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hey everyone, I got a question. Me & fiance were together for 4 yrs. we have a 4 yr. old son. Well my fiance was in a car accident 1 yr. & a half ago. He was in the hospital for a week but he passed away. It was in June 3, 2001, 3 days before his 26th birthday. I was a mess for a long time after this happened. I thought about suicide so many times because he was & is still my first love. We had a future planned with a big famly and everything else. It took me a long time to realize that I had to go on livin for my son, Jose'. Now though after a year & a half I still wish my fiance was here. I think about him all the time. But my question is now that I'm a single mami is there any guys out there that will accept not only me & my situation but my son as well? I'm in no hurry to find a man but sometimes a girl does get lonely & would like some company or attention. Ya know. Also,I have a habit of comparing guys that I meet to my fiance'. Why do I do that? I just feel like a year & a half ago my life was set. I was happy & everything was great. And now everything is a mess & I just feel like damn I got to start over again and find someone who will accept my life as it is & my son. Ugh,and with alot guys bein dogs & playas how can a girl find a good man? I'd appreciate any advice. Thanx🙁
 
sorry to hear about your loss i was the same way when i lost my dad i did not wanna go on but i have to because he would not want me to give up and you say most guys are dogs ? and players i am a nice guy sometimes to nice i would accept you for you and always be around just keep your head up and you will be fine thats what i do i dont care what people think about me anymore if they dont know me or dont wanna know me i move on .
 
There r nice guys out there u just have 2 be patient. U have 2 be careful because nowadays a lot of guys will act like they accept that u have a son just 2 get a piece. Just be careful and follow your heart and one day u will find yourself truly happy and the reason that u compare guys u meet 2 your kids father is normal. It's because u have'nt had enough time 2 grieve over him. Hang in there and be strong and in the end everything will work out 4 u..............
 
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I think there are some guys out there that will accept you and your son! But you do have to be careful! As a female i know! i been there done that! I have my daughter wich just turned 5 and i have my son wich just turned 2 and they from two diffrent daddys. When i met my sons father my daughter was 2 and he accepted both of us! i understand it was a little hard for him because she wasn't his but as time went by they got along fine. I let the guy know from the door, i have my child and you either accept them or you don't! Don't get me wrong, you don't have to throw your child on whatever man you meet but if it is going to get a little serious then i would just let the guy know from the door what you want.
 
Wow, phillygurl I am very sorry about your loss. I'm sure it was and still is very hard for you, I can only imagine. It will take time but of course another man will take interest in you, and if he is a sweet loving man he will accept your son also. He should understand what you are going through because thats not easy. Good Luck!
 
There ARE good men who will accept you & your son.

I had a good man for 3 years..for along time I felt I was using him,
and I pushed him away. Only for my selfish needs, and in a way for doing that I got hurt by someone else. So we are in a recovery process..I asked him to give me time.

You will find a new love. It will take time. U will be happy.
Best of Luck
 
WELL MA I AM TRULY SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS, I CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW MUCH THAT WOULD HURT. "GOD FORBID!" WELL BABY GIRL THE YEARS PASS BY WE ALL GET OLDER AND TIME COMES TO MOVE FORWARD IN YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR SON, IT MIGHT NOT BE THE SMA EBUT WE ALL ADJUST.
DONT RUSH TAKE YOUR TIME UNTILL YOUR HEART HAS TRULY HEALED! THAN MAN WHO WILL ACCEPT YOU AND YOUR SON WILL COME TO YOU! THOSE OTHER GUYS ARE ALL IMMATURE MAMITA, AND THE ONE WHO CANT ACCEPT THE BOTH OF YOU CAN KISS IT BC I AM SURE HE IS THE ONE MISSING OUT! DONT SWEAT IT BABES. MUAHZZZZZZ
 
yeah,hey........

there can be a lot of GOOD guy's out there,i'm one of them.i DON'T even like being compared to other guy's i'm not a player and deff.NOT a dog.i happen to love kids very much i would accept u with or without kids,and as far as losing you'r loved one i'm deeply SORRY for you'r loss,i know how you'r feeling because i lost my father a day after i graduated from high school which also was on my b-day:sosad it may take a while but all the good things will happen for you and you'r son.BUT remember all men are NOT like that.........vapro:dj :mdance :shakinboo
 
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