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>raises hand< I was a virgin until the age of 28 >shrug<

Maybe that makes me a freak i dunno LOL I was raised to wait until marriage but things happen.

Raven? I commend you on your attitude. Good luck on your quest. There are virgins left out there but as Gimmie said...don't lock yourself into a fantasy. The ONE TRUE LOVE of your life just may come along and you'll miss that chance with her because she may not be a virgin. You should keep all your options open.

I also have to say this...just because a girl/woman isn't a virgin does not make her loose. Just remember that.
 
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Damn Tony...you were a Virgin till 25?...did you lose it when you got married?
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Yep. 🙂 No biggie. I dont play games. Funny too people when they look at me think i have thousands of girlfriends. lol But I dont play that shit. There is more than sex for me, like love and happiness and faithfulness and being best friends forever.

~Antonio
 
Raven...the older u get the harder it will get to find..never say never cause the person that touches ur heart can be one who is not a virgin. You need to be open dear, I know u are young but you cant be goign around asking are u a virgin, what the heck is that...just search for someone you like and then everything else will be ok......if you keep being this way, you will be alone forever!!!!

Look at me, I married my first love, my first everything, he was no virgin..he love that of me...he will always be special to me, hes the father of my two kids and look today, were divorced, so there is no need to seek a VIRGIN" for marrige!!!!!!
 
Deviouz,
its different between a girl and a guy... in this day in age its like "ok" for a guy to be sensitive like a girl but he still needs to be a man... its the animal instinct in us all...

girls come and go... i'll be the first one to say it... and its vice versa!

enigma and i are in the same boat...

just dont play any games... you'll learn by trial and error
 
Hey Raven! I understand you are being picky and trust me I am just as picky! You want a virgin. This day in age that is something very rare. I am not a virgin but I am just looking for a decent girl and I think that's what you need to focus on. Sex can sometimes happen but the point is to be a good person. There are alot of people out there that are obsessed with sex and are not good people and will just use people for their needs. I personaly want a girl who is decent and has similar interest's. A good person who see's me for who I really am and will be with me. We all have regret's and make mistakes! The point is 1. To learn from the PAST(don't make the same mistakes) 2. Live in the PRESENT(make each day the best it could be) 3. Look to the FUTURE(set reasonable goals and strive for something positive) These are good rule's! Peace!
 
You know whats funny, I could sit here and str8 type up a storm...but why? To prove myself to Mo? A person who matters not one bit to me? No. Some of the biggest pimps (figure of speech) around here have tried to convince me otherwise, but it hasn't worked. Fantasy...thats funny. I feel so strongly about only staying a virgin and only getting married to a virgin, that if old and lonely is the way I'll end up...so be it...by all means. As for the statement about the girl lying, I have plans about that matter. Deviouz Witch...Much props to you, and I know that I'm not living in a fantasy, so worry not about that. SarcaStick...GOOD!...More power to you! Anthony, I'm far from being gay, so dont take this the wrong way, but I would love nothing more than to shake your hand...because you said it all, you took the words str8 out of my mouth. My hat is off to you! Betty, I understand that the person that touches my heart might not be a virgin, and she is more than welcome as a friend, but nothing more. Ok...now I must explain that I'm just going through every post in order and that is why I'm back to MO..."he still needs to be a man... its the animal instinct in us all..."!?!?!?...SHUT THE FU¢K UP! And, last but not least, FreestyleGod, 1. I have, ALOT 2. I am 3.I do...Nuff said, Peace.
 
Thanks Raven.....so u telling me that you can grow feelings 4 someone, and all she will be is a friend, nothing more cause shes no virgin.....ohh boy sweety....😕
 
Am I the only person in the world that wants to stay a virgin till marrage? What
happened to all the girls?.
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no you're not the only one. and about what happened to girls- they all became hoes.

Now I know that makes me sound like an a$$hole, but thats just the way I feel.
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not at all, its good to have a girl who hasn't hoed around.

but you know what you offended me by saying I was IMPURE....what load of crap is that!
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that's not a load of crap. i think unless you were married, that people who have sex are impure. instead of f!cking around, people should be looking for the one they want to spend the rest of their lifes with. props to deviouzwitch for staying a virgin that long. also Sarcastick, Enigma, raven, and others who are still virgins or remained virgins that long.

I will admit that I have a very fu¢ked up mind and I say that with no scarcasm at all....but hey.
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no you don't man, i'm with you on what you say, and its weak women and wannabe players like gimmesomemo that mess things up for all the good guys out there.
 
ok dear...I respect you. I only had one partner until the age of 27...but it started before I married...now a days no sex is the best, the prevention to AIDS..Im glad you are that way papa, for that sake, but hey Good Luck!!!
 
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Hey Raven my bad.....I misunderstood didn't realize that YOU too was a virgin!! Well I commend you on that, but ummmm I have to agree with Gimmie if YOU are looking for just that in a chick then you are living in a fantasy world......but Good Luck and Props to you for staying a virgin 🙂

As for the rest of us NON VIRGINS.....We are kewl but its ok if you don't wants us.....welll just be here GETTING OUR GROOVE ON 😉
 
All I can add to this is, women require tongue action.

k, I'm done.
 
MANNNN!!!...CaFreestyler, I should fly the fu¢k over there and give you a mutha
fu¢kin hug, bro!

that's not a load of crap. i think unless you were married, that people who have sex are impure. instead of f!cking around, people should be looking for the one they want to spend the rest of their lifes with. props to deviouzwitch for staying a virgin that long. also Sarcastick, Enigma, raven, and others who are still virgins or remained virgins that long.
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You and Anthony have got to have mind reading abilities! Because, what you and him said are my EXACT, and I mean exact, thoughts.

Heavenly, its all good baby girl, and by the way, that isn't the only characteristic that I'm looking for.

...and its weak women and wannabe players like gimmesomemo that mess things up for all the good guys out there.
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You definately deserve a (manly) hug, or a firm assed handshake!
You see I wanted to say EXACTLY (from what I quoted) what you said, but figured people wouldn't understand, so I figured I know my reasons and they dont so I'll let it ride...But damn, I couldn't have said it better myself.
 
well well well...

Raven,
Seriously? How feasible is your idea of finding a woman you fall in love with, who happens to be a virgin? I understand that if you grow old and alone, so be it.

To prove myself to Mo? A person who matters not one bit to me?
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I really dont care if I matter to you or not! But you're right about that. I shouldn't matter to you. 😀

no you don't man, i'm with you on what you say, and its weak women and wannabe players like gimmesomemo that mess things up for all the good guys out there.
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Well, CaFreestyler...
1st of all, like I said before. Look at the society you live in.
2nd if you really knew me, you would know that im the "Realest" person you will ever meet!
3rd, as far as me being a "Player", It isn't guys like me who ruined it all. As far as my experience has been it's been women who ruined it for all of you. No matter what anyone says they are the real game players.

No one can stay away from it, because someone some where will have some type of insecurity and the communication of that insecurity will never be up to snuff.

And everyone knows that women have more insecurities than men do! Its just the type of society we live in!


I'm back to MO..."he still needs to be a man... its the animal instinct in us all..."!?!?!?...SHUT THE FU¢K UP!
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On that note, I will.
 
OK -- NOW I NEED TO ADD MY 2SENSES HERE...

I RESPECT ALL OF YOU WHO DECIDED TO REMAIN VIRGINS UNTIL MARRIAGE - THAT IS DEFINITELY COMMENDABLE. BUT HOW DARE YOU JUDGE THOSE OF US WHO HAVE CHOSEN OTHEWISE.

CAFREESTYLER WRITES THAT ALL THE LADIES BECAME HOES --- WHAT IS THAT ABOUT????? SEX IS IMPURE WITHOUT MARRIAGE!!! FIRST OF ALL, HERES A HIRSTORY LESSON FOR YA - MANY PEOPLE BACK IN THE 50'S AND BFEORE THAT GOT MARRIED VERY YOUNG -- BECAUSE THEY WERE DYING TO HAVE SEX!!!! MOST COUPLES STAYED TOEGTHER B/C DIVORCE WAS FROWNED UPON EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE VERY UNHAPPY. SECOND OF ALL, 50% OF MARRIAGES TODAY END IN DIVORCE...SO YOU KNOW WHAT - DONT TELL ME THAT WHEN I MAKE LOVE TO MY MAN THAT IT IS IMPURE. I CHOOSE TO WAIT FOR MARRIAGE FOR SEVERAL REASONS - BUT NOT BECAUSE I DOUBT MY LOVE. SO WE SHOW OUR LOVE TO EACH OTHER IN A WAY THAT IS THE MOST INTIMATE THING YOU WILL EVER EXPERINCE...SO DOINT YOU DARE TRY TO BELITTLE THAT BECAUSE I DONT HAVE A DAMN LEGAL DOCUMENT THAT SAYS WE ARE MARRIED!!!

I AM NO VIRGIN AND I AM NO HOE!!! SO WHERE I RESPECT YOUR MORALS AND YOUR CHOICES - TRY RESPECTING ME BACK!
 
oh... i have one thing to add...

what do you think we were put here for?

think about this... if there was no "god" to write this book called "the bible" which are full of stories which are "long winded" rules.

we would all be running around "f@cking" and there will be nothing holding you back...

question...

is there a god???
 
OK...CaFreestyler, Let me try at this. Jen, I'm damn near positive that Ca meant that all ladies become hoes in a general sense, he wasn't really pointing fingers, or downing anyone. If you're not a hoe, mad props to you, but I think he see's it the way I do...And that is: once a girl looses her virginity, she figures it is not that big of a deal and goes around fu¢king anyone...and that is because that part of her soul is lost forever, and that is mainly to the girls that lost it to the one's they really weren't in love with. Let me explain like this...What besides life, and by that I mean yours and others (friends, family, etc. etc.), can you NEVER get back?...give up?...it's your virginity. personally, why would you go and give it to someone who isn't committed to loving you forever? And Mo, I know how society is, and to tell you the truth, the 2 poems I posted, are refering to just that.


P.S. Here's some food for thought: Out of the however many % of marriages that fail, it is only a mear 2% of those who waited, that got divorced!

And with that being said, Till next time, take care.
 
BrooklynJenJen said:
I AM NO VIRGIN AND I AM NO HOE!!! SO WHERE I RESPECT YOUR MORALS AND YOUR CHOICES - TRY RESPECTING ME BACK!
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I myslef also respect your wishes to remain a virgin and to find a virgin Raven, it is your perogative and best of luck to you, I'm sure you will find some who fits your standards.

Carefreestyler,

please refrain from calling us all HOES!. because I am a woman who works her ass off for her two sons, and I don't do it in a freaking corner either! Your comment offends me and all the cf ladies who work hard for there families, for themselves, who love unconditionally, whether or not the man is a virgin.
 
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