Brklyn345
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damianwild said:well nobody "becomes" gay along the way - it's not like converting to Scientology lol...a lot of people have those feelings but don't act on them for a long time because they feel they have to live their lives a certain way to please others, Some end up marrying and using other people in a very selfish way, knowing they are really gay, but only caring about what their needs are and not letting their wife to be know (I have a friend whose father did this) or sometimes they are users who decide to marry someone to get a green card and apply for alimony down the road. Who knows. All I know is that people don't wake up gay all of a sudden and you can be sure lil' Jonathan has been riding the Jamaican Beef Jerky trail for far longer than Christmas 2004
ROTF@Beef Jerky...seriously though, as far as "waking up gay" goes...it depends upon the individual...I'm gay because I chose to be...maybe that's what happened with this guy...after all she was in her 40's when they hooked up, and they were together for almost 10 years, so you know he probably had to deal with her menopausal issues and decided he didn't want to deal with that...believe it or not, it was that simple for me.