The Other Woman!

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Psycho said:
I think my man knows what the fuk he's doing. And i have no choice but to stand up and applaud the guy!! Good show!! You the motha fukin' man!

I hope your not talking about the guy in this story cause if you are damn your a perro too! To play with two peoples feeling is really fuk'd up. This is not right, either one or the other but not both! My God what's happening in the world!!
 
shany69 said:
No matter what SHE does, he's the one who is disrespecting EVERYONE in this situation. A kid will believe that it is a bruise since they don't know what they really are. Her doing that would let all involved adults get clued in!

That's the whole idea, if he claims there's nothing going on with him and his wife, love bites would make no difference. But if there is something between him and his wife, the love bites would definatley be a NO, NO!!
 
Fernanda, my 1st quote was in response to Putana's. And I totally agree with you about the last one. The man, boy needs to grow up. Choose, kids will fare better in a loving home than a home where mom and dad treat each other like shiat.
 
Psycho said:
NOT!! The kids will continue to be clueless since they are kids and shouldn't be involved in the scuffle. And the dude isn't disrespecting no one. The girlfriend accepts him living with his wife and kids, and the wife accepts him stayin' out late and stayin' out all night at times. Hey, it looks like one big happy family. You can't put the brotha down 'cause he got game like that. Let's be real, he knows what he's doin'.

Hello, that is not the case here. The girl does not really know if she the girlfriend or the mistress. She is believing whatever he tells her but she has her suspicions (? however that's spelled). I think so too. But it's better to find out now so she is not the one responsible for braking up a home. Do you understand the situation now. 😕
 
Fernanda said:
I hope your not talking about the guy in this story cause if you are damn your a perro too! To play with two peoples feeling is really fuk'd up. This is not right, either one or the other but not both! My God what's happening in the world!!

Bow Wow!!

Let me tell you something Fernanda, as fuked up as it seems, we have to be real. Since it's your friend, you're takin' it personally, but if it were someone you didn't know, you'd probably say, Las estupida es ella, bueno que le pase". The guy can only play with your friend as much as your friend lets him. If she is accepting the situation, despite all the advice that she recieves, than i see no disrespect going on. And the guy should be commended for having the mental capacity and the smarts to keep such a Trio under control.
 
shany69 said:
Fernanda, my 1st quote was in response to Putana's. And I totally agree with you about the last one. The man, boy needs to grow up. Choose, kids will fare better in a loving home than a home where mom and dad treat each other like shiat.

I agree but it's sad cause the kids are the ones that lose in this situation no matter which of the women come out winning. If he stays, he will do it again and if he leaves, the kids lose there dad. It's really sad no matter how you look at it, cause alot of people gain to be hurt here.🙁
 
Honey, the only way she would be responsible is if she knew for sure and activly tried to break them up. I'm sure if he told her one way or the other she would make the right decision. The problem is she can only belive what she is told and no matter what anyone else thinks, I'm sure she wants to believe what he says! NO FUN HERE!
 
Fernanda said:
Hello, that is not the case here. The girl does not really know if she the girlfriend or the mistress. She is believing whatever he tells her but she has her suspicions (? however that's spelled). I think so too. But it's better to find out now so she is not the one responsible for braking up a home. Do you understand the situation now. 😕

If your friend really wanted to find out she would've. I think she's submerged in denial and is seemingly happy in that state of mind. If not she would do something about it.
 
Psycho said:
Bow Wow!!

Let me tell you something Fernanda, as fuked up as it seems, we have to be real. Since it's your friend, you're takin' it personally, but if it were someone you didn't know, you'd probably say, Las estupida es ella, bueno que le pase". The guy can only play with your friend as much as your friend lets him. If she is accepting the situation, despite all the advice that she recieves, than i see no disrespect going on. And the guy should be commended for having the mental capacity and the smarts to keep such a Trio under control.

No your wrong, I'm not taking it personal cause it's my bestfriend. I believe no one should have their feelings played with like this. My friend is trying to find out the truth in order to know what to do. If it turns out that he is really married and he has been lying to her and she choses to stay. Then the consequences is her to deal with. I will still be her friend but I'm not gonna want to hear it because I warned her. You understand now?
 
shany69 said:
Honey, the only way she would be responsible is if she knew for sure and activly tried to break them up. I'm sure if he told her one way or the other she would make the right decision. The problem is she can only belive what she is told and no matter what anyone else thinks, I'm sure she wants to believe what he says! NO FUN HERE!


Damn you are so right! That's why I'm trying to open her eyes so when she makes her decision there are no regrets.
 
shany69 said:
The problem is she can only belive what she is told and no matter what anyone else thinks, I'm sure she wants to believe what he says!

Finally some type of sense. I understand what you're trying to say, but you must be corrected in one point... she Does Not have to believe what he says. What he says is all she has to go by, but if what he says doesn't satisfy her doubts than she has to find other information to go by 'till she comes to a conclusion. And that conclusion will be, "ok, he's saying the truth, or he's not".
 
Psycho said:
If your friend really wanted to find out she would've. I think she's submerged in denial and is seemingly happy in that state of mind. If not she would do something about it.

I agree, but that's the problem here. She believes him but she has her doubts too. She tells me that if his wife is innocent her, she doesn't want to brake them up. She prefer that her man leaves her or gets divorce and start over with her. This way the wife wont think that he had someone.
 
Fernanda said:
No your wrong, I'm not taking it personal cause it's my bestfriend. I believe no one should have their feelings played with like this. My friend is trying to find out the truth in order to know what to do. If it turns out that he is really married and he has been lying to her and she choses to stay. Then the consequences is her to deal with. I will still be her friend but I'm not gonna want to hear it because I warned her. You understand now?

~singing~
No... no es amoooorrr. Lo que tu sientes, se llama obcesioooonn~

Huh? I'm sorry, did you say something. lol
 
Fernanda said:
I agree, but that's the problem here. She believes him but she has her doubts too. She tells me that if his wife is innocent her, she doesn't want to brake them up. She prefer that her man leaves her or gets divorce and start over with her. This way the wife wont think that he had someone.

lol, what's done is done Fernanda. What, she would be giving the wife a little peace of mind. Ojos que no ven, huh?
 
shany69 said:
You're right I didn't put it into words correctly. Replace "the only thing she can believe" with "the only info she has to work with is" and you have what I was trying to say

I know. 🙂
 
Psycho said:
Finally some type of sense. I understand what you're trying to say, but you must be corrected in one point... she Does Not have to believe what he says. What he says is all she has to go by, but if what he says doesn't satisfy her doubts than she has to find other information to go by 'till she comes to a conclusion. And that conclusion will be, "ok, he's saying the truth, or he's not".


I hear what your saying, but my friend doesn't want to show up at his house, confront the wife (if she doesn't know anything) and hurt the family. She just has some doubts about his living situation. I'm just trying to find a way to have her open her eyes and see the whole picture without her getting hurt too.
 
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