What do i do now?? in the dog house

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:bayum the guy i'm dating, called me b4, he was in a funk cause he didnt do as well as he thought on a test @ college and to tops things off i reminded him that i cant get together wed. cause of the Copa. Well he said he doesnt remember me saying anything b4 tnght conversation, about not getting together. he said now he is really having a bad nght cause he wants to be w/me wed.
i asked him , out of guilt, if he wants to go w/me, but he said he cant cause of the holiday, it would be too late for him.

to be honest, i guess i slipped the Copa topic in breifly, last week, cause i was trying to avoid the subject and hoping he would tell me he cant see me.:barf

he drives me home tues. after my class, i said how about we do something then but he said we'll see. should i feel guilty and should i make it up to him?? :huh

btw... i wanted to spend time w/my friends and not have to worry about anyone else. :dlook
 
Girl Do You Spend Time With Your Friends Is Not Like You Hurting Anyone You Have To Please Your Self #1 All The Time ... Thats What Am Learning Right Now To Put My Self First If I Dont Have A Ring Or Living With Him Sorry ...as Long As I Dont Disrespect Him I Think It Should Be All Good ..maybe Am Wrong But Hey Life Is To Short ..
 
Aim, if you truly loved this guy, you would want him to be with you wed., he would be your friend and blend if the relationship was that strong..When you are in love , you always want to be with that person everywhere. That's like LaIndia with no Joey kidd, Betty Boop with no &MORE, Naya with no Rican. That's the kind of love I'm lookin' for. 'cause if ya don't have that, it ain't worth sweatin' over..As for bein in the doghouse, try barking!!@!
 
never said i loved the guy. but i do like him. it's only been a mnth. woo slow dwn w/l word. but i do feel torn that i have 2 offers for the same nght and COPA wins!!
 
I think you should make it up to him. Being he failed his exam and it meant so much to him, you should make him happy and do something worth while with him.

But i guess you made the decision already. 🙂

-antonio
 
Enigma said:
I think you should make it up to him. Being he failed his exam and it meant so much to him, you should make him happy and do something worth while with him.

But i guess you made the decision already. 🙂

-antonio


Hey Enig...GREAT ANSWER!!!! :yeey
 
guess i'll make it up to him, dont know how but i'll think of something.

i feel bad but i think he'll 4give me. instead of feeling better by postin this, i feel worse.:realsad
 
You should make it up to him, but without missin COPA.
If it's something you really want to do with your friends, then he should understand you. Don't change your plans if your really looking forward to it. What if next time you plan something, he ruins it for you with another "Bad day excuse". You don't know him that well to know if he's getting away with what he really wants.

Make it up to him without changing COPA. Believe me he'll forgive you for that. Have no regrets 'cause you can look forward to making it up for him.
 
ty. o i 'm gonna be at Copa. i still dont know how i'll make it up to him. any ideas??
 
Amy .. i think you should be true to yourself. You shouldn't be having this type of conversation with him its not serious or is it?

You should go to the Copa, and u can make it up to him by taking him the next time with you! 🙂
 
ty. i am not feeling guilty any longer. hey i told him when we first hooked up that i cant see him every wed. so o well. he's gotta take it or leave it.
 
Girl if you say you have only been with him for a month then why are you going to make it up to him? Go to the Copa and enjoy yourself. Chances are you will talk to him the following day.
 
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