd girl..... I'd leave, move far- I know easier said than done, been there done that!


U need to tell him u'r opinion...and then let it be..let him make a bigger ass of himself
 
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