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i dont get it i was lisn to the radio this am and other things on the topic from the radio i dont get what is the rush to have 2 and 3 etc babys . 17 19 year olds . plus they end up getting married before they turn 20 . so i sit here and say what is the rush to have so many kids so young . and why get married so young . maybe its me since im in no rush to get married guess thats why im still single every girl i dated was in a rush to get married have have kids but not me i wanna take things slow not say ok lets have 4 kids and then get married . if anyone can tell me what is the rush i would like to know .
 
If they're that young and want to have kids like that then chances are that they never had a normal family themselves while growing up. And by making a family, they feel that they can correct what they lacked when they were younger and seek to be able to live a happy life.....what they never had.

Or.....

they can be young and ignorant. You never know.
 
HERE IS MY OPIONION: I THINK HALF OF THE GIRLS ARE NOT TRYING TO GET PREGO, BUT THEY END UP PREGO. AND THE OTHER HALF ARE LIKE THOSE GIRLS THAT GO MAURY POVICH AND WANT A CHILD BECAUSE THERE IGNORANT! NOW MY SCENERIO: HAD MY 1ST AT AGE 15-AND DEFENTLY WASNT TRYING TO GET PREGO, BUT I DID. I COULD OF GAVE IT UP -EVEN WHEN MY BABYS FATHER TOLD ME HE WANTED TO DO NOTHING WITH IT.BUT I TOOK CARE OF MY RESPONSIBILTYS AND KEPT IT.WOULD I OF WAITED? YESSSSSSS. BUT I CANT TURN BACK TIME AND ERASE THE PAST.I LOVE MY CHILDREN (EVEN THOUGH THEY GET ON MY NERVES!) AND YES 3 YEARS LATER I HAD ANOTHER ONE. I WAS VERY FORTUNATE TO FIND A GUY WILLING TO EXCEPT MY CHILD(RAISED HIM EVER SINCE HE WAS 3 MONTHS OLD) AND WE WERE RESPONSIBLE TO HAVE ANOTHER KID. MY HERE IS THE GOOD PART- WHEN MY FIRST CHILD IS 15- I WILL BE THE YOUNG TENDER AGE OF 30!!!!! THEN ITS MOMMYS TIME TO PARTAAAAAYYYYY! :yeey :aparty
 
well im ready now but i just cant find the one seams the sickness and in health is a crock becuase if it was ture then the one would be with me now in my sickness and health . so for now i gotta wait . im ready but i gotta just hope for the best in miss right .
 
JOEDOCPA said:
well im ready now but i just cant find the one seams the sickness and in health is a crock becuase if it was ture then the one would be with me now in my sickness and health . so for now i gotta wait . im ready but i gotta just hope for the best in miss right .
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sweetie r u ready or not, cuz one post says u r and the other says your not,
see whats out there don't just try 2 go 4 the first one that comes along, you have one out there and sooner or later she will come,
like u said in the first post don't rush to find some one, it will just happen
 
what i mean as im ready im ready for one i am tired of being alone and i need someone to be there for me in times of need when im sick in and out of hospitals i just hope the one can put up with me like that . i will do for her when she needs help i just need someone so im not alone anymore im tired of the only one not with somebody .
 
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what i mean as im ready im ready for one i am tired of being alone and i need someone to be there for me in times of need when im sick in and out of hospitals i just hope the one can put up with me like that . i will do for her when she needs help i just need someone so im not alone anymore im tired of the only one not with somebody .
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your not the only one with out some one...
alot of us are alone right now and waiting for that one to come..
but like i said b4 you have to wait. don't let that be the thing that drives you crazy..
life is to short to b worried about shyt like that, let everything come in place, you will see you will find that one and be happier then you ever thought you could be
 
thats the scary thing life is to short i dont wanna end up findin the right one when its to late . i wanna find her while im somewhat young and no sick but like i said i dont think they go for sickness and in health if so then i would be livin a happy life now with my first gf but she left after she knew all my medical problems.
 
JOEDOCPA said:
what i mean as im ready im ready for one i am tired of being alone and i need someone to be there for me in times of need when im sick in and out of hospitals i just hope the one can put up with me like that . i will do for her when she needs help i just need someone so im not alone anymore im tired of the only one not with somebody .
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I can definitely relate. It's not good to be alone. But I live with a dream everyday and that's all that matters to me right now. Just gotta have faith. Real love will take you in completely and this person will not go by how you look or what you can give to them. They would accept you as you are for who you are. "Good things come to those who wait"
 
hope so if thats the case then i should have someone great one day thats how long i been waiting i just cant trust many anymore at first they seam good then they stop talkin after a while .
 
JOEDOCPA said:
thats the scary thing life is to short i dont wanna end up findin the right one when its to late . i wanna find her while im somewhat young and no sick but like i said i dont think they go for sickness and in health if so then i would be livin a happy life now with my first gf but she left after she knew all my medical problems.
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so what should be on your mind is to live everyday to it's fullest, , give thanks everyday that you r able to see that beautiful day, don't worrie about finding her, and don't get all down cuz u don't have some one...
just be happy and life every day as if it were your last..
trust me she will come to you, when you least expect it
 
i do live each day like its my last i am happy that i get to see another day after spendin most of the time i the hospital hooked up on tubes and gettin last rights twice i ccould of gave up then but i did not i kept fighting and i always will fight and prove alot of people wrong .
 
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