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I had also noted that if the situation is bad enough to where the kids are being effected in a negative way, then it is best that they do split up, but men need to get there head out of their a$$ since that's where this problem begins.

I guess another thing is women need to start seeing through these guys that have no character and integrity.
 
FOREVERLOVE,

obviously this is not the situation you want to be in for the rest of your life, if he is not willing to step to the plate and help you out as a man of the house (whether it's your apartment or his) then he does not plan to at all. Maybe he is the type of guy that is used to having everything done for him, you need to let him know you ain't his MAMA, and he either has to help you out or get to stepping.

KX, like what you've said.
 
I have to agree with latino cop about the kids, it for better to have two parents who are happy seperate then unhappy together. Foreverlove I'm not one to tell anyone to dump anyone but you have to do whats right for you. If you dont take care of you then your no good to anyone else.
 
latinocop said:
He's the one that should leave not her. Even if she had kids or not. It was her place not his. Also, by having kids she will get the place not him. The law is set up that way. Unless she chooses to leave.
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*props! props!* very true. sounds like her boyfriend doesn't have the bolas to be a man.
 
Ya know so many women go thru things like this. And although I have had a great share of men problems, I am a firm believer that these niggas only do to us what we allow them to do to us. Its not just about them respecting us but about us respecting ourselves. You have to figure out why you are letting him do this to u. It took me a really long time to learn that. Think about u and those babies you have. They don't need o see allthat drama. Like someone posted earlier it's better to be happy alone then unhappy with that person. I know you love him but that shit gets old after awhile. You have to love yourself enough to not take that shit!
 
I dont think any one should stay in a relationship for the SAKE of the kids.. I did that! I was the SADDEST mom ever..My kids saw thru me.. saw how unhappy I was.. I finally got a divorce and YES it was HARD- not because I loved him but because he wasnt there for the kids.. but u know what? I survived..Raised my kids on my own.. and tho they are NOT perfect.. they SAW how much happier I was! Marriage is a partnership-- not Slavery!
 
One more thing.. U CANT raise happy, healthy kids or set an EXAMPLE for them if YOU'RE relationship is NOT a HAPPY, HEALTHY one..
 
for now on ladies be careful on who u pick as your man u dont have to take him cause u think he is hot the hottest person can also be the bad do what your heart says and look for somebody that does not beat on there girl and takes it out on the kids . i seen it to many times and say they will never learn they always say well he was a good man yea so good he beat u .
 
Thanks To Everyone For All The Advice. I Haven't Been Online For A Minute And Finally Caught Up With Everything. I Am Doing Better. Thanks Again Every Body. It Is Nice To Know You Can Vent Your Frustrations Without Judgement.
 
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