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Is there a such thing as a guy being to nice & turning a girl off by being that way? In my opinion I think so. I don't meet guys like that too often but when I do I feel like ugh he is to nice & it grosses me out somtimes!!! I don't feel as attracted to him. LOL Am I the only girl like that or do other girls fell like this???? 😕
 
nope I know how u feel. It's one thing to have a gentleman, but dayum to have one like that all the time! I know I'm weird!
 
NOPE IT'S A GIRL THING. WE ALL LOVE THE GENTLEMAN THING BUT WE LOVE THE BAD BOYS BETTER. WEIRD BUT TRUE. I LOVE ME A BAD BOY IT MORE OF A CHALLENGE.
 
Exactly Matrix. A challenge. Thats what I' talkin about.When a guy is just too dayum nice he can get on my f**kin nerves, ya feel me. But then I always complain about how the "Bad Boys" treat me.....I am weird!:spin
 
well i luv a nice guy like thats so sweet! as long as he doesnt like let his niceness interfere wit his living or mine in a wierd way lol


joe i answered ur question before in another thread i guess u didnt see it: good girls like bad guys cause sometimes opposites are better for us i dont know i feel my rebelious side come out lol
 
NOT ONLY THAT BUT YOU WANT A MAN THAT DEFENDS YOUR HONOR NOT HIDE BEHIND YOU. MAKES THE ADRENILINE RUN KNOW WHAT I'M SAYIN?
 
last year, this nerdy kid had the biggest crush on me. he'd be waiting at my house EVERY SINGLE DAY when i got home from school and he'd offer to buy me everything and anything. he gave me money, and took me places if i needed a ride, it was nice at first, then after it was just TOO nice so i finally had to tell him he was acting like a stalker, then he finally backed away!! lol
 
Fantasygerl, thats what I'm talkin about being too nice! I mean yeah I like when a guy does nice things for me & all that but only to a point. Not all the time. Cuz then it gets to be too much. 'm attracted to that bad boy style!!!
 
yea i feel you, well all you need to do is NICELY talk to him about it you know? cuz when i called the guy a stalker he was SOOOO upset so that's not a good way to make him back off. GOOD LUCK!!!! :biggrin
 
You are totally right Lonely. There are times when us ladies love the sweetness& niceneess in a man, no doubt. I just don't like to be overwhelmed with it, ya feel me?
 
Here's the reality of it. Women are very picky, period!!! I should know, and finally understand why I have been single for 7 years. It's the truth, women want thugs!! Sadly, i'm more of a nice guy. I stay away from being a thug. I'm not perfect. But it's sad!!🙁
 
I think it has to do with an age thing...when your younger (ie 16-25) girls enjoy excitement so the bad boy is the image they like. When a girl gets older something changes (realize they have to get serious about their life) so the bad boy image becomes only a fantacy because living a happy life is more important than living a fantacy...women realize their chances of being happy in life are better with a nice guy than a bad guy...
My question is why would anyone put themselves through that? You should have more respect for yourselve
 
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