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Ok I have a question. Have you ever met someone that you immediately clicked with, the chemistry was undeniable, and you ended up having strong feelings for this person...but this person is not someone that you can spend the rest of your life with, for whatever reason. Yet you never had these kinds of feelings for anyone else? It is the most frustrating feeling in the world! Do you think you met this person for a reason? Like to teach you a lesson or to allow you to experience things that you might otherwise not have experienced? But yet this is the kind of person that had such an impact on you that you know you will never forget them. Let me know please!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
yup, I did, but fortunately for me, we were to be together and get married 🙂
 
Freestygal said:
Ok I have a question. Have you ever met someone that you immediately clicked with, the chemistry was undeniable, and you ended up having strong feelings for this person...but this person is not someone that you can spend the rest of your life with, for whatever reason. Yet you never had these kinds of feelings for anyone else? It is the most frustrating feeling in the world! Do you think you met this person for a reason? Like to teach you a lesson or to allow you to experience things that you might otherwise not have experienced? But yet this is the kind of person that had such an impact on you that you know you will never forget them. Let me know please!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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Yeah, and unfortuately, those guys never gave me the time or the day. I must be ugly or something 🙁 :rolleyes .
 
Some people are very unique. That is because everyone is not alike. A few have the power to change the world in this case...change your heart.

-Enigma
 
Freestygal i totally hear ya.....im in that boat now.....and boy does it suck.....the worst part was watching him move back to miami, even though it made it a little easier not seeing him all the time to remind me of it......and now that im moving there, it will be just as hard again.....everytime i saw him this summer while i was there it took me a few days to get him out of my head.....

years ago i used to work as a manager on park avenue at a video store......he happened to work for my company, but down in miami......he was looking to transfer here and happened to call my store out of the 10 or so locations we had in nyc.....i spoke to him for a bit, got his info to pass to the district manager.......i ended up quitting a month or so later.....that was in may....sometime in august i went to the local video store (the competition) to get a movie....they didnt have it, so i called my old companies store in my neighboorhood in queens.....they said they had it so i told them to hold it.....i asked who the manager on duty was to see if my friend was there......they told me it was some dude that just started there......anyhow i ended up driving over there and got my movie.....i started talkin to the new manager and as it turns out, it was the dude that had called my store months ago from miami.....(out of all the locations the company has, it freaked me out that he ended up there, and on the night that i was going there, bc i tried to stay away from renting from my previous company)......anyhow we ended up meeting up after he closed the store that night and hit up a local lounge.......its been something like 5 years now and i fall in love with him more and more everytime im with him......it kills me from the inside out......something about him just makes my heart flutter.....its totally unexplainable....and i always wonder if i will ever be able to feel for anyone else bc of the feelings i have for him.....
 
Imfromqueenz...I see that you can totally relate to my situation and what Im talking about. I always wonder if I will ever feel for anyone else what I feel for this guy. It's an extremely hard situation to be in!

Louie C!!!!! Long time no speak! How are you????

LaChicabella..Please dont be so hard on yourself! Sometimes, many times, guys dont know a good thing when they see it. It's their loss!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Freestygal said:
Ok I have a question. Have you ever met someone that you immediately clicked with, the chemistry was undeniable, and you ended up having strong feelings for this person...but this person is not someone that you can spend the rest of your life with, for whatever reason. Yet you never had these kinds of feelings for anyone else? It is the most frustrating feeling in the world! Do you think you met this person for a reason? Like to teach you a lesson or to allow you to experience things that you might otherwise not have experienced? But yet this is the kind of person that had such an impact on you that you know you will never forget them. Let me know please!

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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Man i did and before we could ever really tell eachother how we felt.....he passed away. everything is a learning experience in life. Let it be or just go with the flow. what doesn't kill you makes you stronger ya know....
 
Hi Adriana...Im really sorry for your loss. But what you said is true..Everything does happen for a reason.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Freestygal said:
Hi Adriana...Im really sorry for your loss. But what you said is true..Everything does happen for a reason.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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Thanks..... maybe you should just give it a try you'll never know unless.you give it that chance that it's waiting for well fo' what ever you decide good luck and god bless... because at the end it's really your decison not anybody elses...
 
Hi Adriana. Well, I have tried for a very long time with this guy, and although there were times when I thought the feelings were mutual, Im not so sure anymore. I still care about him a lot but he has been very distant lately. And if anything, I thought we were friends. But it sure hasnt seemed that way lately! So now Im keeping my distance and if he wants to talk, he can find me! Im trying really hard to be strong about it.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Freestygal said:
Hi Adriana. Well, I have tried for a very long time with this guy, and although there were times when I thought the feelings were mutual, Im not so sure anymore. I still care about him a lot but he has been very distant lately. And if anything, I thought we were friends. But it sure hasnt seemed that way lately! So now Im keeping my distance and if he wants to talk, he can find me! Im trying really hard to be strong about it.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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Strength comes from God if you believe... i just think poeple are not honest with each other... and why shouldn't we come on now it's gonna be 2006... it's time already.. let him know that you are confused and ask if you guys can put the cards out on the table and that no matter what you will always be there for him. as he should for you... what ever the out come is. try to be on the same page... and then there will be less confusion...
 
Freestygal said:
Thanks for your advice Adriana...I might just give it a try! 🙂

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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I'm glad and you should... later on sometime i will be posting a poem when i get the time. i would like for you to take a look at it. i wrote it for my english class.. as our last assignment.... some time soon kay.... peace it out sweetie and good luck with whatever you decide...
 
I would love to read your poem, Adriana. I have written some poetry, as well, so Id love to read yours! And thank you so much for your kind words! 🙂

Randi (FreestyleGal)
 
Freestygal said:
I would love to read your poem, Adriana. I have written some poetry, as well, so Id love to read yours! And thank you so much for your kind words! 🙂

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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Well i'll let you know when i post it peace it out.
 
Freestygal said:
Hi Adriana...Im really sorry for your loss. But what you said is true..Everything does happen for a reason.

Randi (FreestyleGal)
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Hopefully you get this message well if you recall that one letter/poem i told you about well it's up if you would like to read it.
I warn you it's LLLLOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGG!!! though but it's real...
well peace freestyle gal..
 
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