Valendooms Day is Judgement day

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I'm not offended about being with a women with a child. It's my rustiness of dating. The deal is, you won't get to spend the time you would like with her because she has the child and of course; drama with the babies daddy!!!!!!!!! I have seen this situation before with the dad starting drama with the new boyfriend. I want a date, not extra unnessercary baggage. I might extend my patience some more. I have to really come up with a game plan that's good. Still I do not want to be dateless when i'm 30!!
 
mike4949 said:
I'm not offended about being with a women with a child. It's my rustiness of dating. The deal is, you won't get to spend the time you would like with her because she has the child and of course; drama with the babies daddy!!!!!!!!! I have seen this situation before with the dad starting drama with the new boyfriend. I want a date, not extra unnessercary baggage. I might extend my patience some more. I have to really come up with a game plan that's good. Still I do not want to be dateless when i'm 30!!
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Ok thats understanding Mike, But not all women have issues with the daddy, well anyway thats irrelevant. Listen Mike the point is with a women that has child/ren or a women that doesnt have any child/ren. You Should never give up on it. Your only 27 years old, You will find some one. look Im going to be 26 years old and Ive been through 2 bad relationships that doesnt mean that I have to give up everything for it. If some one is out there for me, They will come, Believe me. I live day by day. My little girl means the world to me, believe that. but if someone is going to love me, they must know that I come with a special package and that is my little angel. I know there is a special someone out there, So I tell you the same thing I say to myself, Just keep going foward, Love yourself and some one will come to love you.
 
That's a great point India. I kind of see where you are coming from. I'll do what I can to be patient with finding a date. But it is hard, mainly with me in which the last time I had a date; Melrose Place was the Number show on TV(1995).
 
mike4949 said:
India, you make a great point. The reason I feel this way is; I have been dateless for now 10 years. I just have the feeling not to keep investing in something that is not paying out. If my lovelife was a Million Dollar business it would be losing 1 Billion dollars. The business is maxed out with all banks with loans, with me; i'm maxed out with patience. I feel like I need something now of the doors have to shut.
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I was solo for almost 14 yrs until REBER came into my life.. I know how u feel Mike.. Been there.. Hated Valentines Day and ALL holidays for that matter.. I was always the solo one at ALL events..I was down and out and depressed. However, I kept my self company.. Went to movies...became a Miami Heat season ticket holder and FORCED myself 2 go 2 the games alone.. I overcame a lot of loneliness and depression because I got to LOVE me.. having REBER has been an ADDED bonus and compliment to my life..
There is someone out there for u. Dont doubt that.. But dont let life pass you by!! 🙂
 
As a cf member once told me.......

"look at it this way, there is a guy out there. He's doing his wash, going through his day to day life, not knowing that he has "ChuckD's guy" stamped on his heart."

I was at work yesterday, it was casual Friday. I was feeling good, wearing jeans, leather boots, button down, and feeling good. Nice smile......someone came up to me, and said, "Do you know how sexy you look???"

:lol

great way to end the week. Now just let Mr. Right see me and hit me up.....😉
 
Edalgiere said:
mike dont be like me you have a lot of years ahead of you. for me it is different at 43 yrs old might be to late for me
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WHAT??? 😱 R U for real?? Im going to be 44 in April!! I FEEL / LOOK / ACT younger today than I need when I was in my 20's and 30's! AGE is NOTIN but a NUMBA! LOL.. Lord knows I heard that line at lot when I was dating.. LOVE has NO AGE limitatons!!!!
 
I have no date either.... thats my CHIC FLIX ...CHOCOLATE and WINE .... BE ALONE ...NIGHT!! :king
 
I think the reason I was talking about shutting my love life down after this Valendooms day was; I was hearing Landon(RW/Philly) make a statement about why he needs to hook up. Your 20's is when you try to get in your hook ups. When closing in on 30; that window of oppertunity starts to close in. That's how I feel, the window starts to close!!!
 
mike4949 said:
I think the reason I was talking about shutting my love life down after this Valendooms day was; I was hearing Landon(RW/Philly) make a statement about why he needs to hook up. Your 20's is when you try to get in your hook ups. When closing in on 30; that window of oppertunity starts to close in. That's how I feel, the window starts to close!!!
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No such thing.. Love doesn't ever close its window!
 
Tomorrow is it. Judgement day. I might not close my lovelife. But it is depressing to go 10 years(2/14/2005, will start my tenth year dateless)without a date. So I will be very irritated though to hear people talk about their relationships. And all these sales on chocolates and stupid teddy bears!! Tomorrow, I might watch as many documentaries on the St valenties day massacre!!!!!!!!!
 
Well

Today is here. Its' time now to see where I go from here. What do I need to do now so I won't make this an 11th year. It's getting really hard to keep patientce in these situations!

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